Saturday, March 1, 2008

Another Saturday

Friday was a tiring day. Matt didn't sleep well, maybe too much excitement. However he was able to stand for a little while and the rehab staff were very impressed with how well his left arm is doing. The hand is very slow in coming, but it is more important for Matt to regain the bend in his elbow. And I must state a correction. Matt can lift 2 kg's with his right hand, not 2 lbs, which is a big difference. Mom had to go back to work so dad is there again to take the next shift.
Today was very quiet, no visitors but Matt was tired anyway. Was able to go outside for a few minutes to enjoy the brief interlude of warm weather. He continues to eat well and still unsure if his weight has increased. That is one massive hollow leg to fill!!
Matt no longer wearing a trach dressing, and he has a massive scar on his throat. What a story he'll have to tell his grandchildren. He said he would tell them he was shot and lived to tell the tale!!Actually he had said that about the scars on his chest from the chest tubes. That must have been a massive gun battle, just like the OK corral!!
When I talked to dad, he was at the new place. Nadine Smith was gracious enough to allow mom and dad to stay in her house in Saskatoon. God continues to bless us wilth wonderful people who come through when we need it the most. Family support is so important for the healing process and for stability.
Prayers for Matt's neck. Mom said he has contant pain in it and really gets him down somedays. psalms 86:6-7 "Hear my prayer, O Lord; listen to my cry for mercy. In the day of my trouble I will call to you, for you will answer me."

Thursday, February 28, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Hapyy 21st Birthday Matty! Hope you had great presents...I mean a great day! Wednesday Matt went out to watch the movie "Fool's Gold" with Kristan from rehab and another fellow outpatient. Said it wasn't too bad.
Today was quite exciting. At rehab Matt stood for 8 minutes!! That is a big jump from 1 min. What a birthday gift that was!! Matt aslo did some arm exercises but felt he didn't do very well because he was tired from all the standing. However the rehab staff disagreed and told him he just keeps getting better. Went to lunch in the hospital with Rocky. Matt was going to go out to supper tonight but he knew that he would have company this evening and didn't want to tire himself out. So took a short visit to ICU, but they were so busy they didn't have much time to chat. Had a short nap between 5-7pm until the hordes of visitors came bearing gifts. Balloons, chocolates, cake, movies, etc. I just finished on the phone with mom and all I could hear was noise in the background. Just one big party.
Thanks to everyone who continues to think about Matt, and all the visits and blog comments. They brighten his day so much and really encourage him to push himself. God bless each and every one of you!!PSalms 34:15 "The eyes of the Lord are on the rightgeous and his ears are attentive to their cry".

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Computer up and Running (Matt is Next!)

Tonight was the first night Matt was able to really use his computer in his room. The one problem with this is my detail to the blog and the consistency of my writing will have to shapen up. Matt asked mom why I didn't write the blog last night! Every 2 nights are all I can seem to do but I will work on it Matt!
Monday Matt wasn't able to use the pool yet or do any standing, but the physio said Matt just keeps improving on his right arm. His coordiantion and strength is slowly growing. He was supposed to get an ingrown toenail removed but some miscommunication and it wasn't done. With quadrapelegics, any little thing can send them off into a potentially serious medical condition called autonomic hyperreflexia. A big word meaning his blood pressure goes up rapidly and his heart rate goes down. Other things happen as well. So something as simply as an ingrown toenail can cause all sorts of problems. But Matt seems to do better than most so don't worry Matt. You have the Great Physician looking out for you.
Today Matt was able to talk with the psychologist about not going home anytime soon and other things. Great they have that service so Matt is free to speak what he feels to someone else rather than his family. We are great, of course! but we don't know how to approach every situation. Again no standing but mom is vigilant on making Matt do whatever exercises he can while not at rehab. The physio stresses that if Matt wants to walk again he must exercise whenever he can. So she was very impressed today when Matt could turn his left wrist when held in the proper position. Mom says he starts with the palm facing down, then she asks Matt to turn it so the palm is facing his body, then so it is facing outwards. Mom has to hold it perfect in order for Matt to accomplish this feat, but he can do it! Matt was also able to hold his left arm straight above his head for a few seconds and his hand straight as well when he was in the bed. The natural tendency of Matt's hand is to either flop forward when lifted or flop backwards. Even with his right hand, if he lifts it above his head you must remind him to keep his hand straight. The physio was even more amazed when she asked Matt to then place his left hand on his chest from the elevated position. He was able to do it with alot of concentration and determination. So I asked mom , that would mean he bent his elbow and she said it appears so. That is a huge step and praise be to God for his continued blessings on Matt!! I get so excited to think of all the praise items we have, compared to last summer. There is a great song which has such wonderful words.
"Shout to the Lord, all the earth let us sing, Power and majesty praise to our King. Mountains bow down and the seas will roar at the sound of your name. I sing for joy at the works of your hands, Forever i'll love you forever I'll stand. Nothing compares to the promise I have in You".
P.S. I have a video of Matt standing, so if anyone would like it, please leave your email on the blog so I can send it. It is in JPEG format.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Quiet Weekend

Not too much to report today. While I was in Saskatoon, I had bought Matt some stretchy bands and 1 lb weight's to work with while in his room. The physio gave mom some exercises to do with them and has been working pretty well. Continues to do the leg exercises while in the chair, up to 3 times a day. Matt's right leg can kick much higher than his left and is getting stronger everyday. They also encourage Matt to try and lift his bum up. He can lift the right butt cheek slightly but not the left. Prayers that the left arm and hand will wake up and start to move more. He is able to move it a bit but not enough to do anything with it. Prayers that the left elbow will bend as well, as that would help in Matt being able to transfer from bed to chair by himself. Paul writes in Ehesians about just how much we are cherished by God. Verse 18-19 "may have power together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is th love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God".
I forgot to mention while I was there we talked with the social worker. We were quite worried Matt would be discharged at the end of February and we were not prepared. We want Matt at home only when he is capable and shows more improvement. The hospitals understanding was that we wanted him at home as soon as possible. So some mixed communication there and everything is on hold for awhile. Matt will stay in the rehab department until a transition bed is available somewhere else in the city. Then Matt will likely stay at the transition facility for another 90 days. So that could give us until August, which would be better weather for moving (we hope, you never know in Canada when winter will come again!.