Sunday, September 14, 2008

Busy Week

Matt travelled to Melfort on Tuesday for his first stint of rehab since leaving Parkridge. However, it was mostly an assessment to see what Matt's capabilities and limitations are. The therapist was quite encouraged but what she saw, but will need to see if she can get some equipment to aid in his recovery.
Matt went to a outside barbecue on Friday night, which was for the Big Sky workers. He had a great time, however dad was with him and was getting quite cold so they decided to leave. That is probably a good thing since Matt can't feel the same way we do and tends to underestimate how cold he is, and then is so stiff in the morning he can hardly move at all.
Bradon Kipling was over for the weekend and him and Kristen took Matt to the Weekes Hotel for supper on Saturday. Always nice to have friends come over.
Today mom and dad were able to get Matt to the floor using the lift and tried to do some "mat" exercises. However Matt is still on the antibiotics and needs to take gravol for the nausea, so still not feeling great and was pretty tired. He has been up in his manual chair for 2 days now, practicing moving it with his right hand and left hand(but actually the movement comes form his left shoulder) which makes his neck hurt. Good exercise though. Really tired himself out this afternoon. He had been playing Wii for 1 1/2 hours playing Wii Sports (bowling, golf, baseball) so he needed mom to prop the pillows so he could hold the phone! Good rehab tool.
Last week Matt was able to meet with the fellow quad when he came to hunt with his dad. He is returning sometime this week as well, so Matt will visit with him again.
Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit".

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Still in Weekes

Goes "uptown" to Golden Age to play crib with the men. I think Matt likes to be home but is difficult for him to do too much in ways of extra curricular activity. Matt met a fellow quad in Saskatoon when Matt was still in City rehab. He lives in Saskatoon and comes to Weekes to hunt every year. He can wheel himself around so is not a full quad. He was supposed to go to Beijing for the Olympics for rugby but felt he was too old. However he had went to Australia and Athens for the paralympics. He will be up to hunt next week so it will be nice for Matt to have a visit.
Still has urinary tract infection and it is now a new strain so has to go on a different antibiotic. Has been very stiff from lack of exercise and mom has been working. It is so hard to do any standing with only the two of them and no standing frame. Looking forward to coming to Red Deer in the near future. Matt's neck is hurting all the time so when he is here we will try our LILT, low intensity light therapy on him. I was having trouble with my hip for 3 years and had two therapy sessions and now I am running again, so hopefully Matt will have the same success.
I will probably write the blog every week now until Matt gets to rehab, unless something exciting happens. Thanks for all of you who continue to read the blog and for your continued support of Matt.

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Happy Belated Mom

Sorry the blog has been so long in coming. We are still in Fairmont B.C. and the Internet is not the best but will try to do the blog again. Has been cutting out and losing my info.
As everyone might have guessed, Matt is official out of Parkridge in in the care of mom and dad at home. Matt has improved with doing self catheterizations that he can almost do it himself, just needs some help for the set up. Before he left Parkridge, they discovered he has 4 kidney stones while doing a cystoscopy. They will need to blast them, or do lithotripsy. Not sure when that will happen.
On Wednesday Matt stood with the Argyl and mom was making sure she had everything to take Matt home. Part of Matt's therapy was wheeling himself to the rehab department.
Thursday Matt really stood well for 25 min. Krista, the nurse from RUH was there and I think that is a good motivator for pushing himself to the limit. Unfortunately/fortunately that is a Gustafson trait and we love to do well in front of an audience!! He also got a massage as well from the massage therapist.
Mom was quite excited to hear that there is a Project Walk in Victoria and will definitely look into that. Barry and Gisele are living there now and would be great to go somewhere where there is family.
Can't wait until the troop makes its way to Red Deer, hopes everything works out for the best. Prayers that Matt will continue to improve and that sometime in the future he will walk on his own.
Happy Birthday Mom for August 30th. Love you lots!!

Monday, August 25, 2008

Our family is off to Fairmont for a week, and we are leaving in 10 mins,so I am told! So better hurry up.
Matt continues to progress in rehab, however slowly.
Thursday he did the slings on the mat again. Also had OT therapy with the group, usually arm exercises and upper extremity.
Friday Matt worked in the evening and we spoke quite late.
Saturday Matt had plans to go in his manual chair and do a spin around the atrium, however he only managed to do about half. Starts to feel dizzy, like he has exercised intensely and then his body is trying to recuperate. Eyes get hazy and feels exhausted. Matt, it is a heavy workout for you and still must build up slowly.
Sunday Matt was in the manual chair again, then was in his electric chair by 4 pm because dad had to leave early to wash Matt's dirty clothes. If Matt stays in his manual he needs someone to push him when he gets stuck.
Mom should be back today sometime.
Have a great week if I don't write again. will try to get internet while we are away. Need to beat Matt in Sea Battle, which I seem to continually lose at.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Monday Matt finally had another haircut. he was starting to look like the shaggy dog! Monday he also worked in group doing upper extremity work and pulleys. That was about the extent of rehab because he wasn't feeling well.
Tuesday Matt was supposed to go on the Argyl but something got screwed up so instead he showed the new therapist how far he could push himself in his manual wheelchair. Matt estimated the distance at 200 feet. It took him along time and had to stop a few times. He was so tired that after lunch he went to sleep and didn't wake up until 4 pm! Good workout Matt! I asked how his shoulder was feeling afterwards and said it wasn't too bad, so thank you Lord for answered prayers.
Today Matt was able to get up in the argyl machine, or the sit stand for about 3-4 mins, however he had to sit down due to his fall in BP, 80/48. He didn't feel that bad and his O2 level was at 99%, but they decided not to push it. Matt finds it easier to breathe in the sit stand machine as opposed to the standing frame. The frame has a strap that goes around his chest and he can't take a deep breath. His lungs are still not what they were before being on the ventilator and so still does his deep breathing exercises to strengthen his lungs.
I was laughing at him tonight on Skype because he lifted up his left hand with his right hand so I could look at it. It looks as black as the ace of spades! His right hand is more a normal color, but his lack of mobility and all the edema he had while in ICU has changed his pigmentation. Anyone who has seen Matt will know what I am talking about.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Birthday Weekend

A celebrating weekend for the Gustafson clan. Yesterday was dad's birthday and today is Shaunie's 4th birthday so all excited. She doesn't quite understand it is her birthday and trying to work on telling her she is 4 but didn't have much luck with the 3rd one either. High of 30 degrees today so will be melting.
Matt has been busy with his argyl exercises, strengthening his quads, bending his knees, and using his arms and back to help him stand as well. He said everyday he does well but on Friday was doing his exercises and got dizzy after a few reps.
Thursday Matt had his bone density test. They wanted to see if he had lost any bone mass due to lack of weight bearing exercises. However they feel he hasn't lost any so that is good news if he wants to go to project walk. Mom also left on Thursday to go back to work. Of course she is always working, but this job she gets paid for!!
God bless everyone on this beautiful Sunday!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Just talked to mom while she was on her way to get a sub from Subway, the big baby. Unfortunately when he comes to Red Deer after he is discharged from Parkridge he will have to put up with my cooking!
On Friday they tried something new on the sit stand machine. Before they would put Matt almost to a standing position and then have him use his legs to get him to full standing position. Now they make him do a partial squat, or bend his knees so his bum goes down. It is much harder but Matt really tries hard. He also does it with no brace on his left leg, which is getting stronger.
Monday Matt had group therapy at 10 am. Then practiced on the sit stand machine again. They don't really time him anymore, because he is doing the squats to strengthen his quads.
Today they tried a sit stand machine they were hoping to send Matt home with but he is just too big, so they will have to order one and then Matt will pay for it. The cost is $6000 and insurance will cover about $2000. They also want Matt to purchase a special $4000 mattress to prevent bedsores as well, but the new manual wheelchair costs around $8000,so have to hold back on something for now.
He wasn't feeling that well today, his shoulder really bugs him when he tries too hard at rehab and then he doesn't sleep well. But he still did really well in rehab and they had him on the mat. They wanted to see if Matt could move his left leg without the resistance of his right leg. Difficult to explain but I will try.
They get Matt to lay on his right side. Then they attach him to 3 ropes suspended from the ceiling and have slings on the end. The first goes under his thigh, the second under his knee and the third goes under his ankle. Then they pull on the ropes to suspend his left leg above the right, while laying on his side. Matt has to then try and straighten his left leg and then bend his knee, after he must try leg curls, and finally he works on the ankles, which is the hardest one of all. It is still slow, he can push down with his toes but not pull them upwards. They tried the same thing on his left arm with little success.
We are all still rooting for you Matt and pray everyday God will give you the strength to continue on your journey. 2 Samuel 22:33-34 "It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights." You will get there Matt, we believe with all our hearts.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Rehab Continues Forward

Talked to mom and Matt on skype on Thursday. Mom was trying to tell me about Matt's rehab and he kept putting on the Sea Battle game! It was very hard to concentrate on what mom was saying with all the winning (by me, of course)!
However Wednesday Matt did some exercises on the mat and was quite impressed with himself. He was on his belly and the situated his arms and elbows just right underneath him and he held himself up for 10 mins! Great work Matt, but be careful, because he ended up hurting his shoulder again. They think alot of his shoulder pain stems from his neck so I am hoping when he comes to Red Deer again, we can try a new machine we got at the office called a LILT machine, or low intensity light therapy. Works to stimulate increase in cell permeability to increase healing time, to put it in very simple terms. Worth a shot. Anyway, he also practiced some rolling exercises and did the arm bike for 15 mins, but feels very tight in his shoulders.
Thursday was on the mat again and tried holding himself up while sitting. You must put his left hand in the right position and he can do pretty well. They are trying to get his to sit by himself. Matt worked on the pulleys and did great. However they were giving him heck because he is supposed to do stretching exercises first thing in the morning but he stays up so late and sleeps in, so Matt, wake up call in our house will be earlier than you like, but just imagine you are training for the Olympics, with a gold medal for you when you walk again. Which you better start doing soon to work off some of that weight you have gained, 193 lbs. So great to see you regaining your strength and appetite.
Mom had briefly mentioned how great Matt did in rehab on Friday but was unable to speak to her long and so unsure what Matt did, but will find out tomorrow.
Continue to pray for Matt's shoulder and neck, and to allow them to heal and so progress can continue.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Long Weekend is Over

It feels like a tornado has hit and the aftermath has set in! Thank goodness for dad and mom to help restore order!
It wasn't really that bad and we had great weather with lots of beanbag games, with Shauna and I capturing the B side win. And I know because there are pictures to prove it! And Giselle and Brett won the A side, but I think the whole affair was rigged!
So great to see everyone and thanks for all the help. Matt has improved so much since he was here in May. If he really concentrated and was feeling good, he could bend his left elbow!! Also he is so much more easy to transfer. Uncle Jim made this amazing transfer board that is just perfect for Matt and I could almost transfer him myself. He is much stronger when he sits up and can balance himself a bit with his right hand. We were not able to do as much as we would have liked to but it was so busy with all the family that it was just nice to visit with everyone and sit by the campfire. Matt of course was the last one to bed most nights and that meant mom and I were also the last ones to bed. However Matt would sleep in to 11 am and I would be up by 8 am, so next time I will wake him up at 8 am!!
Matt returned back to Saskatoon on Tuesday and will be discharged from Parkridge on Aug. 29th, so getting things ready for the possibility of him coming here for a few months. We will see what happens so please pray for guidance on what would be the best for Matt.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Travelling to Red Deer

This will be a short blog, getting ready for the reunion!
Tuesday Matt dressed himself, shirt over his head and able to get both arms in but unable to pull it down the back. Had company in evening and also did some mat work.
Wednesday had physiotherapy with the sit stand machine. Matt also tried the cycle machine, the one he sits on and can move with either his legs or arms. He didn't do that well and was a bit disappointed but on Thursday the therapist adjusted the seat so he was sitting more upright and then he could really go!! He told me he went the length of the driveway in Weekes! Totally exhausted after that. I should think so! Great work Matt! Maybe we will have to look into buying you one of those!
So today they are on there way here so looking forward to seeing how much he has improved. It is always a treat.
Happy Long weekend to everyone and prayers for everyone's safety.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Happy Belated Nolan!

Just wanted to give a quick update. I was unable to speak with Matt last night because he had company and couldn't tell me about the days events.
Saturday dad returned to Saskatoon to be with Matt. The weekend was uneventful and didn't have to much to report.
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool. He was able to go onto his knees and then move himself back and forth while on his knees. Not just swaying back and forth, actually moving his right knee outwards, then bringing his left knee to where the right knee had been. So much easier under the water. Also did some leg swinging exercises under the water when he was standing.
Had some group occupational therapy and worked on strengthening his right hand with putty and doing arm exercises. Was up in his manual chair for the exercises but still having trouble with his shoulder and neck being so sore. But he said it is more tolerable now and can do some of his exercises so praises that it is improving.
Getting ready for the big trek to Red Deer on Friday. Mom is done work on Thursday and will be in Saskatoon Thursday evening. So hopefully get an early start to get here early. Need dad to cut the grass!!
Just wanted to wish Nolan a Happy Birthday yesterday and also a happy birthday to cousin Shauna, who is ??? I will not reveal her true age because then she would reveal mine!
Thanks to all the faithful readers, even though it is difficult during this busy time of year to keep up with the updates. Will hopefully give an update on the week by Thursday evening.

Friday, July 25, 2008

2 days not so good

Rehab has been a bit slow this week. Since Wed., Matt has been feeling lousy. Tried to do some standing exercises and BP dropped to 70/46. So was unable to go on his big outing. Not so good. Same thing happened on Thursday, so had to stay in his power chair. However he did have a bath which I can always tell because he is so nice and shiny!
Today he was feeling more like himself. This morning did some self care and discovered if his shorts are on the top of his lower legs, he can do a bridge by himself and pull the shorts the rest of the way. Feels like he is getting stronger with that. The therapists also got him in the sit/stand machine and just put the waist support on, not the butt support sling. They wanted to see if Matt could sit on an actual toilet, which he did. Hasn't done that for over a year but he said it didn't seem the same, he didn't have an Archie book with him!
Matt feels his shoulder is getting a bit better. When they got him on the mat on his tummy, they positioned his arms just right and was able to support himself quite comfortably, just like a kid laying on the floor watching TV.
They also tried the TENS machine on his left quad muscle to help him lift they leg while sitting in the chair. He could then hold it extended for 5 secs, which he proceeded to repeat the exercise for about 5 mins. So about 20 reps or so. His right leg doesn't need the stim machine because he can already lift it fairly well.
When I asked Matt how the left hand and arm was doing, he explained it like this: it feels like there is a heavy book on top of it and he doesn't have the muscle strength to lift it. With the right hand, even though he has lots of movement, it feels like it is underwater and there is always a weight on it as well. But just watching him on SKype, the movement is so much more fluid and he can lift his right arm so much higher over his head. So KUDOS to you Matty!
It is so encouraging to hear and see improvement all the time. So many people in your same situation are so discouraged about lack of improvement, or no improvement at all. With Matt, every achievement is meet with optimism and hope from not only Matt but the rest of his cheering squad.
1 Chronicles 16:8-9 "Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts."

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Shoulder Feeling Better

Well Matt shoulder isn't any different but they are giving him enough meds to numb the pain so he can be comfortable. Praise to God that it is feeling better.
Thursday Matt had a CAT scan on his bladder and kidneys to see if there were any more stones. His kidneys were clear however he has calcium deposits in his bladder. Should be fine. Pain is when it goes through the tubes from the kidneys to the bladder. Friday not too many therapists around so did some mat work. On the weekend Matt was supposed to watch some ladies fastball. They got to the diamond at 6 pm, payed the entry fee, just got under the bleachers when it began to rain. It rained and rained, then it began to hail. You couldn't even see the ball field it came down so hard. Then after the rain they went home, the game was cancelled. It was an expensive rain to watch!!
Sunday Matt went on an outing to the forestry farm and was able to see two baby Siberian tigers in a cave.
Monday Matt had OT therapy, really worked on his neck and arms. Lots of stretches and practiced doing dips in his chair. He goes from a sitting position and bends at the waist to try and touch the floor, then sits himself up again. Did really well. Strengthening his stomach muscles. Tried to do some standing but got really dizzy. They know it is from not standing enough, should be standing everyday but will try for at least twice a week.
Matt is excited about an outing he is going on without mom or dad (dad actually went back to Weekes on Sunday) and only with his therapist. She/he is taking him to the Midtown Plaza on Wednesday. He is always worried that he will need to be catheterized so is a bit apprehensive but prayers the trip will go smoothly.
Continue to pray for improvement in Matt's conditiona and shoulder. Psalms 5:1-3"Give ear to my words, O Lord, consider my sighing. Listen to my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray. In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation."

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Prayers for Shoulder

Matt's rehab has been more limited due to the intense pain he is experiencing in his left shoulder. Yesterday it was so bad when he was up in his manual chair, he couldn't help but cry. After 3 Advil and an ice pack, he was finally able to bear the pain. So the rehab is focusing more on his right and his standing. But it is still too limiting for what Matt needs
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool but wasn't able to stand up in it because there was a shortage of staff. Last night while I was taking to Matt on Skype, we found a bowling game we could do and it was great fun, except I stink! I only bowled 77 and Matt got 155.
Matt also has an0ther bladder infection but he doesn't have to take any meds unless it gets worse. It is the type that is usually self-limiting, but if it does get worse he will have to go on IV medication. So prayers that won't happen.
But especially pray for the pain in his left shoulder to subside and they are able to figure out something so he can continue with his rehab. Chronic pain can eat away at you. One drop of water on the top of your head doesn't feel like anything, but after the 1000 drop it can drive you crazy. Psalms 6:2 Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am faint; O Lord, heal me, for my bones are in agony. And verse 9 "The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer."

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Quarantine Lifted

Matt was very happy to hear the quarantine was lifted Friday afternoon. One thing about dad not being there is Matt had to do some things for himself. He said that made him extremely grateful for dad and all the time he spends with Matt.
Wednesday Matt dressed himself, or should I say just his shirt. Unable to lift it over his head, because of all the rocks in it! In the head,,, not the shirt. Stood in the standing frame 3 times. Really working on Matt's upper body strength. They put the machine to about 80% of the way, and then Matt has to use his upper body to get himself into a full standing position. He says it is awful, so tired afterwards. Matt was also able to go outside on the lawn, but not in the parking lot. Was in his electric chair but was in his manual chair on Thursday. If he stays in his electric chair too long his legs become spastic. Was able to talk to dad from a distance but unable to make contact. Dad was busy making sure the van was in tiptop shape for the journey to Red Deer for the August long weekend. Cost $400 just to change all the fluids and replace some parts. Nothing is cheap these days.
On Friday when Matt was in his manual chair, tried wheeling himself around but by noon he was exhausted and had to ask for help to get him to and from his room. Tried also lifting his left leg with his right leg when they slipped off the wheelchair, the right being much stronger and said it was so difficult, like climbing a mountain without any training. Almost impossible. His mind is saying "yes I can do this" but his body is saying "Forget it Mister!" Has been eating all his meals by himself.
Friday was good news that he was able to visit with dad again. However still did rehab in his room because the quarantine was not lifted until later in the day. Played Wii with dad, baseball of course and also played some today when they were not watching the football game between Hamilton and Sask. Matt said it was such a close game with Sask winning 33-28 in the last 30 seconds of the game.
Tonight Matt and I were reminiscing about the "bad old days" when his injury first happened. I was talking about August long weekend last year and how when we almost lost Matt twice we got together and prayed for his healing and that he would continue to be with us. Thank God for answered prayers. Matt mentions it is so much a blur but still remembers when a fly would land on his nose and he couldn't brush it off. Again praise for Matt to be able to use his right hand to do so many things. 1 Chronicles 16:10-12 "Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced."

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

No Visitors For Awhile

Matthew phoned me last night upset about the no visitor rule for a few days due to a viral outbreak. So dad cannot go a visit and neither can anyone else. That is the first time since Matt was injured that someone hasn't been with him so prayers that the "quarantine" ends quickly and visitors are once again allowed. The worst part is no rehab in the therapy department because Matt cannot leave the floor he is on. So no trips outside and only therapy in his room.
Matt has been on the go since last Friday, when he travelled to Weekes for cousin Michelle's wedding. Loved sitting around the campfire and visiting with the family, stayed out until 1:30 am. For the wedding on Saturday they had a slow start and didn't even have Matt up when I phoned at 1pm. The wedding started at 2pm? in Weekes but I believe they made it on time.
Sunday visited again with family and didn't return to Saskatoon until 7 pm. Matt didn't get settled until 1230 am and was too worked up from all the happenings that he didn't feel tired and stayed up even later.
Monday Matt was once again in the pool. I think that is his favorite rehab. He was able to extend his legs in the pool like he was kicking to swim but needed weights to bring his legs back down. Also did a workout at the gym on the arm bike and pulleys.
Today Matt practiced dressing himself. He had gotten a new shirt which he really likes but is a bit smaller than what he is used to so was unalbe to get it over his head. Dad brought Matt some food, but wasn't able to see him. So a quiet day overall.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Watching Fastball

So much happened this week it is hard to know where to start!
On Sunday mom had phoned me quite worried about Matt. His temp was up, feeling unwell, no appetite. Having some difficulty breathing and worried it was his lungs. So on Monday she phoned back saying Matt had passed 2 large kidney stones. Now having had them myself, I was thinking a large grain of sand. Mom actually measured it and it was 1/4 inch by 1/4 inch. Hard as a rock. And he passed 2 of them! This is one time Matt I can tell you that you are lucky you cannot feel pain the same as the rest of us because I would have died! They showed the Dr. when they returned to Saskatoon and he just couldn't believe that Matt didn't feel much pain. You could definitely give birth Matt and laugh at the pain!
So needless to say Matt is feeling a whole lot better. Appetite has improved, feeling stronger and his temp is down. Tuesday they went to the P.P. sports day. Matt was disappointed there where so few slow pitch and fastball teams but enjoyed visiting with everyone. Then it was back to Saskatoon.
Wednesday Matt did some mat work to do muscle testing and evaluation. They feel his left has had a noticeable improvement, but his right side is about the same. Just taking a breather so the left can catch up. Practiced standing with the standing frame in his room. Jacki and the kids stopped in for a visit on their way to Michelle's wedding this weekend. They are staying at Auntie Karen's and Uncle Neil's because mom's car was broken into. I think she was more upset that they took a bag of chips. I told her to stop eating those things! Or at least finish them! So now she is having her windshield repaired because they threw a big rock to break the glass.
Today was a busy day. Dad was quite impressed at something Matt did. When Matt is in his manual chair, to lift his left hand from the wheel of his chair he needs to reach over and lift it with his right hand. However today he used his shoulder in a straight lift to get his left hand back on his lap. Took alot of work but he did it. Did some group therapy today and practiced hitting the balloon with the badminton racket. Then they made Matt put rings onto some poles, but they kept lifting the poles higher and higher, so Matt had to reach up. He could make it to about eye level but really had to work hard. Jacki was his coach and wouldn't let him quit.Probably nagged him into doing it! Stood for 7 mins in the Argyl, which is the standing frame he can walk in but not doing too much walking these days, just working on standing. Also did some mat work and they laid him on his belly. I am sure that felt weird, hasn't done that for ages. Felt good though. Wanted to check how his breathing was and did fine.
Right now Matt, Jacki, and dad are watching fastball at Gordie Howe Park. Grandma got stuck.. I mean.. has the privilege of babysitting. Canada just finished beating U.S. 4-2 and they are wathcing Japan play the U.S. When I asked when they were going back to Parkridge Matt said not until the 50/50 was drawn.
Thanks for all the friends who came to see Matt. So good to be part of life outside of the nursing home. I know that you are often overwhelmed by your situation Matt, but the Lord is always with you. Lamentations 3:32-33 "Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction of grief to the children of men."

Monday, June 30, 2008

One year Anniversary

Usually when you think of an anniversary it is in correlation with a happy event. Matt has enjoyed being home but difficult to think about all the things he was doing last year prior to his accident. But lets recap on what Matt was like right after his injury. He was on a ventilator, had surgery on his neck, was unable to drink water, eat or communicate verbally. The only way he could talk to us was by blinking his eyes using an alphabet board. The future was very bleak and the chances of Matt ever moving or breathing on his own were less than 1%. So Matt, let's celebrate your accomplishments since that day and only look forward and up. You have come such a long way and we love you for all you have done. Thanks for continue to persevere and retain hope for the future. We all know with the power of the Lord you can do anything Matt!

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Home Tomorrow

Matt is going to Weekes tomorrow to attend the sports day. It is hard to believe it is almost the one year anniversary of the accident. Matt was a bit sad today thinking about what he was doing on this day last year and how quickly it all changed on June 30th.
Tuesday: Matt was able to try out the standing frame again. Always dizzy the first go but on the 2nd try was able to stand 8-10 mins. He doesn't wear the knee brace when he is in the frame because his knees are pushed right against the frame. Tried out the muscle stim on the left arm and also on the left calf muscle. The reason they are doing this is to try on get Matt's foot to lift up towards the ceiling. Still drags his toe. Found out something interesting. Matt is always saying is neck and left shoulder are sore. So did an x-ray and discovered he has a sublixation, or separation of the shoulder. His muscle is not strong enough to hold his bones so needs a rest. Mom has to go and buy a binder at some medical supply store to hold his shoulder from moving too much.
Wednesday: did something cool while he was laying in bed. Matt put his shirt on all by himself. It took him 25 minutes but he did it! We are so proud of you, Matty! God never said it would be easy, He just gives you the strength to persevere. Romans
5:3-5 "Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us."
Today: Matt had a bath, and I can always tell because his hair looks so shiny! Did some more transferring, and mom said he looks stronger. Feeling tired but felt better in the afternoon. Still has antibiotics for one more day than is finished. Stood with the standing frame again. The first time up was dizzy but remained standing for 5 minutes, The second time stood for 6 minutes. Mom said they even forgot his abdomen binder and he still did well. Then Matt had to work but was rewarded with a pizza, which he almost ate by himself.
I can't say it enough, you always astound me with your patience and fortitude. When I grow up, I want to be just like you! (Of course, that will never happen...the growing up part I mean!)

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Mom Is Back

So much to write about so here we go!
Friday was very unproductive. Matt hasn't been feeling like eating until supper time, and after he gets his supper meds he feels better. He didn't have any rehab because all his therapists were gone. It might have something to do with it being 26 degrees. So warm Matt had a little burn when he was outside.
Saturday Matt went with dad to watch 10 and 12 year olds play baseball. He said they are definitely in need of practice and coaching. However I told him what it was like watching him play hockey when he was young. We would cheer like crazy if he would touch the puck once the whole game. The rest of the time we would be yelling at him to stop looking in the windows at his reflection! Feeling better today. Took Gravol in the am so was able to eat lunch. (Just an update that Matt is off his sleeping pills since he was home for Grandma's funeral and is still suffering with a urinary tract infection and they have switched antibiotics). For exercise dad took the legs off is power chair and practiced straightening his legs.
Sunday watched some more ball. Said it was not much better. Good to get outside.
Monday Matt was in the pool again. First he starts out by sitting on the edge of the bed with help. Then he has to transfer on to a trolley like mechanism so they can wheel him down to the pool. The trolley hooks up to the pool lift. There is no ramp into the pool so can't use a wheelchair. Then they lower him into the pool and put noodles under his back and arms, another under his hips, so he is laying horizontal. Then to stand, they put weights on Matt's ankles.
Matt also did some mat exercises. First he transfers from his chair to the mat with the help of one staff member and dad pulls the chair back, which is an improvement. Matt said he surprised himself today by sitting over the edge of the bed for over 6 minutes. First the therapists get him into a sitting position, put his hands beside him and tell him to balance himself. He tried to lift his legs at the same time however he almost fell over.
Did some muscle stim on his left elbow to get it to bend. Practiced with the hand putty and there was a noticeable imprint in the putty so more strength in his left hand. Keep working hard, Matt. Don't give up faith. Remember the story of Peter on the boat. Jesus was walking towards the boat on the water and Peter started to walk towards Him. However when the wind started blowing and he focused on his physical environment, he became scared and started to sink. Jesus reached out his hand to Peter and saved him, saying "You of little faith, why did you doubt? (Matthew 14:27-31) Don't focus on earthly things to maintain your faith, just look up!