Sunday, May 4, 2008

Warmer Weather

Finally able to enjoy some time outside. Matt said there is a nice path around Parkridge so dad and him can enjoy the "fresh air".
Friday Matt had therapy at 1 pm in Parkridge. Did some weights. The physio focuses more on Matt's range of motion and technique then on the amount of weights he lifts. For example when he does the rowing she makes sure he reaches back as far as it can go, hold it for 1-2 secs and then go forward again. Threw the ball around for a bit. They were using the velcro ball and the plastic catcher with velcro on it. After a few times Matt said he didn't need it and started to throw and catch without it.
Saturday and today Matt doesn't have rehab so tries to do some exercises on his own, but is very difficult. One thing he finds is he can't stay in bed for as long as he did before otherwise he gets very stiff and numb. So likes to be up before 10 am. Matt had no company until today which makes for a long weekend, but sure enjoys it when someone comes.
Today was bath day. I noticed something was different, his hair was all shiny and he told me his feet don't stink anymore! I told him that is why he probably didn't have any company!
Prayers for continued healing and that the van will be in good working condition for next weekend, when Matt comes to visit in Red Deer. 1 Samuel 22:33-34 "It is God who arme me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights."

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Slower Pace

Yesterday Matt was feeling a bit more sluggish. Felt dizzy in the am which affected his exercises. He did the 20 mins on the arm bike and then went to City to do some standing exercises. Matt had to sit down on the first attempt at standing because he felt dizzy but managed to stand again. He did really well when he practiced taking small baby steps. The right foot is much stronger but they were surprised at the left, which he also took 2 good steps with. Now it is not the same steps you or I would take. Matt's brain and body have forgotten how to walk so they continually encourage him and tell him what he should be doing next: lift your foot, bend the knee, twist at the hip to swing your foot forward. If Matt's feet are a big sluggish they sometimes prod it forward with their own feet. So it is really a process but Matt never gives up!!
I actually had a laugh at one of the exercises they want Matt to practice to strengthen him to use the Sask Pole (remember, the pole that goes from ceiling to floor and is beside his bed to aide in transferring). They want him to practice a movement similar to starting a push mower and all I could picture is Uncle Neil at every dance I have ever seen him at doing the lawnmower dance, especially to "Old Time Rock and Roll"! So Matt, get Uncle Neil to come show you how it is done!
Matt also tried the stepper again but wasn't very successful. He had such a good day on Tuesday that it was hard to beat. I had forgot to mention on Tuesday Matt was able to transfer from the chair to the mat using the transfer board and only 2 people helping him, which was really great. It was also good when he got back to Parkridge he got a massage.
Today was sad because mom had to go back to work. But dad always steps up to the plate and pinch hits. She left at 1100 to get to work by 2:45, talk about cutting it close. I guess travelling that same route so many times over the last year gives her a good estimation about arrival time. Matt had therapy on his arms at 3:30. Went outside but still really windy. When I asked him if he was doing any exercises in bed he told me at every commercial, he opens his left hand. He tries not to close it because the muscle tone is so bad, if he closes it he can't get them open again. Works on wiggling his toes too. Keep at it Matt, the journey continues and we are all with you, if not in body , then in Spirit. Please put a memory verse in the blog comments for tonight. I'll get back on track for the next blog!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Heavy Workout

Monday Matt had some meetings to figure out the best rehab for him. They discussed what he could do and how they could build on his strengths. A person from City came over to discuss what they would be doing for Matt over there.
So today they put Matt through his paces. First he did the arm bicycle for 20 mins. A trip to City rehab had more work for him. They worked Matt on the mat for 1 hour, rolling, sitting up. He discovered he could balance himself fairly well while sitting, so they have decided to do one day a week on the mat and one day a week standing/walking. You have to crawl before you can walk. It will be great to work out the core muscles such as his abs and back so they are stronger when he eventually walks by himself. So after being on the mat his neck was sore but they were not through with him yet. Matt went to the gym for 1/2 hour and did the stepper for one full minute by himself. He was very proud of himself and so are we!!
They also tried the rowing machine or upper body tone machine. He did way better then he had previously in his right hand but they were very suprised at his left hand. The way it works is they start with nothing, then some tension, then some weights at the beginning. So the left could hardly do anything when he was at City when there was nothing on the machine. However now he now can move the machine with a little tension on it.
Matt got to try a new machine they have which they didn't think would work for Matt. It makes his arms move like he was cross country skiing. The increments are from 1-7 and Matt could do increment 2. Matt, you not only amaze the staff but you also amaze all your die hard fans!!
Tommorrow he again goes to City . But first they will teach Matt to do self cathaterizations. It will increase his independence and help increase dexterity.
Will write more tomorrow. Keep praying and praising!!

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Lots of Company

Was finally able to speak with mom and Matt. We were in Calgary for Jacki's birthday and just got back tonight. Matt looks so good because he got rid of his facial hair. He says he looks 15 but I think he looks great!
Matt is still not feeling great in the am and early pm, but by 4 pm he feels like his normal self. Mom was really pushing Matt Saturday to do his exercises. However she did it after he had his sleeping pills, so not good planning. But Matt always puts on his best performance and was able to hold the "bridge" position for 25 seconds. Matt is laying in bed and mom helps to bend his knees and hold them. Then he lifts his butt off the bed and has to hold that position. He was teasing mom that she couldn't hold that postion for 25 seconds! Go team Matt!! She also makes him move his left hand all the time and even though it makes him spasm it is improving, even if it is slow.
The weather hasn't been cooperating in Sask so not too much touring outside. But thank goodness for lots of company, it always makes the time go faster.
Played Wii against mom. They decided on golf. Matt beat mom. She didn't do too bad but her putting needs some work. So with two good arms mom couldn't beat Matt. Wait until the left really starts pulling ahead, then you could even beat me!!
Tonight Matt and I were asking trivia questions related to the bible. Matt had a few that were so difficult for me so I better start reading some more!
Psalms 147:10-11 "His pleasure is not in the strength of the horse, nor his delight in the legs of a man; the Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love."

Friday, April 25, 2008

Work, work, work

Mom got back on Wednesday and she hasn't given Matt a moment of peace. She used to say the same thing to Jacki and I when we would get home from school. "Oh good, you're home, now you can work, work, work"! The rehab has also been breathing down Matt's neck to do his "homework". Every day Matt has certain things he must accomplish, march in bed (if he can) leg curls, move both his arms every 20 mins, stuff like that.
Rehab on Wednesday was the arm bike. It is a little older, but they have rigged it up so it is higher and Matt has to use his shoulders more. Finds it easier to move and did it for 15 mins straight. Pretty stiff the rest of the day. I can tell by watching him in the video that he is moveing a little easier. Unfortunately Matt wasn't feeling so good and the soon found out why. He had another bladder infection. But by Thursday he had drank 3 1/2 litres of water to flush the nasties out of his system and is feeling much better.
Thursday Matt had another session with his arms on the pulley. They don't have anything to work his legs so has to wait until he goes to City rehab, hopefully next week. Matt was also able to enjoy some more company.
Matt met another quad in Parkridge who has been ther for 11 years. He severed his spinal cord C3 C4 I think while playing hockey when he was 22 years old. So he has no movement. Matt went to see his room and was quite impressed how it was set up. There is a huge 50 inch plasma screen TV, and everything is run by his wheelchair. The controls are on the head portion of the chair and if he turns his head a certain way, the chair moves. If he turns it another way, the TV comes on. Quite amazing.
I haven't been able to speak to mom or Matt today, so not much to say about Friday. Just want to take the time to thank the Lord for all the blessings we have received. Matt's continued progress, a great support system, caring staff, warm and comfortable bed, a great mom and dad, the list goes on and on. Psalms 84;12 "O Lord Almighty, blessed is the man who trusts in you"

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

No rehab yet

Things are of to a slow start regarding rehab. But Matt is very optimistic and in good spirits. Monday his neck was really hurting so the physio came and did some stretches. She said his left shoulder is hanging lower than the right which is causing him alot of the discomfort. The stretches really helped and last evening his neck wasn't hurting quite so bad. Matt talked to Nolan on the phone, watched hockey (yes he did see Montreal beat Boston!) and decided to stay in from the cold. For breakfast Matt had pancakes and pork sausage. He hadn't had pancakes for years and found he really liked them, especially when you eat them with sausage! For supper they served him chicken stew. Matt was tentative but once he started he really loved it.
Tonight he didn't have much time to talk. He was able to play a bit of Wii for rehab and had company. Said he didn't do too much seeing the weather still wasn't cooperating. Glad that he is having some company and will talk to him again tomorrow night. God's blessing on all!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

1st bath in 6 months

Matt seems to really be settlng in to his new environment. God never asks if the burden is too much, He just gives the strength to persevere. And our expectations of a certain situation are never as clear as when the Lord is in control.
On Saturday Matt was able to meet some of the long term residents. But they are not exactly what would be expected. One is a llama, there is a minature horse, tarantula, and a snake which Matt had the immense pleasure of wrapping around his neck! Not for me thank you, but Matt said it was actually not that bad. I will take his word for it and leave it to my imagination! It even went on Matt's hand and tasted him with its forked tongue! Yuck!
Had a visitor form City, one of the occupational therapists. For supper, Matt had chicken breast, ginger beef, and some other tasty things. He was pretty impressed.
Today he had a bath. While at City, he had showers instead so this was the first bath he has had since RUH. What a feeling that must have been. Had more company. Barrett for rehab came. He had been a patient at Parkridge as well as rehab. Krista the RN came again so he wasn't lonely. The weather wasn't cooperating so he didn't venture outside. For supper Matt had 2 hamburgers, some real roast beef, with great gravy and some oven roast potatoes. Thank goodness they took the feeding tube out! He will gain so many pounds that they will have to order a new chair! A far cry from when he weighed a meager 165 lbs and was struggling with everything. God is truly watching over you and giving you the good things in life now. Only those who have been without can really appreciate when it comes back to them.
Met a family who recognized Matt from rehab. Their mother had been a patient and had often seen Matt with dad, so they were able to start up a conversation.
To anyone that wants to visit,Matt is on the 2nd floor, Northridge II, room 214. Each pod is called a neighborhood, and in each neighborhood are 45 patients. What he was impressed with is that each one has a big screen TV to watch. Of course! That way he can watch the hockey games on a big plasma screen!
Matt was also able to keep the same bed he had in rehab so that is one thing familiar. So many things to be thankful for. Give time tonight to be thankful for everything in your life. God loves to hear songs of praise.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Brighter Day

Got to talk to dad today. He felt the move went really well, however Matt not having a TV with a remote was a downer. That would have put a frown on Matt the TV addicts face! So Krista, a RN from city came down to check things out to see if everything was going okay. When she found out Matt didnt have a TV she went home and brought back a 20 inch TV with a remote, some weights, and anything else she thought Matt needed. I had forgot to mention when Matt went to Subway for supper, he was unable to get in because someone was parked in front of the ramp. So Matt had to wait outside while dad went and got him what he wanted. Well Krista heard that and happened to know the manager of the Subway, so I don't think Matt will have a problem next time! There was also some confusion regarding Matt's catheter supplies, bowel care products etc. Again Krista staightened everything out which Matt and dad were grateful.
Dad is really optimistic about the whole thing. The scenery is much better than originally thought and there is more places to go. The dining room is huge with a big common room, big screen TV, etc. The meals are really good. They have it buffet style and yesterday they were serving beef strogonaff, potatoes, gravy, the works. Of course it had to pass the sniff test, because with Matt he doesn't like new things and only likes mom's cooking, so was tentative. However once he started eating, he wolfed down the whole thing! No offence but I am sure it beats hospital food.
It turns out Parkridge has some staff working there that have ties to Porcupine and Weekes. The director? of nursing looked familiar to dad, and she asked if they were from Weekes. It turns out she had an uncle Andy Macdonald from Weekes, so dad and her chatted a bit. Then the doctor of Parkridge came to see Matt. His last name is Yelland and grew up in Porcupine!! While dad and Matt were outside, they heard a horn honking and it was one of the staff form ICU. She stopped to tell them she lives right dowwn the block and they should come sometime for a visit.
Matt even got to keep the same bed he had in City. So things are really looking alright. God knows what we need before we do, and if we trust in Him, he will provide our needs. Thanks agian to all who continue to keep reading the blog. Thanks also to Pat Gustafson who wrote about her son Andy. Not sure where you are from but have a visit with Matt if you are in the city. It is always great to have company. It sounds like rehab will start next week, so hopefully it wil go as well as when he was at the hospital.
Will speak with Matt tonight. He was so tired last night he went to bed at 9pm.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Move To Parkridge

This will be a short blog tonight. Just wanted to say the move was a success. Matt went to Parkridge just after 9 am this am. He was down hearted tonight, new place with new staff, new environment, new things to get used to all over again. There may be some problems when Matt needs to be cathaterized. The staff ratio is 6 nurses to 42 patients so when he rings the call bell, it will take some time before a staff will get there. I could see in his face he was trying to be positive but feeling overwhelmed and out of place.
Was able to go down to Subway for supper. The surroundings are quite a change as well, Parkridge is located on 22nd ave and not the most scenic. However each move that Matt has made he has done well after a few days, and each move was traumatic. But in time they will come to know him and love him. So prayers for some sleep tonight and that the transition stage will be over soon and the settling-in stage will start. No matter where you go Matt, God will follow you and carry you through it. Love you lots!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Can't Keep A Good Man Down

That Matt never ceases to amaze me with his resilience. He bounces back so well. The biggest hurdle about getting down is climbing back up and Matt always does just that. Yesterday he was in much better spirits. A resident who was doing a special exam on Matt had all the young medical students with him, so Matt had alot of attention. They tested his peripheral nerves or the ones that extend from his spinal cord to his body and extremeties. Matt can feel everything normally at about the C6 level, and then the feelings are less distinct. The resident tests Matt with dull and sharp to see if Matt can distinguish between the two. After the nipple area and down to his toes, Matt states it always feels dull, even when they are poking him with something sharp.
During OT, Matt played crib. He can now pick up al six cards at once but he can't open them up to see what they are. So he looks at them one at a time, memorizes what and where they are face down on the table, discards the two he doens't want and plays that way. He doesn't use the card holder any more which is a step up. Was able to take a trip outside and was less anxious. Still had a few "breathless" periods, but the resp therapist checked him over and stated it wasn't his lungs. However she did give him a royal tongue lashing about Matt not doing his breathing exercises, which are so important.
A social worker from Parkridge came over to talk with Matt about the move. Incidently, the social worker is related to Uncle Bob Thompson, small world!! She explained how everything workes. Matt will get 3 days a week rehab at Parkridge, then come to City 2 days a week as an outpatient. Matt was feeling pretty comfortable about the whole thing by the end of the talk.
Today was another good day. Matt again did his standing exercise, and was quite excited that he was able to take a small step with his right foot without any assistance. Overall he took 20 steps, with lots of help. Fantastic Matt!! Ask and you shall receive!
Went down to ICU and said his goodbyes. There were definetely a few tears shed in that room. Matt leaves for Parkridge at 10am tomorrow. Paul Gustafson came over to give his positive feelings about the move and Matt is really looking forward to it. We don't have much to worry about because Matt always has his cheerleaders beside him, making sure everyone tows the line. Paul also is encouraging Matt to practice self-catheterization, so he can do it himself instead of relying on someone else. Matt can void 200 mls into a urinary bottle, howwever his bladder holds 500 mls, so after an hour he still feels like he has to go. So still needs to use the catheter. But everything is getting better, however slow it may be. I was reminded of Fanny Crosby's old hymn "Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, let the earth hear his voice, praise the Lord, praise the Lord, let the people rejoice. O come, to the Father throught Jesus the Son, and give him the glory great things he hath done!" Prayers always need to followed with praise.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Two Tough Days

Sunday was a difficult day mentally for Matt. He had went outside with dad and the weather was quite beautiful. However with warmer weather brings people riding bikes, playing ball, tossing a frisbee. Matt was finding it really hard to see everyone having fun and he couldn't do the same things. Depression had set in and would not give up its hold. Monday was another mentally exhausting day. He tried to do his exercises but felt he couldn't breathe. Anxiety hit him like a ton of bricks. He said he tried so many things to shake it off but it stuck. I had talked to mom last night and I think she really needs a lifting of her spirits. The world can get pretty heavy and the weight just continues to push down on her. Then when I spoke to Matt, the same feelings that mom was experienceing was being felt by Matt as well.
However by the end of the conversation, Matt said he was feeling a bit better, and I prayed that the night would not be endless and today would be a better day. I think the trigger was hearing that Matt would be moved to Parkridge Nursing Home within the week. Mom does not want Matt to go and is not sure what to do. Parkridge does have a step down rehab, but it is not as intense as City and we don't want Matt to lose what he has. We want him to continue to gain in strength and abilities. So prayers for God to show us the way. We are not sure what to pray for and this verse says it best. Romans 8:26 "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express".

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Not too much to say tonight

Sorry about the late blog. The problem is I talked to Matt last night, had all the information written down, and now I can't find the paper!! My memory is so bad I can barely remember what Matt did. I know he was happy to have some company on Friday. Dad and him went outside to enjoy the wonderful weather (Friday or Saturday). +15 degrees but said it was cool in the shade. He laughs at dad because he watches over Matt like a mother hen, always asking if he is too cold, hungary, comfortable, etc.
Matt tried out the stepper machine on Friday and was able to do 30 secs by himself without the physio pushing down on his knees! Great job Matt, keep it up.
Watched Tv on Saturday, hockey and some of the Master's golf. His neck is very sore and it was hard to watch him last night. I just wanted to reach through the screen and rub his neck. I wasn't able to speak to him tonight so not sure how Sunday was for him. But no news is good news.
Hopefully with the week starting I will have more news tomorrow. Lekker slaap which means sleep well in Afrikaans. John is trying to teach me, but the going is rough! Jonmarie picks up up much quicker.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Making Pizza

I am having a difficult time choosing titles, because Matt is doing so much it is hard to pick just one.
Tuesday Matt settled back into the routine of work, work, work! He stood for 2 intervals, 5-6 minutes each time.He was happy when the fist time he stood, he didn't get dizzy. He wasn't able to take a step, but standing well. Matt aslo tried a new machine. It is like a stepper but when you are sitting down. His knees are bent at a 90 degree angle, and then he has to push down. The physio would help push on the top of his knee so he could get started. Had a harder time with the left, but that will come in time. Great exercise for increasing muscle strength in his quads. Matt was able to visit with Rocky and Barret. Paul Gustafson came by to visit and see how things were going.
Wednesday Matt had a shave and a haircut. Thank goodness he doesn't look like Rasputin anymore!! Wasn't feeling great though, has a really sore throat. However Matt persevered and stood up during exercises with lots of help. He even took 2 really good steps with his right foot. Didn't go far but it is better to have quality, not quantity. Continues to do all his arm exercises and stretches. Mom says if she takes the cap off a plastic bottle, and then puts it back on, Matt can remove it himself, so his fine motor skills are improving. Went to the mall for two hours. Didn't see anyone he knew but most of the students are busy with exams. When they returned, Matt was stuck in the van for 1/2 hours because the lift wouldn't work. Finally someone from physio came and tried a bunch of stuff. Finally the lift worked. Thank goodness it wasn't too cold outside.
This morning Matt was making pizza, so I am sure it was gone in record time. Had a visitor from Hudson Bay, a fellow who was in rehab and discharged in January. No swimming today, so hopefully next week. Matt was a little down tonight because mom had to go back to work. So we talked for over 40 minutes on Skype. Got to see the new haircut and shave. Matt states he feels naked now. Cool on the face.
Prayers for continued healing and more good things to come.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Back To Work

Well Matt is back at the hospital after a weekend in Weekes. Little bittersweet. It was a tough trip emotionally and physically. The ride is very bumpy and the weather wasn't great. His neck was sore all weekend and is feeling fresh pain after the trip back to Saskatoon. Wasn't able to have any rehab today becasue they didn't get back until the afternoon. Matt is visiting with a fellow patient who fractured his lower back and couldn't talk tonight.
I think Matt finds it hard to go back home. The reality is too much to take at times and he really wants to go downstairs to see his room, his things. Hopefully we can rig something up so next time he can get downstairs.
Matt made a few trips to the Golden Age to play crib. Dad had to push Matt in the small manual wheelchair to do this, because the way in is too narrow for the big cadillac. Matt had one small misshap. When taking him into the house from uptown, he slide out of the chair onto the floor. He is just too big for that little chair!! Good thing they were already in the house and quickly went and got the lift to get him back up.
Mom says when doing exercises this weekend, she saw a noticeable difference in the strength of his left arm. He can bend it more easily, and does it without thinking about it so much. It has a long way to go, but it is coming!! Most C-spine injuries have very little if no progress after 8 months post-injury, but Matt keeps blowing that theory out of the water! To get movement back in a limb so long after injury is just truly amazing and we Thank God everyday for each tiny miracle. So far to go yet, but we are more than half way there!
Please pray for continued healing and a rejuvanation of spirit to continue the battle. An uplifting of spirits is always welcome for anyone! psalms 51;10:12 "Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me."

Friday, April 4, 2008

New BIke

I am at work right now, and I forgot all Matt's information at home so I will try and wing it. (Don't worry, I am at John's office, he can't fire me!!)
Wednesday Matt was able to try out a new bike. I have seen them before on TV, especially on long bike races. They transfer Matt into it with the lift. He sits very low to the ground with his legs extended in front of him. The way he makes the bike move is with arm power. But the good thing is Matt has to use both arms to get it going, not just relying on his right arm. He did really well however he hasn't got the technique for turning yet and ran into a few walls!! He will use this machine once a week in the gym. They were also impressed how well he sat in the machine. Only needed a velcro strip.
Matt also did some standing exercises, trying to get those big clod hoppers to move. Needed lots of help but still progressing. Visited with Rocky and Barett. And sorry, but Matt did some more baking and there are no cookies left. They were gone in 5 minutes. Of course they were double chocolate chewy things so what did you expect? Matt did everything except measure the margarine, it was too hard from being in the freezer.
Thursday Matt had more visitors. Didn't have as much rehab today because he had a Dr's appt with the urologist. He was impressed by Matt's improvement and credits alot to the new meds he is on. Previously in December, Matt's bladder could only hold 100mls and would start to spasm. Now he can hold 300 mls. Occupational therapy consisted of playing Sorry, which Matt lost.
Today the troop should be going home for the weekend. Mom doesn't work so it should be much better. Will go the Golden Age to kick butt in crib and maybe get up to see grandma at the nursing home. It might be possible to use the standing machine there for Matt to practice but will have to see.
Tonight I will only be able to talk to Matt on the phone. I was really enjoying seeing him on the computer, but dial up at the farm just won't cut it!

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Matt's Big Belly

Yesterday was able to see/hear Matt on Skype. I made him show me all of his moves. It took awhile because they would have to reposition the camera for different angles. It was amazing the difference from the end of February until now. He lifted his bum way off the bed 5 times in a row, was able to cross his legs in bed, however was difficult with the spasms at times. His left hand is what really amazed me. When I was there, he could barely move his fingers at all. Now if mom holds the hand just right, he can move his fingers more easily. It reminded me so much of the video I have of Matt's right arm moving at first. Of course I also saw Matt's big belly!! On most people that would be not a great thing, however it is wonderful to see on Matt!! I thinks he may be over 190lbs, a far cry from the measly 165 lbs he once was.
Rehab has been a bit slow. No standing for awhile, many staff are sick. However they did a re-evaluation of Matt's strength in his right arm. He can now lift 1 kg with his bicep, which is the weakest muscle on his arm, 3 kg weight when he pulls his arm across the chest, and 3 kg when using his tricep. That is kg, not lbs! Keep up the good work! They had Matt transfer to the elevated mat in gym by using the transfer board. It takes two people to help him, but once he gains more strength he could do it himself. The got Matt to then practice rolling on the mat. He did really well turning on his left side, but needs work to be able to turn on right side.
Mom arrived yesterday so I was able to speak/see her on Skype. Matt was glad to see her back. Today they were able to visit for over an hour with Casey Peterson, a quad from Kelvington. He had a C6 injury 6 years ago so great to hear about some of the things he has tried. He went to China for stem cell replacement?, but not much improvement with feeling in his legs, however it helped with his bowels, which is a huge issue. He also attended a few months at ProjectWalk. It helped a little but not to much. He has no movement or feeling below the chest, I believe.
Tomorrow they are trying a new machine so can't wait to hear all about it. Praise for Matt's continued progress, God truly is never far away, He is just one step behind Matt, encouraging him all the way. Isaiah 30:21 "Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you,saying, 'This is the way;walk in it'"

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Seen Matt on WebCam

Well I had an exciting call this evening. Matt has now signed up with Skype on the computer, which allows him to talk for free via the internet if someone else has Skype. Not only did I speak with him, I was able to see him via webcam and he could see me. It was great!! So if anyone wants to talk to Matt, sign up with Skype. It is free download and free computer to computer talking. Saves a bundle. However I have to wait until the kids are asleep, can't chase after them sitting at the computer.
Matt says he gained weight, appr. 190lbs. Dad says that Matt is eating the hospital food now, which probably means he is starving and anything tastes good then!
On Friday, Matt had forgot to mention he tried something new. He baked cookies!! I teased him and said that is something completely new, he didn't even do that before the accident!! He poured the ingredients, stirred the batter, and dropped them on the sheet. However the therapist had to put them in the oven, the tray was too heavy.
Weekend was quiet, did go outside today and took a tour of the park grounds. Not too cold. Really lazy day. Mom will be back tomorrow after her shift to give dad a break. Prayers for her safe travel and Matt's continued progress.

Friday, March 28, 2008

No Swimming For Awhile

Matt was unable to do any swimming this week. They have closed down for maintenance and it may not be up and running for a long time. However Matt's week has been pretty full(so has mine, that's why it has taken me so long to update!). Wednesday Matt wasn't feeling very well, hadn't slept much and just general tired and nauseated. He did try and stand during rehab, but they had the old standing machine where he is on a treadmill and put into a "jolly jumper" type contraption. It wasn't as good but it serves the purpose.
However Thursday he was more like himself and did well with his exercises. They had the old sit/stand machine back and Matt was quite strong. When he tried to take a step forward, they were suprised when his left foot came right off the floor by itself and he took one step!! Very unusual since it is Matt's right leg that is stronger. Maybe it is because Matt has a brace on his left leg, who knows. We are just thankful he did it. Dad, Matt and Bradon braved the elements and decided to head for the Mac store. Dad would ask Matt if he was getting cold and Matt would check his left hand with his right hand to see if it was getting too cold. Lots of company in the evening so that always lifts his spirits.
Today Matt's feet were rooted in cement. He just couldn't take a step forward however it beat his own record in standing, appr. 10 mins. Physio saff is impressed with Matt's weight training, gaining more strength all the time in his left and right arms. Slow but sure, Matty. We all like turtles! Spasms have really diminished since the weekend. Whenever Matt has any little cold, infection, or pain, the spasms get worse. So prior to Easter he had a toenail reoved and his feeding tube removed so that had started his funky chicken dance!
Thanks to all who continue to remember Matt in their prayers, who come to see him, who help out in any way. By doing so you show a love for your fellow man. 1 Cor. 13:13 "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love". You have helped all of us transition to a "new kind of normal".

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Back To the Hospital

Monday Matt was supposed to return to the hospital, however the weather decided Matt should stay in Weekes for one more day. Nolan and Lindsay left in the morning and phoned back to say the road conditions were not great and Dad and Matt should not travel. So Matt was happy to stay on for an extra day. When I talked to him he was visiting with Bryan, Brenda, and Bradon Kipling and was just about to play the Wii. I asked him how the dance went and said it was great. Whenever a cute girl would walk by, he would pinch her on the bottom. when they would turn to him and give him what for, he would always say "It was a spasm". I don't think too many of them fell for that!! Sneaky, Matt, sneaky.
Today Dad and Matt travelled back to rehab. Mom worked a double shift today, and had just enough time to come home for a few hours to get Matt out of bed and get his stuff ready to go. Work, work, work!!
Thanks to all who stopped in to visit Matt. Loves to see familiar faces in a familiar surrounding. Hoping Matt can come visit Red Deer in May. We purchasd a new laser machine to help promote healing and feel Matt could benefit from it, especially with the pain in his neck. We tried it on Gary's sore knee, and after one treatment the pain was gone. Hopefully it will also work on the black spots on the bottom of Matt's heals. They were pressure sores that went bad. Just have to see if old Betsy can make it this far (again, not mom!).
Prayers for continued recovery and by August of this year, Matt will be home for good. I think he has had enough of hospitals, however they do become a safe zone after you have been there for so long. I found a poem in the Daily Bread. It says "Where Jesus reigns there is no fear, no restless doubt, no hopeless tear. No raging sea nor tempest dread, but quietness and calm instead." With fresh memories of Easter, let's trust that He CAN do all things.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter Sunday

Matt had a laid back weekend. Mom was at work until the afternoon both Saturday and Sunday, so Matt got to stay in bed until she got back. However on Saturday Auntie Karen and Uncle Neil came over and played Wii with Matt. He said it is very addicting and doesn't realize he has over done it until his neck is stiff and sore later on. So when it was time to go to the wedding dance of a friend of Nolan's on Saturday night, Matt really didn't feel like going. However he got there aroung 10:30pm and at first felt very nervous and awkward with everyone looking at him. However he stayed for 3 hours until dad came and picked him up. Nolan and Lindsay were there for moral support.
Today Brenda and Bryan Kipling were there with Bradon and were just about to play Wii when I phoned at 7:30 pm. Matt is really enjoying being at home with family and friends. Mom says Matt can help out so much more with his care, leaning forward in the chair when mom dresses him, helping roll over in the bed, feeding himself, etc. Tomorrow he has to return to the hospital and realizes it is necessary, but doesn't make it any easier. Unfortunately with mom working Matt hasn't been getting as much exercises as he needs. The Wii helps alot, but it doesn't help with the legs.
Prayers that when Matt comes home the next time, he can transfer from the wheelchair to the bed on the board with 2 people. The lift they had this time was a manual lift and it didn't lift Matt up very high so you always needed 2 people.
Today at church, the pastor spoke of the greatest miracle, the resurrection. After Jesus was raised from the dead, many didn't believe it. Jesus said to them in Luke 24:25-26 "..how foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! Did not the Christ have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?" Believing is so much easier when it is seen, and our weak human natures have difficulty with the unseen. Thank you Lord for your word that is proof of the greatest miracle.