Friday, April 4, 2008

New BIke

I am at work right now, and I forgot all Matt's information at home so I will try and wing it. (Don't worry, I am at John's office, he can't fire me!!)
Wednesday Matt was able to try out a new bike. I have seen them before on TV, especially on long bike races. They transfer Matt into it with the lift. He sits very low to the ground with his legs extended in front of him. The way he makes the bike move is with arm power. But the good thing is Matt has to use both arms to get it going, not just relying on his right arm. He did really well however he hasn't got the technique for turning yet and ran into a few walls!! He will use this machine once a week in the gym. They were also impressed how well he sat in the machine. Only needed a velcro strip.
Matt also did some standing exercises, trying to get those big clod hoppers to move. Needed lots of help but still progressing. Visited with Rocky and Barett. And sorry, but Matt did some more baking and there are no cookies left. They were gone in 5 minutes. Of course they were double chocolate chewy things so what did you expect? Matt did everything except measure the margarine, it was too hard from being in the freezer.
Thursday Matt had more visitors. Didn't have as much rehab today because he had a Dr's appt with the urologist. He was impressed by Matt's improvement and credits alot to the new meds he is on. Previously in December, Matt's bladder could only hold 100mls and would start to spasm. Now he can hold 300 mls. Occupational therapy consisted of playing Sorry, which Matt lost.
Today the troop should be going home for the weekend. Mom doesn't work so it should be much better. Will go the Golden Age to kick butt in crib and maybe get up to see grandma at the nursing home. It might be possible to use the standing machine there for Matt to practice but will have to see.
Tonight I will only be able to talk to Matt on the phone. I was really enjoying seeing him on the computer, but dial up at the farm just won't cut it!

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Matt's Big Belly

Yesterday was able to see/hear Matt on Skype. I made him show me all of his moves. It took awhile because they would have to reposition the camera for different angles. It was amazing the difference from the end of February until now. He lifted his bum way off the bed 5 times in a row, was able to cross his legs in bed, however was difficult with the spasms at times. His left hand is what really amazed me. When I was there, he could barely move his fingers at all. Now if mom holds the hand just right, he can move his fingers more easily. It reminded me so much of the video I have of Matt's right arm moving at first. Of course I also saw Matt's big belly!! On most people that would be not a great thing, however it is wonderful to see on Matt!! I thinks he may be over 190lbs, a far cry from the measly 165 lbs he once was.
Rehab has been a bit slow. No standing for awhile, many staff are sick. However they did a re-evaluation of Matt's strength in his right arm. He can now lift 1 kg with his bicep, which is the weakest muscle on his arm, 3 kg weight when he pulls his arm across the chest, and 3 kg when using his tricep. That is kg, not lbs! Keep up the good work! They had Matt transfer to the elevated mat in gym by using the transfer board. It takes two people to help him, but once he gains more strength he could do it himself. The got Matt to then practice rolling on the mat. He did really well turning on his left side, but needs work to be able to turn on right side.
Mom arrived yesterday so I was able to speak/see her on Skype. Matt was glad to see her back. Today they were able to visit for over an hour with Casey Peterson, a quad from Kelvington. He had a C6 injury 6 years ago so great to hear about some of the things he has tried. He went to China for stem cell replacement?, but not much improvement with feeling in his legs, however it helped with his bowels, which is a huge issue. He also attended a few months at ProjectWalk. It helped a little but not to much. He has no movement or feeling below the chest, I believe.
Tomorrow they are trying a new machine so can't wait to hear all about it. Praise for Matt's continued progress, God truly is never far away, He is just one step behind Matt, encouraging him all the way. Isaiah 30:21 "Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you,saying, 'This is the way;walk in it'"

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Seen Matt on WebCam

Well I had an exciting call this evening. Matt has now signed up with Skype on the computer, which allows him to talk for free via the internet if someone else has Skype. Not only did I speak with him, I was able to see him via webcam and he could see me. It was great!! So if anyone wants to talk to Matt, sign up with Skype. It is free download and free computer to computer talking. Saves a bundle. However I have to wait until the kids are asleep, can't chase after them sitting at the computer.
Matt says he gained weight, appr. 190lbs. Dad says that Matt is eating the hospital food now, which probably means he is starving and anything tastes good then!
On Friday, Matt had forgot to mention he tried something new. He baked cookies!! I teased him and said that is something completely new, he didn't even do that before the accident!! He poured the ingredients, stirred the batter, and dropped them on the sheet. However the therapist had to put them in the oven, the tray was too heavy.
Weekend was quiet, did go outside today and took a tour of the park grounds. Not too cold. Really lazy day. Mom will be back tomorrow after her shift to give dad a break. Prayers for her safe travel and Matt's continued progress.

Friday, March 28, 2008

No Swimming For Awhile

Matt was unable to do any swimming this week. They have closed down for maintenance and it may not be up and running for a long time. However Matt's week has been pretty full(so has mine, that's why it has taken me so long to update!). Wednesday Matt wasn't feeling very well, hadn't slept much and just general tired and nauseated. He did try and stand during rehab, but they had the old standing machine where he is on a treadmill and put into a "jolly jumper" type contraption. It wasn't as good but it serves the purpose.
However Thursday he was more like himself and did well with his exercises. They had the old sit/stand machine back and Matt was quite strong. When he tried to take a step forward, they were suprised when his left foot came right off the floor by itself and he took one step!! Very unusual since it is Matt's right leg that is stronger. Maybe it is because Matt has a brace on his left leg, who knows. We are just thankful he did it. Dad, Matt and Bradon braved the elements and decided to head for the Mac store. Dad would ask Matt if he was getting cold and Matt would check his left hand with his right hand to see if it was getting too cold. Lots of company in the evening so that always lifts his spirits.
Today Matt's feet were rooted in cement. He just couldn't take a step forward however it beat his own record in standing, appr. 10 mins. Physio saff is impressed with Matt's weight training, gaining more strength all the time in his left and right arms. Slow but sure, Matty. We all like turtles! Spasms have really diminished since the weekend. Whenever Matt has any little cold, infection, or pain, the spasms get worse. So prior to Easter he had a toenail reoved and his feeding tube removed so that had started his funky chicken dance!
Thanks to all who continue to remember Matt in their prayers, who come to see him, who help out in any way. By doing so you show a love for your fellow man. 1 Cor. 13:13 "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love". You have helped all of us transition to a "new kind of normal".

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Back To the Hospital

Monday Matt was supposed to return to the hospital, however the weather decided Matt should stay in Weekes for one more day. Nolan and Lindsay left in the morning and phoned back to say the road conditions were not great and Dad and Matt should not travel. So Matt was happy to stay on for an extra day. When I talked to him he was visiting with Bryan, Brenda, and Bradon Kipling and was just about to play the Wii. I asked him how the dance went and said it was great. Whenever a cute girl would walk by, he would pinch her on the bottom. when they would turn to him and give him what for, he would always say "It was a spasm". I don't think too many of them fell for that!! Sneaky, Matt, sneaky.
Today Dad and Matt travelled back to rehab. Mom worked a double shift today, and had just enough time to come home for a few hours to get Matt out of bed and get his stuff ready to go. Work, work, work!!
Thanks to all who stopped in to visit Matt. Loves to see familiar faces in a familiar surrounding. Hoping Matt can come visit Red Deer in May. We purchasd a new laser machine to help promote healing and feel Matt could benefit from it, especially with the pain in his neck. We tried it on Gary's sore knee, and after one treatment the pain was gone. Hopefully it will also work on the black spots on the bottom of Matt's heals. They were pressure sores that went bad. Just have to see if old Betsy can make it this far (again, not mom!).
Prayers for continued recovery and by August of this year, Matt will be home for good. I think he has had enough of hospitals, however they do become a safe zone after you have been there for so long. I found a poem in the Daily Bread. It says "Where Jesus reigns there is no fear, no restless doubt, no hopeless tear. No raging sea nor tempest dread, but quietness and calm instead." With fresh memories of Easter, let's trust that He CAN do all things.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter Sunday

Matt had a laid back weekend. Mom was at work until the afternoon both Saturday and Sunday, so Matt got to stay in bed until she got back. However on Saturday Auntie Karen and Uncle Neil came over and played Wii with Matt. He said it is very addicting and doesn't realize he has over done it until his neck is stiff and sore later on. So when it was time to go to the wedding dance of a friend of Nolan's on Saturday night, Matt really didn't feel like going. However he got there aroung 10:30pm and at first felt very nervous and awkward with everyone looking at him. However he stayed for 3 hours until dad came and picked him up. Nolan and Lindsay were there for moral support.
Today Brenda and Bryan Kipling were there with Bradon and were just about to play Wii when I phoned at 7:30 pm. Matt is really enjoying being at home with family and friends. Mom says Matt can help out so much more with his care, leaning forward in the chair when mom dresses him, helping roll over in the bed, feeding himself, etc. Tomorrow he has to return to the hospital and realizes it is necessary, but doesn't make it any easier. Unfortunately with mom working Matt hasn't been getting as much exercises as he needs. The Wii helps alot, but it doesn't help with the legs.
Prayers that when Matt comes home the next time, he can transfer from the wheelchair to the bed on the board with 2 people. The lift they had this time was a manual lift and it didn't lift Matt up very high so you always needed 2 people.
Today at church, the pastor spoke of the greatest miracle, the resurrection. After Jesus was raised from the dead, many didn't believe it. Jesus said to them in Luke 24:25-26 "..how foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! Did not the Christ have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?" Believing is so much easier when it is seen, and our weak human natures have difficulty with the unseen. Thank you Lord for your word that is proof of the greatest miracle.

Friday, March 21, 2008

A Very Good Friday

Matthew is home again! So wish that we could be there as well, but work prevails.
Prior to leaving on Thursday, they took off Matt's bandage on his toe and he did some standing exercises, which was so much better than the episode last week. No attempts at taking any steps however because the foot was too painful. They didn't do any swimming because of the toe (toenail removed) but Matt did play Wii for 2 hours, so that's great exercise. They also tried something new. They put Matt in a manual wheelchair, one he has to make it move with his arms. All the gears and things are on the right side, so Matt can control the turning and going forward with only his right arm. He didn't think he could move it at all, but the physio gave him a little push to get him started. It wasn't easy and the mechanism is difficult to figure out, but they were amazed at how quickly Matt understood the mechanics and went about 20 feet. Now that is great exercise. When you try to move yourself in a wheelchair, you realize how much upper body strength is needed. Keep up the good work. Pretty soon you won't need the mechanized chair, only the manual, and then on to walking.
Travelled last evening to Weekes with old Betsy (not mom, I meant the van!!)and made it safe and sound. I phoned this morning to see how everything went and Matt answered the phone. It was so great to hear his voice, knowing he had picked the phone up by himself. Mom was at work and dad had just went outside for some "fresh air". Matt was still in bed and watching some TV, able to change the channels on the remote himself. So much better than at Christmas. You couldn't leave him alone for very long, always checking to see if he needed suctioning, something to eat, water, channels changed, turned, etc. Still need to turn him every two hours, but he can help so much more and is starting to grip the rail to pull himself over. Not quite there yet, but that will come.
Mom had borrowed an exercises bicycle for Matt's arms so he can still keep up with his workouts. Of course he brought the Wii home. Nolann and Lindsay will be there later this evening so they should have fun.
Take a moment today to remember why it is such a special day. In Jesus' time, I am sure they did not feel it was so special, to see the Savior they loved die, unsure if he would rise again. Many doubted whether He truly was the son of God. But in Matt27:54 "When the centurion and those with him who were guarding Jesus saw the earthquake and all that had happened, they were terrified, and exclaimed, 'surely he was the Son of God!'"

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Stomach Tube Out

Well Matt, I guess they think you are eating enough to fill that hollow leg so they removed the feeding tube. One more obstacle removed which just makes it that much easier to take him home for the weekend. Mom says Matt is looking great. Rehab in the last 2 days has been less exercise and more getting everything ready to take with him. What a difference from Christmas time!! Then we had to take a truck load of boxes and supplies, plus the van was loaded down as well. This time it is just one box of supplies and the van with Matt, the mattress, and the lift. No more suctioning, dressing changes, etc. Matt is still apprehensive and prayers that everything goes well and the experience will be much better. Plans to attend a wedding while at home so will be a great time to see everyone. There is a chance Mom and Dad can borrow a sit/stand machine from a fellow in Kelvinton so Matt can continue to do his exercises. Nolan and Lindsay are planning on coming so will have lots of muscles!!
Matt had a toenail removed on Monday. They felt they needed to do it because Matt is susceptible to infections and need to be more cautious. However it has been causing him to spasm alot and he can't get his shoes on due to the dressing so no standing exercises. Hopefully today they will remove the dressing and try some more exercises.
Big plans for rehab in the next 2 days, swimming, Wii, etc. They are also organizing the handivan once a week to take Matt to see Rocky and get him out of the hospital for awhile.
Mom is leaving today and dad will again take over. Matt and dad will travel to Weekes Thursday after rehab.
Mom talked with the patient coordinator of services and as of Thursday, Matt will pay to stay in rehab. However we feel it is money well spent if he continues to progress with the rehab. So thank the Lord for all the fundraising that was done since Matt injury. He knew the money would be needed for Matt's care.
Still looking into "Project Walk" in San Diego. Cost is enormous (25,000 per month!!)but if it will help Matt walk faster then so be it. One thing needed is a bone density scan and the waiting list is 2 years!! So looking into paying to have it done if possible.
Lots of things to pray about, guidance for they right path for Matt, safety for the weekend, and continued improvement in strength.

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Keep The Faith

Friday was a slow rehab day, just did some stretches. However Matt made the mistake of saying to some of the staff that "if" he started to walk, instead of "when". They tore a strip off him and said he has kept the faith for so long he couldn't give up now. Make a mantra of the verse from Hebrews, Matt. Chapter 11:1 "Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see".
That evening Matt and mom went to the fieldhouse to watch wheelchair racing for parapalegics. Matt found it interesting but still gets uncomfortable when he leaves the hospital and has to be around too many people. When the accident first happened, matt just wanted to leave the hospital. But now it has become a 'new kind of normal" (read Carol Kent's book). After being in the hospital for almost 9 months, it is Matt's safe zone. So mom and dad are hoping to take Matt home for Easter to be around more familiar surroundings which would be an easier transition.
Saturday was bath day, but Matt was really tired and went to sleep right afterwards. The weekends are his lazy days and a good time to catch up on sleep. Continues to eat well and watched curling (disappointing loss by Sask). Had some company from the hospital staff and also family. It is so great that so many people continue to think of Matt and take the time to visit.
Please pray for Matt's movement of his left arm and hand, increased grip strength of his right hand, and an increase in overall strength needed for walking. Psalms 147:5"Great is our Lord and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit".

Friday, March 14, 2008

Swimming!

Let's start off talking about Wednesday. It was a funny day. Dad said Matt went to rehab in the am to do some standing exercises and just had such a bad go of it. They kept telling Matt to tighten and straighten up, and he just couldn't do it. He was trying so hard and was becoming so discouraged. Nothing was working and Matt couldn't explain what was wrong. He wasn't having spasms, feeling sick, weak, anything. By the time he got back to his room he was exhausted and wanted to go to bed. However when he woke up 2 hours later he was back to his old self. So hopefully whatever it was was self limiting.
Thursday Matt got in the pool for the first time. He was apprehensive but still pushed himself to do it. They get Matt into the pool with a chair, then they encouraged him to do a back float while they helped him. Matt was nervous because he felt so light!! Since the accident, Matt has felt so heavy because he was unable to move his limbs properly, and so in the water he felt very bouyant. It was much easier to move all his extremeties and do his exercises. When I asked Matt what felt the best, he responded" Getting fully immerged in the water, like a big tub bath". The things the rest of us take for granted. Makes me want to go have a tub right now!! Mom was dad were both there for the big event and stood by as lifeguards. Of course if something were to happen I wouldn't want them trying to save me in the water!!

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

No more tube feeds

Actually this statement is about 10 days late! I asked dad tonight how Matt's weight was and said it was around 185 lbs. So I asked if they would continue the tube feeds and dad replied they had stopped them awhile ago! I then asked why he didn't mention this before and he stated I didn't ask!! I will have to do more investigative reporting from now on! Matt's stomach has been doing well, so well that he is eating everyone out of house and home. His "nighttime snack consists of more food than some people eat all day! Keep it up Matt. Your body needs all the calories it can get. Must be nice!
Matt's rehab went well again. They did not try any walking but continue to do standing exercises: twisting the upper body, turning and bending. All to strengthen his abdominal muscles. Matt was quite stiff form the W11 workout so was really feeling it during his arm exercises. They tried him on a machine that is similiar to rowing, however they need to clamp his wrist in because his hand grasp is too weak yet. Worked on the pulley exercises and the arm cycle machine.
Dad said he was really chatty and upbeat today. Had some company this evening and was in fine form. Somedays his mood is more quiet but today he really perked up.
Matt is enjoying surfing the net with his computer. Dad says he can do everything himself with his right hand: loading the DVD, pushing the buttons, checks the blog, etc. Breaks the monotony of the day.
Thanks again to everyone who remembers Matt in any way, whether it is through prayer, reading the blog, or coming to visit. Matt thinks so much of people back home and really appreciates what everyone has done for him. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you tonight. Romans 1:12 "that is, that you and I may be encouraged by each other's faith". James 5:13 "Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise.'

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Played W11

Hope the title is right. Not sure how to spell the new nintendo game. Matt was able to play his game at occupational therapy on Friday. He played for one hour. Nolan was amazed at how well Matt did at most of the games. The backhand in tennis gave him some trouble but it is such a great tool for rehab! A real motivator. Matt was so proud to show Nolan all his tricks: lifting his left hand off the bed while bending it at the elbow, lifting his bum in bed, lifting his legs while in his chair. Actually dad said it was quite funny to see the 2 of them interact. Ever since Matt's accident, Nolan has continued to tease Matt, tickling his nose, feet, etc. When Nolan tried that again however, Matt grabbed a hold of Nolan's arm and squeezed! You just wait Nolan, your time will come!!
I must retract my statement on Friday. They were treating Mattt for a urinary infection but today the results came back negative. So the cranberry tabs are working so far. However Matt's breathing was heavier and they had respiratory up to do an assessment. Everything clear so far. Took bloodwork and some nose swabs. More sleepy and is having more spasms so they are suspecting something so prayers that it is nothing. God tells us to put things in his hands so we do not have to worry. Matt 6:27 "Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?"
Saturday Matt and dad went to the Mac store, appr. 6 blocks away. But on their return they were trying to find a different way back and came upon a water main break. So they had to go back a block. Good to be outside when it isn't so cold. Dad said Matt ate almost his entire meal himself. It was food that was more difficult so kudo's to you Matt!! I think Matt gets a bit embarrassed when he has to eat in front of people. So good excuse to keep practicing! People will stare no matter what you do. Next time someone stares, wink at them. Or if it is a cute girl, blow them a kiss!! That will make them smile!!
I just thought I would try and explain what the big deal is regarding Matt's spasms. Unless you have seen them, it is difficult to comprehend. The way I think about it, Matt's brain is constantly trying to send messages down his spinal cord to other parts of his body. But with Matt the messages are not always getting through so the body reacts abnormally, causing his knees to bend and his arms to go straight out, fingers outstretched, etc. It takes a few seconds for his body to go back into a normal state. This is always worse when Matt has been resting for awhile and then reaches for something or starts to do an exercise. The brain knows he wants it to do something so it sends out signals that somehow lose their way. But by the 3rd attempt, Matt's body is receiving the signals more appropriately and the body works better. So that is why when he is having company, he may try not to do something that he know will start a spasm, because he is uncomfortable with the way his body reacts. Matt, we are all so grateful that your body is moving at all, you could jump up like a chicken and we would applaud! When I do it, people are asking if I need help(and not just with my physical abilities, they are questioning whether my signals are crossed!).
Love and prayers to those who read this blog. God knows who you are.

Friday, March 7, 2008

tinysteps

Time just flies! This week has been so busy I hardly had time to phone for updates. But Matt is just so exciting to hear about I always want to phone.
Thursday they tried Matt on a new sit/stand/walk machine. They need 3 people to operate it and dad gets to be in charge of the controls. So Matt is in a sling and then dad raises to a height were Matt is almost standing. Then they really encourage him to push himself up the rest of the way. Once he is in the standing position, they lock his left leg in the brace so it is stable. Then with the 2 physio therapist helping Matt's feet to go forward, Matt has to try and walk. The left foot has a curling slider on it now to help him move it forward.
So Matt shifts his weight on his left leg (the weaker one). Then he bends his right leg and can almost take the step himself, but needs a little help to lift those Size 12 feet!! So Matt has now stepped forward with his right foot!! But it doesn't end there. He must now shift his weight on his good leg, or the right side and slide his left foot forward. The physio really needs to help him with that side, unlocking the brace so Matt can bend his leg, pushing his leg forward on the slider etc. Then the whole process begins again. In total, matt took 12 baby steps!! Dad said Matt was just sweating!! Dad says the steps equal to 3 big steps for him. Great work Team Matt!! Thanks to the rehab staff that continue to persevere and to Matt who has never lost sight of the goal line. Little by little, everyday.
Nolan and Lindsay drove up to see Matt last night and give him his belated birthday present. Nolan was able to purchase a W11 game off the internet. Of course the package was open because we all had to try it out to see if it was suitable for Matt!! You almost never received your present Matt!! What a great game!
Left hand continues to progress. He can make a noticeable dent in the putty when he squeezes his hand.
The only bad spot is Matt has another urinary tract infection. I had purchased some cranberry tablets when I was there in February and he has been taking them dilegently, however that nasty infection reared its ugly head. So feeling tired today. Started him on antibiotics. But that will soon clear up and next Thursday Matt starts in the pool. Dad has already found his swimshorts and has them hanging in his closet.
Praise God for his continued blessings on Matt. God has 3 answers to pray: No, Yes, and Wait awhile. We are seeing the benefits of patience!
Psalms 40:1-3 "I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord."

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Played Pool

Sunday: repeat of Saturday
Monday: rehab is going really well. Focusing on Matt transferring using the slide board. Doing so well they are talking of using just one person to assist instead of two. Matt starts in the wheelchair and wants to get to the raised mat. So he leans across and puts his right hand on the mat. Then they are encouraging him to use his legs, butt muscles, and abdominal muscles.
Was able to play pool for the first time. Since he cannot use his left hand yet, he uses the cue rest. So first someone has to line up the rest and the cue so Matt then can hit the ball. At first, Matt couldn't even move the cue ball, but after he got the hang of it dad said Matt did really well. Rocky and Barrette, 2 other paraplegics went and played too. They go to a billards place on Central Ave.
Tuesday am: Matt is just gaining every day!! It is just so exciting to hear all the good things. Matt was up in the sit/stand machine again. They have now taken off the curling slider off his right foot and are encouraging Matt to bend his knee and lift his foot. Dad says he almost has got it, and believes within the next week Matt should be able to take his first step. It takes so much concentration. First Matt has to shift his weight onto his left leg, and then mentally goes through all the stages of taking a step. Then he has to tell his body to do it. It comes so naturally to us, but if you break it down, it involves many processes.
The left foot is not quite advanced enough for the slider, but they want Matt to try and go through the process. So Matt has to try transferring his weight to the right side and try to move his foot. Then he has to twist from the waist to the left, and then the right. Also is bending ahead, all while standing. Matt accomplishes this all in about 6-7 minutes, but it is so good for his back and abdominal muscles. Also, this is usaully done on the 3 rd attempt. The first standing attempt always makes Matt nauseated and very green!!
After they put Matt to bed, he wanted to show Kristen (the physio) what he could do. So she bends his knees and holds his legs. Then Matt tries to lift his bum off the bed and support his weight on his shoulders. There is about 10 cms from the bed to Matt's bum. At x-mas, he could lift his right butt cheek 1 cm with great difficulty so just to emphasize the amazing gains Matt is making.
Another thing, when dad returned from "getting some fresh air" the physio was very excited about something Matt did. Matt wouldn't let her tell until dad guessed. So on the first guess dad got it! Matt had lifted his left forearm off the bed, bending at the elbow! How did dad know? Because the previous evening he had put the electrical muscle stimulator on and really worked Matt's bicep, making Matt move his elbow into a bent position. So the body remembered and did it without the stimulator!
I will write more tonight, realized this was a very long blog!!

Saturday, March 1, 2008

Another Saturday

Friday was a tiring day. Matt didn't sleep well, maybe too much excitement. However he was able to stand for a little while and the rehab staff were very impressed with how well his left arm is doing. The hand is very slow in coming, but it is more important for Matt to regain the bend in his elbow. And I must state a correction. Matt can lift 2 kg's with his right hand, not 2 lbs, which is a big difference. Mom had to go back to work so dad is there again to take the next shift.
Today was very quiet, no visitors but Matt was tired anyway. Was able to go outside for a few minutes to enjoy the brief interlude of warm weather. He continues to eat well and still unsure if his weight has increased. That is one massive hollow leg to fill!!
Matt no longer wearing a trach dressing, and he has a massive scar on his throat. What a story he'll have to tell his grandchildren. He said he would tell them he was shot and lived to tell the tale!!Actually he had said that about the scars on his chest from the chest tubes. That must have been a massive gun battle, just like the OK corral!!
When I talked to dad, he was at the new place. Nadine Smith was gracious enough to allow mom and dad to stay in her house in Saskatoon. God continues to bless us wilth wonderful people who come through when we need it the most. Family support is so important for the healing process and for stability.
Prayers for Matt's neck. Mom said he has contant pain in it and really gets him down somedays. psalms 86:6-7 "Hear my prayer, O Lord; listen to my cry for mercy. In the day of my trouble I will call to you, for you will answer me."

Thursday, February 28, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Hapyy 21st Birthday Matty! Hope you had great presents...I mean a great day! Wednesday Matt went out to watch the movie "Fool's Gold" with Kristan from rehab and another fellow outpatient. Said it wasn't too bad.
Today was quite exciting. At rehab Matt stood for 8 minutes!! That is a big jump from 1 min. What a birthday gift that was!! Matt aslo did some arm exercises but felt he didn't do very well because he was tired from all the standing. However the rehab staff disagreed and told him he just keeps getting better. Went to lunch in the hospital with Rocky. Matt was going to go out to supper tonight but he knew that he would have company this evening and didn't want to tire himself out. So took a short visit to ICU, but they were so busy they didn't have much time to chat. Had a short nap between 5-7pm until the hordes of visitors came bearing gifts. Balloons, chocolates, cake, movies, etc. I just finished on the phone with mom and all I could hear was noise in the background. Just one big party.
Thanks to everyone who continues to think about Matt, and all the visits and blog comments. They brighten his day so much and really encourage him to push himself. God bless each and every one of you!!PSalms 34:15 "The eyes of the Lord are on the rightgeous and his ears are attentive to their cry".

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Computer up and Running (Matt is Next!)

Tonight was the first night Matt was able to really use his computer in his room. The one problem with this is my detail to the blog and the consistency of my writing will have to shapen up. Matt asked mom why I didn't write the blog last night! Every 2 nights are all I can seem to do but I will work on it Matt!
Monday Matt wasn't able to use the pool yet or do any standing, but the physio said Matt just keeps improving on his right arm. His coordiantion and strength is slowly growing. He was supposed to get an ingrown toenail removed but some miscommunication and it wasn't done. With quadrapelegics, any little thing can send them off into a potentially serious medical condition called autonomic hyperreflexia. A big word meaning his blood pressure goes up rapidly and his heart rate goes down. Other things happen as well. So something as simply as an ingrown toenail can cause all sorts of problems. But Matt seems to do better than most so don't worry Matt. You have the Great Physician looking out for you.
Today Matt was able to talk with the psychologist about not going home anytime soon and other things. Great they have that service so Matt is free to speak what he feels to someone else rather than his family. We are great, of course! but we don't know how to approach every situation. Again no standing but mom is vigilant on making Matt do whatever exercises he can while not at rehab. The physio stresses that if Matt wants to walk again he must exercise whenever he can. So she was very impressed today when Matt could turn his left wrist when held in the proper position. Mom says he starts with the palm facing down, then she asks Matt to turn it so the palm is facing his body, then so it is facing outwards. Mom has to hold it perfect in order for Matt to accomplish this feat, but he can do it! Matt was also able to hold his left arm straight above his head for a few seconds and his hand straight as well when he was in the bed. The natural tendency of Matt's hand is to either flop forward when lifted or flop backwards. Even with his right hand, if he lifts it above his head you must remind him to keep his hand straight. The physio was even more amazed when she asked Matt to then place his left hand on his chest from the elevated position. He was able to do it with alot of concentration and determination. So I asked mom , that would mean he bent his elbow and she said it appears so. That is a huge step and praise be to God for his continued blessings on Matt!! I get so excited to think of all the praise items we have, compared to last summer. There is a great song which has such wonderful words.
"Shout to the Lord, all the earth let us sing, Power and majesty praise to our King. Mountains bow down and the seas will roar at the sound of your name. I sing for joy at the works of your hands, Forever i'll love you forever I'll stand. Nothing compares to the promise I have in You".
P.S. I have a video of Matt standing, so if anyone would like it, please leave your email on the blog so I can send it. It is in JPEG format.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Quiet Weekend

Not too much to report today. While I was in Saskatoon, I had bought Matt some stretchy bands and 1 lb weight's to work with while in his room. The physio gave mom some exercises to do with them and has been working pretty well. Continues to do the leg exercises while in the chair, up to 3 times a day. Matt's right leg can kick much higher than his left and is getting stronger everyday. They also encourage Matt to try and lift his bum up. He can lift the right butt cheek slightly but not the left. Prayers that the left arm and hand will wake up and start to move more. He is able to move it a bit but not enough to do anything with it. Prayers that the left elbow will bend as well, as that would help in Matt being able to transfer from bed to chair by himself. Paul writes in Ehesians about just how much we are cherished by God. Verse 18-19 "may have power together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is th love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God".
I forgot to mention while I was there we talked with the social worker. We were quite worried Matt would be discharged at the end of February and we were not prepared. We want Matt at home only when he is capable and shows more improvement. The hospitals understanding was that we wanted him at home as soon as possible. So some mixed communication there and everything is on hold for awhile. Matt will stay in the rehab department until a transition bed is available somewhere else in the city. Then Matt will likely stay at the transition facility for another 90 days. So that could give us until August, which would be better weather for moving (we hope, you never know in Canada when winter will come again!.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Internet Hook-up

Matt finally was able to get wireless internet in his room. He is quite excited to be able to read the blog and the comments. Also we will get him Skype, which will enable him to phone from computer to computer for a very minimal price. Right now he is using his cell phone and it gets expensive.
Thursday the girls and I travelled back to Red Deer. However I was able to video tape Matt standing at the parallel bars with four people helping. He stood for over a minute and they even tried to give him minimal support. However his knees want to buckle so they have to keep them supported.
Yesterday Dad went home. Matt did not do any standing but did really well in his arm exercises. While I wa there, he tried to lift 3 lbs with his right arm. What he does is try to lower his arm to his side with the pulley. That day he wasn't able to do it but yesterday he did fine. He also lifted 3 lbs with his foream by flexing his wrist. Tried to do some leg exercises while in the chair. Mom takes off his leg rests so Matt's feet are dangling. Then he tries to lift his bottom leg up. His right is stonger than the left but he was able to do it with both legs. Keep it up Matt. Need to strengthen those muscles.
Matt received an early birthday present from Karl and Corina. A nice carrying case for his laptop. Before the computer just sat on a bedside table and was always at risk for spills and things.
While I was speakingto mom, she was giving Matt grief because he was trying to bite his fingernails on his left hand by holding it up with his right. Can't quite do it. States it feels like he is trying to lift 100lbs. I told her to leave him as it is a form of exercise.
Psalms 103:2-3 "Praise the Lord, o my soul, and forget not all his benefits- who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases."

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Lunar Eclipse

Just wanted to drop a quick note. I am in the hospital with Matt watching the lunar eclipse. The colors were quite amazing and we watched it for over an hour. Today the trach site is healing nicely, they put only a tiny dry dressing on and the site is as big as a pencil. The trachea already has a thin membrane covering it so no more air leaking out. Matt states he can cough better, talk better, breath better. No more leaky tire sound from the trach. Yahoo!!
Exercises are still going well. The left was a little sluggish but still improving. Stood up four times, however he stood with the stand/walker. Tried to take a step again without the slidder, still toe dragging, so can't finish the step. Spasms still give him grief. Whenever he tries to do something, he spasms and then has to wait for his body to relax.
Just going to feed him some homemade perogies and chicken. Matt is looking over my shoulder telling me to hurry up and feed him! No chance yet of him being overweight, however he is now 180 lbs. Still getting tube feeds at night.
Praise for the trach being out and prayers for rehab to continue going strong. On Monday they may even try him in the pool. I think he is a bit nervous about drowning however has to learn to trust the rehab staff. Please add a verse to the comments, as I do not have a bible in the room with the computer.