Monday, July 30, 2007
Bad Move
I know many are wondering about Matt's swallowing assessment, but it was not done today. Administration decided they were closing the ICU for renovations and moved them to very inadequate conditions. Respiratory therapist is 5 mins away, there is no ice machine close by , there are no cardiac monitors, no tv hook ups, very hot and cramped conditions. And it will be like this for 10 days. Matt's temp continues to climb, and he has a terrible wound were the trach "fell out" (it was sutured in place). Also a nurse told Matt he could do more for himself, so she put his suction on a clipboard close to his face so he could suction his own mouth. She wanted to make up a schedule for how often Matt could have water, ice pack for his sore neck, and wet cloths for his fevered head. "We cannot run for your every whim every 2 mins". Matt can only move his head and shoulders. Very difficult to help himself. Imagine yourself dug in the sand up to your neck, and only then can you think about what Matt must be feeling. He is reliant on someone for everything. I am sorry I am writing so emotional, but I felt people should know what we are dealing with. He was only breathing on his own twice, 45 mins each time, but with the move they were unable to do anymore. They were not able to get him up in his chair as well. Very hard to stay positive when a loved one suffers so much. Pray that God is opening a door for Matt to be moved to more adequate conditions. 1 Peter 5:7 "Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you".
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Hi everyone. I hope that matt has a better day tomorrow. Myself I would report that nurse that told Matt that he needs to do more for himself. That nurse should have to lay in a bed and only move her head and shoulders, The nerve!
Take care all
Kristine Barna
So sorry for what is happening. Unfortunately, this sounds all too familiar. I went through much of the same treatment when my Mom had surgery in January. That nurse needs to be reported. That is simply inhumane treatment. We had to report several nurses to the head nurse when my mom was in the hospital and things changed in a very big hurry. I'm happy to say that not all nurses are this way. It's just a few who make things next to impossible to deal with. We'll be praying as always.
Love Bev
Matt and family
We are so sorry for the struggles you are having. Please don't give up. Thank you again for sharing Matt's specific needs so we can continue to pray.
Much love,
the Poitras family
Hi Matt and all the family,
I will try once more, so many times I have tried to leave a message and it never goes through. It's terrible to be so unknowledgeable about computers. Our computer is old like us, and we have been told we need more memory,bytes, whatever. So far I am happy I can read the blog each day. This is so very upsetting, I would not hesitate to report this nurse, I realize they are likely under staffed like all hospitals, but where is the compassion that needs to be a part of caregiving. Our hearts ache for all of you, how I wish I had some words to add that have not already been spoken, that could lift your spirits. We do not give up, I pray for continued strenghth for each day, when it's hard to take it one day at a time, I pray God's Holy Spirit would hover over each of you like He did the earth before He spoke and called all things into being, and let Him say,"I Am the One who heals you, my peace, I give to you, be strong, I will be with you, I will not fail you, nor forsake you." Much love & prayers, Aunty Carol, Uncle Winston & family
Hi Joanne,
I can totally understand what you are going through right now in terms of unfair treatment by the medical staff. Our family went through alot when my mom was in the nursing home. We took action and people were reported,this has to be done! People are under oath in the medical field to provide the BEST mediacl care,that's not an option! We all can do our part and contact and email our concerns and complaints,this is unacceptable! I'm sorry Joanne & family that you have to deal w/ this political garbage. I will pray for you....read Psalm 121.
Take care.
Love & Prayers, Corina
Hi Matt and family, im thinking of you guys everyday, especially Matt that has so much to go through. When Carl was little and very sick in hospital in Saskatoon, his oncologist told me: "- You are your sons keeper, if anything feels wrong, sound the alert!" That was a scary but very got piece of advice.
Unfortunately I too ran into some nurses in the city, that did not do their job right.
Be the squeky wheel, whatever it takes to get Matt the care that he should have.
We hope things get better soon.
George, Anna, Oscar, Isabelle and Carl Knudsen.
hi matt jo and family,
i can so relate with you what is happening. this sounds like it is happening just way to much. you know me i have a big mouth and when i spent so long in the hospital with my mom i knew their every move. i questioned them on meds procedures and even told them the way i wanted her to lay. we are family and as a family we know how our parents and children and siblings act and think. sometimes for good sometimes not. it is hard to watch someone we love go through bad times but i think it makes us stonger for it. i check everyday matt on your progress and pray u will get through this.
Clint, Bryce and I just read the blog at noon and send our well wishes and pray for improved conditions and care-Love from the Youngs
Hey there Tree buddy. Sorry we couldn't stick around long enough to see ya. We had a good talk with your mom though. Preston and I will be back up there in a couple of weeks to see ya. Don't let anyone get you down. You have family and friends who love you. We will all be behind you every step of the way. God Bless you and the family. Always think of ya.
Blane Langdon
hi matt just got back from holidays hope this move will be over quickly for you you were in our thoughts all the time stay tuff and keep that smile matt love brenda bryon and family
Hey Matt,
Keep fighting there big guy, I know that you can do it. It's tough, but keep hope. Praying for you and your family lots,
Kelvin Young
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