I so wanted to write a blog Christmas day but I was so busy stuffing myself and..well..that is about it. We all travelled to Jacki's on the 23rd for the big day. We left later than expected because Matt had OT at 1 pm and by the time we left it as after 4 pm. I followed behind the van and was worried about the icy conditions however we mad it without any major incidents except one. The van started to overheat and we realized the cardboard dad had put in to try and keep the van warm was too effective. Also the temp went from being a freezing -21 at Red Deer to -9 at Carstairs. Crazy weather in Alberta.
We opened the exchange gifts on the 23rd because Nolan and Lindsay travelled to her folks in Vernon on the 24th. Matt was very excited over the gift Mom and Dad gave him. It turns out Nolan was getting a ticket to see the Flames on New Year's, and that is also what Gary gave to Jacki. So now Matt and Mom are going to the game as well. So they will be travelling back to Calgary for the big game.
We tried out Matt's new mattress at Jacki's and it worked great. It is guaranteed to prevent bedsores. Matt and mom were so tired on the night of the 24th that neither one woke up for 6 hours. Mom was in a panic that Matt would have a pressure sore from not moving but the mattress did it's job. It is the first time since the accident that Matt has slept so many hours in a row. Far cry from last Christmas when he was still being suctioned, could hardly move more than his right arm, and was sick 90% of the time. At church on Sunday the minister spoke of a wonderful, not well known verses in Habakkuk 3:18-19. 'I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my Saviour. The sovereign Lord is my strength; He makes my feet like the feet of a deer, He enables me to go on the heights." Matt, you have reached heights that a year ago seemed impossible, but as we know, nothing is impossible with God.
Today Matt again back in Red Deer and has OT once again. So the break of Christmas is over and back to exercises and working towards Matt's goal of walking again. So a belated Merry Christmas to all and an early New year's greeting.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Monday, December 22, 2008
Christmas is coming
Well the cold weather has settled in for the long haul. We are travelling to Calgary tomorrow and the temp will remain about 20 below. Dad returned from Weekes today so I am gladly relinquishing the keys to the beast to him. Matt has one more OT therapy before they break for holidays and then off to Calgary.
This week has been fairly quiet due to the poor weather however we did manage to get into town for a LILT treatment and OT. The therapist is so good with trying to strengthen Matt's abs and trying to think of ways that will improve his turning ability while laying down. The Homecare nurse came to do an assessment of the house to see if everything was up to par. She was quite impressed on how sunny the basement is because of the walk-out. However she is trying to work out where we can take Matt for a bath. So much politics to go through first. We mentioned we would gladly pay but we have to wait for the okay from the powers that be. The Homecare nurse will also look into getting Matt an electric bed for more independence.
Dad picked up a special mattress to prevent breakdown in his skin from Saskatoon. Uncle Jim had picked it up a week early and was holding it for us. Thanks Uncle. Aunty Karen tried to fit it in her car but is was just too big. Another new thing we purchased was a stimulator machine. We couldn't get the one we wanted because of price however this one will be okey until we get a better one. It stimulates Matt's muscles to contract to increase muscle tone and will promote more movement. The girls are having a great time trying it out on Matt.
Everyone is getting ready for Christmas and mom and I spent all weekend baking. It scares me on how much time it takes to prepare food and how little time it takes to eat it! We would like to take this opportunity to thanks everyone who have keep Matt and our family in their prayers and thoughts, for all the kind words, help and encouragement. It has been so helpful and we want to wish all of you a very Merry Christmas and God's many blessing in 2009. Luke 2:11 For to you is born this day in the town of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:14 Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace and good will among men. Merry Christmas to you all from the Gustafson family.
This week has been fairly quiet due to the poor weather however we did manage to get into town for a LILT treatment and OT. The therapist is so good with trying to strengthen Matt's abs and trying to think of ways that will improve his turning ability while laying down. The Homecare nurse came to do an assessment of the house to see if everything was up to par. She was quite impressed on how sunny the basement is because of the walk-out. However she is trying to work out where we can take Matt for a bath. So much politics to go through first. We mentioned we would gladly pay but we have to wait for the okay from the powers that be. The Homecare nurse will also look into getting Matt an electric bed for more independence.
Dad picked up a special mattress to prevent breakdown in his skin from Saskatoon. Uncle Jim had picked it up a week early and was holding it for us. Thanks Uncle. Aunty Karen tried to fit it in her car but is was just too big. Another new thing we purchased was a stimulator machine. We couldn't get the one we wanted because of price however this one will be okey until we get a better one. It stimulates Matt's muscles to contract to increase muscle tone and will promote more movement. The girls are having a great time trying it out on Matt.
Everyone is getting ready for Christmas and mom and I spent all weekend baking. It scares me on how much time it takes to prepare food and how little time it takes to eat it! We would like to take this opportunity to thanks everyone who have keep Matt and our family in their prayers and thoughts, for all the kind words, help and encouragement. It has been so helpful and we want to wish all of you a very Merry Christmas and God's many blessing in 2009. Luke 2:11 For to you is born this day in the town of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:14 Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace and good will among men. Merry Christmas to you all from the Gustafson family.
Monday, December 15, 2008
No Internet
I am quickly updating the blog from work in between patients. Our Internet at home has been down since Friday night. Hoping to get it back soon however this freezing, mind numbing cold will continue for awhile and they cannot send out anyone to check the tower. -40 this am with the windchill so Matt is house bound for a few days. We did manage to make it to a Lacrosse game Saturday night. The van started great but I noticed it was not giving off any heat. By the time we got home from the game Matt was a little frozen ice cube in the back. Without heat, the hydraulic lift for the wheelchair was soo slow that John, Cecilia, and myself would get on with Matt to give it more weight to get it down. Ahh, lovely winter.
But Matt did enjoy the game between Calgary Roughnecks and Edmonton Rush. Disappointed in the food, not like the Porcupine rink where you order fries and can actually share with your friends.
Last night when we were putting Matt to bed, mom and I found that he was able to move easier than when he first got here. When lying in bed, he can make his knees bend one at a time with spastic movements. Also on Thursday he had a cold and was getting cold and hot. The interesting thing was he started to sweat in his lower back, which he hasn't done since the accident. So more nerve conduction is going through we hope.
Barry and Giselle stopped in for a short visit on Sunday. They had travelled from Victoria last week and it was nice to see them.
Have great day and stay warm.
But Matt did enjoy the game between Calgary Roughnecks and Edmonton Rush. Disappointed in the food, not like the Porcupine rink where you order fries and can actually share with your friends.
Last night when we were putting Matt to bed, mom and I found that he was able to move easier than when he first got here. When lying in bed, he can make his knees bend one at a time with spastic movements. Also on Thursday he had a cold and was getting cold and hot. The interesting thing was he started to sweat in his lower back, which he hasn't done since the accident. So more nerve conduction is going through we hope.
Barry and Giselle stopped in for a short visit on Sunday. They had travelled from Victoria last week and it was nice to see them.
Have great day and stay warm.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Starting to Snow
Well winter is trying to arrive in Alberta. I can see where it will be very difficult to travel with Matt. Hard to push the chair in the snow, even if it is only a little bit. When I drive the van, it makes me so nervous that it will be icy and so if you are ever behind a great big beast on the road and it is going very slowly, just be patient! It is just me! Psalms 4:8 "I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety". A verse for the winter!
Matt continues to go to OT at Red Deer Hospital. They are going to measure him for a wheelchair but it might not be done until January. Hopefully it will be done sooner so we can get it for the New Year. We found out that because the manual chair he is in now causes him to get neck aches.
Friday I took Matt for some LILT treatment for his neck. I give dad so much credit for driving the beast all the way from Sask. I gave myself a headache just driving 13 kms! The van sways like a boat in water when it hits a bump. And dad drove it before it was properly fixed so Matt said it was even worse. Matt and I went to look at a Dodge Sprinter. It is a great big 10 seater that has 5"9' doors at the back and when you stand inside it is over 6 feet. It wouldn't take much to make it wheelchair accessible and we would still have room for 5 people to sit. But will have to wait and see what the final cost will be. It is a buyers market right now so hopefully it will be reasonably priced. After we looked at the van, we went over to the mall to do some shopping. Found some great gifts and Matt enjoyed the outing. Their were many people in wheelchairs so we were checking out their wheels.
Yesterday Matt and I went back to town to pick up his computer, which is all fixed up. IT is working great. Decided to head to the mall again and ran in to some friends of ours that have read the blog since day one and were very excited to finally meet Matt. They couldn't get over how good he was looking. By the time we left it was dark and getting icy so we headed home slowly.
Right now Matt and Jonmarie are playing Wii and are having a great time. It is a wonderful way for Matt and Jonmarie to spend time together and also for Matt to get some exercise on the weekend. He was in bed most of the afternoon because our power was off for 4 hours and the house was freezing! Can't wait until they get our new natural gas fireplace hooked up so next time we can have heat.
Big hello to everyone and will keep you updated. Mom has a email address now. It is jgustafson1@hotmail.com
Matt continues to go to OT at Red Deer Hospital. They are going to measure him for a wheelchair but it might not be done until January. Hopefully it will be done sooner so we can get it for the New Year. We found out that because the manual chair he is in now causes him to get neck aches.
Friday I took Matt for some LILT treatment for his neck. I give dad so much credit for driving the beast all the way from Sask. I gave myself a headache just driving 13 kms! The van sways like a boat in water when it hits a bump. And dad drove it before it was properly fixed so Matt said it was even worse. Matt and I went to look at a Dodge Sprinter. It is a great big 10 seater that has 5"9' doors at the back and when you stand inside it is over 6 feet. It wouldn't take much to make it wheelchair accessible and we would still have room for 5 people to sit. But will have to wait and see what the final cost will be. It is a buyers market right now so hopefully it will be reasonably priced. After we looked at the van, we went over to the mall to do some shopping. Found some great gifts and Matt enjoyed the outing. Their were many people in wheelchairs so we were checking out their wheels.
Yesterday Matt and I went back to town to pick up his computer, which is all fixed up. IT is working great. Decided to head to the mall again and ran in to some friends of ours that have read the blog since day one and were very excited to finally meet Matt. They couldn't get over how good he was looking. By the time we left it was dark and getting icy so we headed home slowly.
Right now Matt and Jonmarie are playing Wii and are having a great time. It is a wonderful way for Matt and Jonmarie to spend time together and also for Matt to get some exercise on the weekend. He was in bed most of the afternoon because our power was off for 4 hours and the house was freezing! Can't wait until they get our new natural gas fireplace hooked up so next time we can have heat.
Big hello to everyone and will keep you updated. Mom has a email address now. It is jgustafson1@hotmail.com
Monday, December 1, 2008
Dad went home for awhile
Dad went home with Nolan today to see how the house is holding up and to just get away for awhile. It is not easy living in someone house and I think a break is just what he needed. However we have lost our driver so back to taxi's for at least one day a week. On Wednesday I am not working so I will give it the old college try and drive the beast so lots of prayers for Matt's safety!! Dad gave me a run down but am very nervous about driving the beast. So far the weather is co-operating and still no snow. It did get colder with a massive wind today and risk of snow.
Last week we were unable to take Matt to the pool like we had planned. He wasn't feeling up to par with his blood pressure continuously dropping when he would stand or transfer.
Today he was much stronger. When the girls where doing his exercises on the floor, they had him doing bridging exercises. That is when he lays on his back, the girls lift his knees to a bent position with his feet still on the floor. Then he pushes up with his abdomen and lifts his bum off the floor. Today there was an extra twist. Shaunie thought it looked like great fun and sat on his stomach. Matt, die hard that he is, decided to keep going and completed 10 bridges in a row. Jonmarie felt left out and decided to sit with her 50 lbs of weight and Matt did another ten more. Even I can't do that, without whining and complaining. Keep it up Matt!!
John's birthday was last week and we had friends from Yorkton and Ontario come to the house to say hi to Matt. One was an orthopedic surgeon and was so shocked by the amount of dexterity Matt had in his right hand. He thought it was about a T1 injury (remember there are 7 cervical vertebrae before you get to the thoracic vertebrae and Matt's injury was at C2-C3).
Matt is waiting for an MRI for his head, neck and shoulder. Hopefully at the beginning of the new year. Still going for laser treatments and as usual Matt is still charming everyone he meets. A new Sask. roughriders hat now sits on his desk for him to wear because of his irresistible smile.
Love to all and special prayers and thoughts to our Weekes neighbor Alex who is recovering from a heart attack in Saskatoon. Thanks to Ardith and Tom for looking after the house and dog while everyone was away.
Ephesians 6:18 "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests."
Last week we were unable to take Matt to the pool like we had planned. He wasn't feeling up to par with his blood pressure continuously dropping when he would stand or transfer.
Today he was much stronger. When the girls where doing his exercises on the floor, they had him doing bridging exercises. That is when he lays on his back, the girls lift his knees to a bent position with his feet still on the floor. Then he pushes up with his abdomen and lifts his bum off the floor. Today there was an extra twist. Shaunie thought it looked like great fun and sat on his stomach. Matt, die hard that he is, decided to keep going and completed 10 bridges in a row. Jonmarie felt left out and decided to sit with her 50 lbs of weight and Matt did another ten more. Even I can't do that, without whining and complaining. Keep it up Matt!!
John's birthday was last week and we had friends from Yorkton and Ontario come to the house to say hi to Matt. One was an orthopedic surgeon and was so shocked by the amount of dexterity Matt had in his right hand. He thought it was about a T1 injury (remember there are 7 cervical vertebrae before you get to the thoracic vertebrae and Matt's injury was at C2-C3).
Matt is waiting for an MRI for his head, neck and shoulder. Hopefully at the beginning of the new year. Still going for laser treatments and as usual Matt is still charming everyone he meets. A new Sask. roughriders hat now sits on his desk for him to wear because of his irresistible smile.
Love to all and special prayers and thoughts to our Weekes neighbor Alex who is recovering from a heart attack in Saskatoon. Thanks to Ardith and Tom for looking after the house and dog while everyone was away.
Ephesians 6:18 "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests."
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Mid week update
Now that the van is fixed will venture to the swimming pool for the first time tonight. Matt's a bit apprehensive about going into the water again. Those of you who cannot swim, you feel very vulnerable and that is what Matt experiences, for he is completely dependent on others for his safety. Prayers that all goes well tonight.
Another point of interest, the girls tried to exercise Matt's legs with the bike machine (just like the top picture but instead of his arms, he uses his legs). It was difficult to get him started, just couldn't get the rhythm started and Matt's huge knees kept banging together. However through perseverance Matt got into a rhythm and was able to complete 23 mins! He was very excited and very anxious to start physio therapy at the hospital. So prayers that we will soon get the call for him to start. Still gets really dizzy when we try to stand him and is taking 3 meds to try and boost his blood pressure, but it still drops to 74/50 at times, which is much too low. Feeding him lots of salt! We may look into getting him a cow lick! Thanks for all the comments.
Another point of interest, the girls tried to exercise Matt's legs with the bike machine (just like the top picture but instead of his arms, he uses his legs). It was difficult to get him started, just couldn't get the rhythm started and Matt's huge knees kept banging together. However through perseverance Matt got into a rhythm and was able to complete 23 mins! He was very excited and very anxious to start physio therapy at the hospital. So prayers that we will soon get the call for him to start. Still gets really dizzy when we try to stand him and is taking 3 meds to try and boost his blood pressure, but it still drops to 74/50 at times, which is much too low. Feeding him lots of salt! We may look into getting him a cow lick! Thanks for all the comments.
Monday, November 24, 2008
New Pictures
Finally got to sit down and change pictures on the blog. Renovations continue however we did get our dining room back so can sit in front of the computer in comfort. Matt's laptop is on not working so I couldn't even use his. Hoping to get it fixed soon. We are having the worst luck keeping things running!
Mom, dad, and Matt went to Jacki and Gary's this weekend for a visit. Some friends of Matt's who he had met while going to school in Calgary invited everyone to a Grey Cup party for Sunday. Everything worked out great. They were able to take the portable ramp and everyone did there best to make Matt feel right at home. Gary even shaved Matt's beard and it looks so much better. Saturday night Nolan came over to play games and they stayed up until 2 am. Matt didn't sleep great because of the pain in his neck. The OT thinks it is because Matt's manual wheelchair is not the right size for him, which it isn't. He just borrowed it from another patient while in Saskatoon. Great west Life has agreed to buy him a new one built for his size so ordering a new one as soon as possible. Van is working great so that is a blessing.
Jacki phoned today to tell us Bobby was crying this morning when he woke up and Uncle Matt was gone. Of course Jonmarie and Shaunie were so happy to see him back in Red Deer, so there may be a few scraps over Uncle Matt in the future. Jonmarie loves playing Wii games with him and is starting to get quite good at it. But she sure hates to lose! And Uncle Matt won't let her win which I find funny because he was such a poor loser when he was young and always wanted us to let him win.
Weather continues to be great with a high of +5 today and still no snow. We are definitely not complaining. Keep praying!
Mom, dad, and Matt went to Jacki and Gary's this weekend for a visit. Some friends of Matt's who he had met while going to school in Calgary invited everyone to a Grey Cup party for Sunday. Everything worked out great. They were able to take the portable ramp and everyone did there best to make Matt feel right at home. Gary even shaved Matt's beard and it looks so much better. Saturday night Nolan came over to play games and they stayed up until 2 am. Matt didn't sleep great because of the pain in his neck. The OT thinks it is because Matt's manual wheelchair is not the right size for him, which it isn't. He just borrowed it from another patient while in Saskatoon. Great west Life has agreed to buy him a new one built for his size so ordering a new one as soon as possible. Van is working great so that is a blessing.
Jacki phoned today to tell us Bobby was crying this morning when he woke up and Uncle Matt was gone. Of course Jonmarie and Shaunie were so happy to see him back in Red Deer, so there may be a few scraps over Uncle Matt in the future. Jonmarie loves playing Wii games with him and is starting to get quite good at it. But she sure hates to lose! And Uncle Matt won't let her win which I find funny because he was such a poor loser when he was young and always wanted us to let him win.
Weather continues to be great with a high of +5 today and still no snow. We are definitely not complaining. Keep praying!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Van is Fixed
We finally got the van back on Friday. Cost a bit more than we hoped but it is better than trying to get a taxi everyday.
Everyone in our house except mom and myself has had the flu. Matt got it on the weekend and was really under the weather. Saturday he didn't even get out of bed. But unlike last year, when he gets sick, he rebounds much quicker.
Still going to OT 2 times a week and still waiting for physio at the hospital. The nannies are working him in the mean time. Shaunie even helps out when Uncle Matt leans too far forward in his chair and can't sit himself back up without some help. So Shaunie pushes on Uncle Matt's head and shoulders to get him to sit up. She was having a difficult time at the beginning with all the changes and her school was noticing a regression in her behaviour, but hopefully that will pass.
Grandma is in Calgary tonight enjoying the hockey game live! Gary and Jacki got her some tickets, thought she would enjoy a night out. Matt can transfer from the chair to the bed with 2 people so dad and I will get him all settled in. Jonmarie and Shaunie are already sleeping. The nannies are still here and playing games. Earlier Matt was teaching them how to play Wii. It was hilarious listening to them giggling downstairs.
Tomorrow Matt again goes to OT and then to John's office for more laser treatment on his neck and shoulder. The pain as greatly diminished and now Matt only takes Advil about once a week, if that. So thanks for all the prayers! And thanks for all those loyal followers of the blog. It is hard to believe that we started it almost 17 months ago. Will continue to keep you posted.
Everyone in our house except mom and myself has had the flu. Matt got it on the weekend and was really under the weather. Saturday he didn't even get out of bed. But unlike last year, when he gets sick, he rebounds much quicker.
Still going to OT 2 times a week and still waiting for physio at the hospital. The nannies are working him in the mean time. Shaunie even helps out when Uncle Matt leans too far forward in his chair and can't sit himself back up without some help. So Shaunie pushes on Uncle Matt's head and shoulders to get him to sit up. She was having a difficult time at the beginning with all the changes and her school was noticing a regression in her behaviour, but hopefully that will pass.
Grandma is in Calgary tonight enjoying the hockey game live! Gary and Jacki got her some tickets, thought she would enjoy a night out. Matt can transfer from the chair to the bed with 2 people so dad and I will get him all settled in. Jonmarie and Shaunie are already sleeping. The nannies are still here and playing games. Earlier Matt was teaching them how to play Wii. It was hilarious listening to them giggling downstairs.
Tomorrow Matt again goes to OT and then to John's office for more laser treatment on his neck and shoulder. The pain as greatly diminished and now Matt only takes Advil about once a week, if that. So thanks for all the prayers! And thanks for all those loyal followers of the blog. It is hard to believe that we started it almost 17 months ago. Will continue to keep you posted.
Monday, November 10, 2008
We are so grateful for the good weather. This weekend there was a high of +8. Today a bit colder at +1 and overcast, but still no snow.
Matt is now going for occupational therapy twice a week at the hospital and really enjoys his OT. He also continues to go for laser treatments at the office and we were really encouraged last week when Matt bent his left elbow unassisted. We get him on the floor and then do exercises, and while they were doing the exercises, they noticed his left elbow wanting to bend. So by holding his muscle right above the elbow, they were able to stimulate his muscle enough to bend, but Matt had to do all the movement. However he forgets what muscles are needed so we tap on the back of his arm when he is supposed to bring his arm down and tap on the forearm to lift his arm up, so he can remember what way to move it.
Renovations continue so the house is upside down but everyone is settling in. This weekend we had Jonmarie's birthday party and the family was all here.
The van is still in the shop and it will cost alot of money to get it running. Hard to know what to do, get a new one or fix the old one. Using the taxi everyday gets expensive, running over $60 a day. But we will figure it out.
Sorry it has taken so long to write the blog. Because of the reno's. our computer was moved and unplugged, and I was unable to access the blog from Matt's computer. Will try to write once a week.
Matt is now going for occupational therapy twice a week at the hospital and really enjoys his OT. He also continues to go for laser treatments at the office and we were really encouraged last week when Matt bent his left elbow unassisted. We get him on the floor and then do exercises, and while they were doing the exercises, they noticed his left elbow wanting to bend. So by holding his muscle right above the elbow, they were able to stimulate his muscle enough to bend, but Matt had to do all the movement. However he forgets what muscles are needed so we tap on the back of his arm when he is supposed to bring his arm down and tap on the forearm to lift his arm up, so he can remember what way to move it.
Renovations continue so the house is upside down but everyone is settling in. This weekend we had Jonmarie's birthday party and the family was all here.
The van is still in the shop and it will cost alot of money to get it running. Hard to know what to do, get a new one or fix the old one. Using the taxi everyday gets expensive, running over $60 a day. But we will figure it out.
Sorry it has taken so long to write the blog. Because of the reno's. our computer was moved and unplugged, and I was unable to access the blog from Matt's computer. Will try to write once a week.
Friday, October 31, 2008
Van in the Shop
Once again we are struggling with the van. Matt had started going every second day to John's office for LILT treatment, the low intensity light therapy. Yesterday, the van barely made it to the clinic and that was it. Thankfully Matt was able to take a cab home after his therapy and we got the van towed to a garage. The prognosis is poor but we are hoping they will be able to get it back on its wheels again. So for now, Matt is taking a taxi when he needs to go into town.
The weather has been great, with this being the first Halloween in history when you could actually see what the kids were wearing (no heavy jackets).
Good news for the family, Jamie Relitz had a baby boy. Congratulations to mommy and daddy and new Grandpa and Grandma!
Matt continues to work hard with therapy, with sessions of 2 hours in the am and 2 hours in the pm. He seems to be getting stronger again, so lets hope he keeps improving. Matt has occupational therapy starting in the hospital Monday at 9:30. He is already dreading waking up so early.
We are still in the midst of major renovations and hoping to have it all finished by the middle of November.
Please pray for us as a family. The transition has been a bit difficult and we are still working out some kinks, but it will take time to find everyone's "fit'.
Happy Halloween to all!
The weather has been great, with this being the first Halloween in history when you could actually see what the kids were wearing (no heavy jackets).
Good news for the family, Jamie Relitz had a baby boy. Congratulations to mommy and daddy and new Grandpa and Grandma!
Matt continues to work hard with therapy, with sessions of 2 hours in the am and 2 hours in the pm. He seems to be getting stronger again, so lets hope he keeps improving. Matt has occupational therapy starting in the hospital Monday at 9:30. He is already dreading waking up so early.
We are still in the midst of major renovations and hoping to have it all finished by the middle of November.
Please pray for us as a family. The transition has been a bit difficult and we are still working out some kinks, but it will take time to find everyone's "fit'.
Happy Halloween to all!
Friday, October 24, 2008
The House is Full!!
Sorry it has taken me so long to write. The gang finally got here at 11:30pm Tuesday night. What a sorry looking bunch! Big circles under their eyes, and so tired. By the time they unpacked and got Matt settled, it was 1:30 am. I think they are still recuperating.
Things have been so hectic since they came I haven't been able to catch up on much, but things will settle once mom knows where to find things and stop phoning me at work!!
Matt has been getting in home therapy since Wednesday and there is a noticeable decline in some functions, however with the rehab plan the 2 nannies have in store for him, Matt will soon regain most of his lost function. We are still waiting to hear if Matt can attend some rehab as an outpatient at the hospital. So far everything is working out okay.
Right now Nolan and Lindsay came from Calgary for the weekend to help dad build a ramp for the front of the house to make it easier to get Matt in. Right now dad has the ramp but it is so steep that 2-3 people have to push him up. Matt has also gained some weight so makes him heavier to push. So we have a very full house but we are having a great time playing Yahtzee, sequence, crib, etc. The nannies like it too, learning all new games. Jonmarie and Shaunie love having family around.
Thanks for all the "safety" prayers that were sent on Tuesday. I was starting to get a bit worried but the arrived safe and sound. Continue to pray for Matt's rehab and that Matt will once again be progressing.
Things have been so hectic since they came I haven't been able to catch up on much, but things will settle once mom knows where to find things and stop phoning me at work!!
Matt has been getting in home therapy since Wednesday and there is a noticeable decline in some functions, however with the rehab plan the 2 nannies have in store for him, Matt will soon regain most of his lost function. We are still waiting to hear if Matt can attend some rehab as an outpatient at the hospital. So far everything is working out okay.
Right now Nolan and Lindsay came from Calgary for the weekend to help dad build a ramp for the front of the house to make it easier to get Matt in. Right now dad has the ramp but it is so steep that 2-3 people have to push him up. Matt has also gained some weight so makes him heavier to push. So we have a very full house but we are having a great time playing Yahtzee, sequence, crib, etc. The nannies like it too, learning all new games. Jonmarie and Shaunie love having family around.
Thanks for all the "safety" prayers that were sent on Tuesday. I was starting to get a bit worried but the arrived safe and sound. Continue to pray for Matt's rehab and that Matt will once again be progressing.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Slow Going
Another update, you can tell that I am anxiously waiting.
Mom had phoned me at 3:30 and the were just passing Rosthern! They again had trouble after filling up in Porcupine, with the van smelling of gas and bucking like a wild bronco. By Tisdale they were about to turn around and call it quits, but decided to press on until Melfort and go to the auto shop there. By the time they pulled up, the van started behaving better and they were able to continue on. At 8pm, they had gotten as far as Provost. Unfortunately because of losing so much time, they were unable to stop in Parkridge so Matt was quite disappointed.
Because they are travelling in 2 vehicles, when Matt has to use the facilities, they both must stop and that takes time. So praying they will make it by midnight.
Prayers,prayers,prayers!
Mom had phoned me at 3:30 and the were just passing Rosthern! They again had trouble after filling up in Porcupine, with the van smelling of gas and bucking like a wild bronco. By Tisdale they were about to turn around and call it quits, but decided to press on until Melfort and go to the auto shop there. By the time they pulled up, the van started behaving better and they were able to continue on. At 8pm, they had gotten as far as Provost. Unfortunately because of losing so much time, they were unable to stop in Parkridge so Matt was quite disappointed.
Because they are travelling in 2 vehicles, when Matt has to use the facilities, they both must stop and that takes time. So praying they will make it by midnight.
Prayers,prayers,prayers!
On Their Way!!
I can hardly believe that they are on their way! They left this am a little later than expected, always something last minute to do. We are busy on our end, getting the basement cleaned up and moving some things for more space. The cement walkway outside is ready to go and we are hoping to have the deck rebuilt in the next week, as the last one had to be tore down due to structural damage.
Please pray for God's guidance on their trip and for their safety. I believe Matt wants to stop in Parkridge to have a visit, so will be here after 9 pm.
Keeping fingers (and toes) crossed!
Please pray for God's guidance on their trip and for their safety. I believe Matt wants to stop in Parkridge to have a visit, so will be here after 9 pm.
Keeping fingers (and toes) crossed!
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Getting Closer
Just to give an update, Mom is busy packing and Dad is getting the yard cleaned up and they are planning on leaving Monday at the latest. I am scared to hold my breathe, as I have been disappointed before! But it sounds as if everything is a go. So will keep you posted!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Happy Belated Thanksgiving
Matt, all I can say about missing the football game in Calgary is you were lucky. It was so embarrassing to be sitting next to Calgary Stampeder fans with Saskatchewan playing so bad. I mean, my goodness! Jacki and I finally left with 6 minutes left, and got comments like "leaving so soon?". At least if you would have been there, I could have hid behind your chair! The one high note was the weather was great, 16 degrees.
Aunty Karen and Uncle Neil came out to the farm for Sunday and had a good visit. Alex was at the house for Thanksgiving Monday and shared in the festivities.
So things are looking up for Matt to come to Red Deer this weekend. Matt will be finished IV therapy on Wednesday, and dad will go to Melfort on Thursday for a part for the van. Also, Matt will try to get a day of rehab in Melfort on Thursday. So things are looking brighter. I know Matt is worrying about some loss of function in his legs and right hand, but don't worry, Matt. It will be better when you can have some more therapy. That old saying if you don't use it you will lose it is so true for Matt. He must continually keep at it to even keep what mobility and dexterity he has.
We have so much to be thankful for this past year. Last year, Matt was still in ICU and on a ventilator. Could hardly move at all, just his right hand and could barely bend his elbow. So just think of how much improvement we can write next Thanksgiving.
Give thanks in all things, for this is the will of God.
Aunty Karen and Uncle Neil came out to the farm for Sunday and had a good visit. Alex was at the house for Thanksgiving Monday and shared in the festivities.
So things are looking up for Matt to come to Red Deer this weekend. Matt will be finished IV therapy on Wednesday, and dad will go to Melfort on Thursday for a part for the van. Also, Matt will try to get a day of rehab in Melfort on Thursday. So things are looking brighter. I know Matt is worrying about some loss of function in his legs and right hand, but don't worry, Matt. It will be better when you can have some more therapy. That old saying if you don't use it you will lose it is so true for Matt. He must continually keep at it to even keep what mobility and dexterity he has.
We have so much to be thankful for this past year. Last year, Matt was still in ICU and on a ventilator. Could hardly move at all, just his right hand and could barely bend his elbow. So just think of how much improvement we can write next Thanksgiving.
Give thanks in all things, for this is the will of God.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Intravenous
Well, things are again on hold. The van is working a bit better and dad was able to take it to Melfort and order a specific part, so hopefully the van troubles will be resolved. However Matt hasn't been feeling well since the beginning of the week, feeling unable to breathe, waking up with night sweats and unable to sleep, etc. So they found a infection in his urine that may also be in his lungs, not sure. So they started him on IV antibiotics to see if they can clear it up. Unfortunately he has to be on it for 10 days and is not advised to travel such a long distance. Matt is very disappointed not to be here for Thanksgiving as we had got tickets in Calgary for the Sask. roughriders game. But next time, right?
Matt went to Melfort on Wednesday for an ultrasound on his left shoulder. Luckily it is not a tear as they had first suspected, but his tendon is becoming "frozen" from lack of movement. Anyone who has suffered with a frozen shoulder knows how painful it is so mom, dad, and Matt have to remember to exercise it at least 4 times a day. They must be careful not to overdue it though, because it could easily become inflammed and Matt would have acute tendonitis, which hurts like anything.
So prayers that another hill will be scaled and that there will be a comfortable plateau on the other side. It is nothing like the mountains he scaled last year but it is still difficult.
Matt went to Melfort on Wednesday for an ultrasound on his left shoulder. Luckily it is not a tear as they had first suspected, but his tendon is becoming "frozen" from lack of movement. Anyone who has suffered with a frozen shoulder knows how painful it is so mom, dad, and Matt have to remember to exercise it at least 4 times a day. They must be careful not to overdue it though, because it could easily become inflammed and Matt would have acute tendonitis, which hurts like anything.
So prayers that another hill will be scaled and that there will be a comfortable plateau on the other side. It is nothing like the mountains he scaled last year but it is still difficult.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Haircut
Well. Matt is still in Weekes. The van is running but is still not in great shape. The smell of gas is still there when they start it and let it idle, and it bucks every once in a while when they are driving. So is still a waiting game. The plans are for them to come on Wed. or Thurs, but we will have to make different arrangements for a few days for accommodations. We have been having water problems out of our walkout basement. We thought It would be a quick fix but no can do! We now have a 5 foot trench to find out where the water was coming from. Hopefully that will be filled in and cement poured sometime this week.
Matt was able to see Denita's new baby, so cute. Denita was even able to cut Matt's hair and trim his facial hair. I guess he is looking spiffy!
Because of the van, Matt hasn't been at rehab, so is stiff and losing a bit of his function, so really needs to have therapy. Mom & Dad will try to get Matt to Melfort this week and do more therapy at home.
Dad is busy getting the fall yard work done and trying to get as much stuff ready as they can. I hope they get here soon, I have been puttting off doing my fall work until dad can do it!
Please pray that the weather will again be nicer and that we will get our cement poured so Matt has a way into the house from the basement. Otherwise he will have to sleep in the dining room! I truly believe God is looking out for Matt and that great things are in store for him. God knows our family isn't great with patience and we are on his "continuing education" program. This verse is great, with Thanksgiving day soon upon us. Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Jesus Christ".
Matt was able to see Denita's new baby, so cute. Denita was even able to cut Matt's hair and trim his facial hair. I guess he is looking spiffy!
Because of the van, Matt hasn't been at rehab, so is stiff and losing a bit of his function, so really needs to have therapy. Mom & Dad will try to get Matt to Melfort this week and do more therapy at home.
Dad is busy getting the fall yard work done and trying to get as much stuff ready as they can. I hope they get here soon, I have been puttting off doing my fall work until dad can do it!
Please pray that the weather will again be nicer and that we will get our cement poured so Matt has a way into the house from the basement. Otherwise he will have to sleep in the dining room! I truly believe God is looking out for Matt and that great things are in store for him. God knows our family isn't great with patience and we are on his "continuing education" program. This verse is great, with Thanksgiving day soon upon us. Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Jesus Christ".
Monday, September 29, 2008
Still Waiting and Praying
Just to update. Matt is still in Weekes waiting for the van to be fixed. We are currently having reno's done so Matt can get in and out of the basement easier. Thank goodness for nice weather. It was 27 degrees today, it was actually too hot! Very dusty here as we have had no rain for weeks. great for the farmers, terrible for the windows and dusting!
I think Matt was missing his time at the Golden Age so mom and dad managed to transfer him into the old car. It worked okay and dad even managed to transfer him back into his wheelchair himself. Tried to do some more floor exercises but Matt still so stiff and sore that didn't work too well. Keep it up Matt, I know there is still a huge fan base out there that is rooting for you. I talked to the president of the paraplegic society in Alberta and he was very surprised at how much movement Matt has with such an injury. He suffered a cervical spinal cord injury 20 years ago and has movement in upper body but limited dexterity, so he is rooting for Matt too. Met with him to see what Alberta has to offer quads.
The two physiotherapist nannies can't wait to get there hands on Matt, and not in a bad way either! There are already planning his rehab schedule.
Please continue to pray that the van will be fixed this week and that the weather holds so we can pour cement for a ramp. Thanks for everyone who reads the blog and continues to add Matt to their prayers.
I think Matt was missing his time at the Golden Age so mom and dad managed to transfer him into the old car. It worked okay and dad even managed to transfer him back into his wheelchair himself. Tried to do some more floor exercises but Matt still so stiff and sore that didn't work too well. Keep it up Matt, I know there is still a huge fan base out there that is rooting for you. I talked to the president of the paraplegic society in Alberta and he was very surprised at how much movement Matt has with such an injury. He suffered a cervical spinal cord injury 20 years ago and has movement in upper body but limited dexterity, so he is rooting for Matt too. Met with him to see what Alberta has to offer quads.
The two physiotherapist nannies can't wait to get there hands on Matt, and not in a bad way either! There are already planning his rehab schedule.
Please continue to pray that the van will be fixed this week and that the weather holds so we can pour cement for a ramp. Thanks for everyone who reads the blog and continues to add Matt to their prayers.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Breakdown
Not looking very good for Matt to come by the weekend. They were on there way back from getting Matt's eyes examined (which by the way means he is getting glasses!) and the van started acting funny. Yesterday the had it towed to Porcupine and they are not sure what is wrong. They have parts ordered but my not be here until next week. So disappointed. We so wanted him here before the snow flies and to get him settled in. Prayers that the van will be fixed and that in a week they will be on their way. Matt had to miss rehab today because he didn't have a way to get there. I will keep everyone updated.
Just a little note, Matt was able to get a good long look at the ceiling at the Golden Age. For some reason, when Matt was in his manual wheelchair and heading for the door, he starting to go up on the mat just before the door and his chair tipped backwards. Dad was on his own so he had to go back to the house and get the lift. But the funny thing was dad was so upset he forgot to unbuckle Matt from the chair, so he laid there, chair and all. Thank goodness he wasn't hurt. What is that old saying? "All's well that ends well".
Just a little note, Matt was able to get a good long look at the ceiling at the Golden Age. For some reason, when Matt was in his manual wheelchair and heading for the door, he starting to go up on the mat just before the door and his chair tipped backwards. Dad was on his own so he had to go back to the house and get the lift. But the funny thing was dad was so upset he forgot to unbuckle Matt from the chair, so he laid there, chair and all. Thank goodness he wasn't hurt. What is that old saying? "All's well that ends well".
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Apprehensive
Talked to both mom and Matt tonight and I think they are quite nervous about coming to Red Deer. Not the trip itself, but being away from home. However, I think once they are here and Matt being able to work out everyday will help in the long run.
Last Monday Matt was able to visit with the fellow from Saskatoon again. His dad and him went hunting but never got anything.
Matt has been going to the Golden Age quite often and enjoys playing cards with the men.
Wednesday they travelled to Melfort for rehab. The physio therapist working with Matt has family from Somme. His dad actually lived 4 miles away. What a small world. Matt was at rehab for 2 1/2 hours and felt he did really well. First on the agenda was the sit/stand machine. However it was not the right kind so it was a bit more difficult but Matt was still able to stand for 10 minutes the first time and 5 mins the second time. Second thing the PT worked on was rolling on the mat. Trying to strengthen Matt's core muscles so got him to lay on his back and put a small roll under his knees. Then Matt had to try and lift his bent leg up while keeping his stomach muscles tight. Matt's right leg is much sronger so was able to do about 10 reps. The left leg he was able to do almost 5. Very hard exercises for anyone. Worked out on weights as well and tried a new exercises again involving core strengthening. Sat Matt on a special cushion which helps stabilize him. But they wanted him to move back and forth to put him off balance so his body would try to straighten him out. By the time the left he was exhausted. Just wish his left arm didn't pain him so much. Please pray for improvement in the shoulder and arm.
Saturday Matt had a great massage. A girl he went to school with comes home every three weeks and brought her massage table with her so Matt was able to lay down on his stomach for 1 1/2 hours. Felt great. Hasn't laid on his stomach for that long since before his accident.
Tonight company came over to visit and wanted to help Matt stand. It was awkward and not the prettiest standing maneuver, but it wasn't bad. Thanks for helping! Any exercise Matt can get is great. Quite tired tonight when I talked with him so couldn't hold the phone for long. Still getting stuff ready for them when they come to Red Deer so have to sign off. Thanks again for those who continue to read the blog and pray for Matt's recovery.
Last Monday Matt was able to visit with the fellow from Saskatoon again. His dad and him went hunting but never got anything.
Matt has been going to the Golden Age quite often and enjoys playing cards with the men.
Wednesday they travelled to Melfort for rehab. The physio therapist working with Matt has family from Somme. His dad actually lived 4 miles away. What a small world. Matt was at rehab for 2 1/2 hours and felt he did really well. First on the agenda was the sit/stand machine. However it was not the right kind so it was a bit more difficult but Matt was still able to stand for 10 minutes the first time and 5 mins the second time. Second thing the PT worked on was rolling on the mat. Trying to strengthen Matt's core muscles so got him to lay on his back and put a small roll under his knees. Then Matt had to try and lift his bent leg up while keeping his stomach muscles tight. Matt's right leg is much sronger so was able to do about 10 reps. The left leg he was able to do almost 5. Very hard exercises for anyone. Worked out on weights as well and tried a new exercises again involving core strengthening. Sat Matt on a special cushion which helps stabilize him. But they wanted him to move back and forth to put him off balance so his body would try to straighten him out. By the time the left he was exhausted. Just wish his left arm didn't pain him so much. Please pray for improvement in the shoulder and arm.
Saturday Matt had a great massage. A girl he went to school with comes home every three weeks and brought her massage table with her so Matt was able to lay down on his stomach for 1 1/2 hours. Felt great. Hasn't laid on his stomach for that long since before his accident.
Tonight company came over to visit and wanted to help Matt stand. It was awkward and not the prettiest standing maneuver, but it wasn't bad. Thanks for helping! Any exercise Matt can get is great. Quite tired tonight when I talked with him so couldn't hold the phone for long. Still getting stuff ready for them when they come to Red Deer so have to sign off. Thanks again for those who continue to read the blog and pray for Matt's recovery.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Busy Week
Matt travelled to Melfort on Tuesday for his first stint of rehab since leaving Parkridge. However, it was mostly an assessment to see what Matt's capabilities and limitations are. The therapist was quite encouraged but what she saw, but will need to see if she can get some equipment to aid in his recovery.
Matt went to a outside barbecue on Friday night, which was for the Big Sky workers. He had a great time, however dad was with him and was getting quite cold so they decided to leave. That is probably a good thing since Matt can't feel the same way we do and tends to underestimate how cold he is, and then is so stiff in the morning he can hardly move at all.
Bradon Kipling was over for the weekend and him and Kristen took Matt to the Weekes Hotel for supper on Saturday. Always nice to have friends come over.
Today mom and dad were able to get Matt to the floor using the lift and tried to do some "mat" exercises. However Matt is still on the antibiotics and needs to take gravol for the nausea, so still not feeling great and was pretty tired. He has been up in his manual chair for 2 days now, practicing moving it with his right hand and left hand(but actually the movement comes form his left shoulder) which makes his neck hurt. Good exercise though. Really tired himself out this afternoon. He had been playing Wii for 1 1/2 hours playing Wii Sports (bowling, golf, baseball) so he needed mom to prop the pillows so he could hold the phone! Good rehab tool.
Last week Matt was able to meet with the fellow quad when he came to hunt with his dad. He is returning sometime this week as well, so Matt will visit with him again.
Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit".
Matt went to a outside barbecue on Friday night, which was for the Big Sky workers. He had a great time, however dad was with him and was getting quite cold so they decided to leave. That is probably a good thing since Matt can't feel the same way we do and tends to underestimate how cold he is, and then is so stiff in the morning he can hardly move at all.
Bradon Kipling was over for the weekend and him and Kristen took Matt to the Weekes Hotel for supper on Saturday. Always nice to have friends come over.
Today mom and dad were able to get Matt to the floor using the lift and tried to do some "mat" exercises. However Matt is still on the antibiotics and needs to take gravol for the nausea, so still not feeling great and was pretty tired. He has been up in his manual chair for 2 days now, practicing moving it with his right hand and left hand(but actually the movement comes form his left shoulder) which makes his neck hurt. Good exercise though. Really tired himself out this afternoon. He had been playing Wii for 1 1/2 hours playing Wii Sports (bowling, golf, baseball) so he needed mom to prop the pillows so he could hold the phone! Good rehab tool.
Last week Matt was able to meet with the fellow quad when he came to hunt with his dad. He is returning sometime this week as well, so Matt will visit with him again.
Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit".
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Still in Weekes
Goes "uptown" to Golden Age to play crib with the men. I think Matt likes to be home but is difficult for him to do too much in ways of extra curricular activity. Matt met a fellow quad in Saskatoon when Matt was still in City rehab. He lives in Saskatoon and comes to Weekes to hunt every year. He can wheel himself around so is not a full quad. He was supposed to go to Beijing for the Olympics for rugby but felt he was too old. However he had went to Australia and Athens for the paralympics. He will be up to hunt next week so it will be nice for Matt to have a visit.
Still has urinary tract infection and it is now a new strain so has to go on a different antibiotic. Has been very stiff from lack of exercise and mom has been working. It is so hard to do any standing with only the two of them and no standing frame. Looking forward to coming to Red Deer in the near future. Matt's neck is hurting all the time so when he is here we will try our LILT, low intensity light therapy on him. I was having trouble with my hip for 3 years and had two therapy sessions and now I am running again, so hopefully Matt will have the same success.
I will probably write the blog every week now until Matt gets to rehab, unless something exciting happens. Thanks for all of you who continue to read the blog and for your continued support of Matt.
Still has urinary tract infection and it is now a new strain so has to go on a different antibiotic. Has been very stiff from lack of exercise and mom has been working. It is so hard to do any standing with only the two of them and no standing frame. Looking forward to coming to Red Deer in the near future. Matt's neck is hurting all the time so when he is here we will try our LILT, low intensity light therapy on him. I was having trouble with my hip for 3 years and had two therapy sessions and now I am running again, so hopefully Matt will have the same success.
I will probably write the blog every week now until Matt gets to rehab, unless something exciting happens. Thanks for all of you who continue to read the blog and for your continued support of Matt.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Happy Belated Mom
Sorry the blog has been so long in coming. We are still in Fairmont B.C. and the Internet is not the best but will try to do the blog again. Has been cutting out and losing my info.
As everyone might have guessed, Matt is official out of Parkridge in in the care of mom and dad at home. Matt has improved with doing self catheterizations that he can almost do it himself, just needs some help for the set up. Before he left Parkridge, they discovered he has 4 kidney stones while doing a cystoscopy. They will need to blast them, or do lithotripsy. Not sure when that will happen.
On Wednesday Matt stood with the Argyl and mom was making sure she had everything to take Matt home. Part of Matt's therapy was wheeling himself to the rehab department.
Thursday Matt really stood well for 25 min. Krista, the nurse from RUH was there and I think that is a good motivator for pushing himself to the limit. Unfortunately/fortunately that is a Gustafson trait and we love to do well in front of an audience!! He also got a massage as well from the massage therapist.
Mom was quite excited to hear that there is a Project Walk in Victoria and will definitely look into that. Barry and Gisele are living there now and would be great to go somewhere where there is family.
Can't wait until the troop makes its way to Red Deer, hopes everything works out for the best. Prayers that Matt will continue to improve and that sometime in the future he will walk on his own.
Happy Birthday Mom for August 30th. Love you lots!!
As everyone might have guessed, Matt is official out of Parkridge in in the care of mom and dad at home. Matt has improved with doing self catheterizations that he can almost do it himself, just needs some help for the set up. Before he left Parkridge, they discovered he has 4 kidney stones while doing a cystoscopy. They will need to blast them, or do lithotripsy. Not sure when that will happen.
On Wednesday Matt stood with the Argyl and mom was making sure she had everything to take Matt home. Part of Matt's therapy was wheeling himself to the rehab department.
Thursday Matt really stood well for 25 min. Krista, the nurse from RUH was there and I think that is a good motivator for pushing himself to the limit. Unfortunately/fortunately that is a Gustafson trait and we love to do well in front of an audience!! He also got a massage as well from the massage therapist.
Mom was quite excited to hear that there is a Project Walk in Victoria and will definitely look into that. Barry and Gisele are living there now and would be great to go somewhere where there is family.
Can't wait until the troop makes its way to Red Deer, hopes everything works out for the best. Prayers that Matt will continue to improve and that sometime in the future he will walk on his own.
Happy Birthday Mom for August 30th. Love you lots!!
Monday, August 25, 2008
Our family is off to Fairmont for a week, and we are leaving in 10 mins,so I am told! So better hurry up.
Matt continues to progress in rehab, however slowly.
Thursday he did the slings on the mat again. Also had OT therapy with the group, usually arm exercises and upper extremity.
Friday Matt worked in the evening and we spoke quite late.
Saturday Matt had plans to go in his manual chair and do a spin around the atrium, however he only managed to do about half. Starts to feel dizzy, like he has exercised intensely and then his body is trying to recuperate. Eyes get hazy and feels exhausted. Matt, it is a heavy workout for you and still must build up slowly.
Sunday Matt was in the manual chair again, then was in his electric chair by 4 pm because dad had to leave early to wash Matt's dirty clothes. If Matt stays in his manual he needs someone to push him when he gets stuck.
Mom should be back today sometime.
Have a great week if I don't write again. will try to get internet while we are away. Need to beat Matt in Sea Battle, which I seem to continually lose at.
Matt continues to progress in rehab, however slowly.
Thursday he did the slings on the mat again. Also had OT therapy with the group, usually arm exercises and upper extremity.
Friday Matt worked in the evening and we spoke quite late.
Saturday Matt had plans to go in his manual chair and do a spin around the atrium, however he only managed to do about half. Starts to feel dizzy, like he has exercised intensely and then his body is trying to recuperate. Eyes get hazy and feels exhausted. Matt, it is a heavy workout for you and still must build up slowly.
Sunday Matt was in the manual chair again, then was in his electric chair by 4 pm because dad had to leave early to wash Matt's dirty clothes. If Matt stays in his manual he needs someone to push him when he gets stuck.
Mom should be back today sometime.
Have a great week if I don't write again. will try to get internet while we are away. Need to beat Matt in Sea Battle, which I seem to continually lose at.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Monday Matt finally had another haircut. he was starting to look like the shaggy dog! Monday he also worked in group doing upper extremity work and pulleys. That was about the extent of rehab because he wasn't feeling well.
Tuesday Matt was supposed to go on the Argyl but something got screwed up so instead he showed the new therapist how far he could push himself in his manual wheelchair. Matt estimated the distance at 200 feet. It took him along time and had to stop a few times. He was so tired that after lunch he went to sleep and didn't wake up until 4 pm! Good workout Matt! I asked how his shoulder was feeling afterwards and said it wasn't too bad, so thank you Lord for answered prayers.
Today Matt was able to get up in the argyl machine, or the sit stand for about 3-4 mins, however he had to sit down due to his fall in BP, 80/48. He didn't feel that bad and his O2 level was at 99%, but they decided not to push it. Matt finds it easier to breathe in the sit stand machine as opposed to the standing frame. The frame has a strap that goes around his chest and he can't take a deep breath. His lungs are still not what they were before being on the ventilator and so still does his deep breathing exercises to strengthen his lungs.
I was laughing at him tonight on Skype because he lifted up his left hand with his right hand so I could look at it. It looks as black as the ace of spades! His right hand is more a normal color, but his lack of mobility and all the edema he had while in ICU has changed his pigmentation. Anyone who has seen Matt will know what I am talking about.
Tuesday Matt was supposed to go on the Argyl but something got screwed up so instead he showed the new therapist how far he could push himself in his manual wheelchair. Matt estimated the distance at 200 feet. It took him along time and had to stop a few times. He was so tired that after lunch he went to sleep and didn't wake up until 4 pm! Good workout Matt! I asked how his shoulder was feeling afterwards and said it wasn't too bad, so thank you Lord for answered prayers.
Today Matt was able to get up in the argyl machine, or the sit stand for about 3-4 mins, however he had to sit down due to his fall in BP, 80/48. He didn't feel that bad and his O2 level was at 99%, but they decided not to push it. Matt finds it easier to breathe in the sit stand machine as opposed to the standing frame. The frame has a strap that goes around his chest and he can't take a deep breath. His lungs are still not what they were before being on the ventilator and so still does his deep breathing exercises to strengthen his lungs.
I was laughing at him tonight on Skype because he lifted up his left hand with his right hand so I could look at it. It looks as black as the ace of spades! His right hand is more a normal color, but his lack of mobility and all the edema he had while in ICU has changed his pigmentation. Anyone who has seen Matt will know what I am talking about.
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Birthday Weekend
A celebrating weekend for the Gustafson clan. Yesterday was dad's birthday and today is Shaunie's 4th birthday so all excited. She doesn't quite understand it is her birthday and trying to work on telling her she is 4 but didn't have much luck with the 3rd one either. High of 30 degrees today so will be melting.
Matt has been busy with his argyl exercises, strengthening his quads, bending his knees, and using his arms and back to help him stand as well. He said everyday he does well but on Friday was doing his exercises and got dizzy after a few reps.
Thursday Matt had his bone density test. They wanted to see if he had lost any bone mass due to lack of weight bearing exercises. However they feel he hasn't lost any so that is good news if he wants to go to project walk. Mom also left on Thursday to go back to work. Of course she is always working, but this job she gets paid for!!
God bless everyone on this beautiful Sunday!
Matt has been busy with his argyl exercises, strengthening his quads, bending his knees, and using his arms and back to help him stand as well. He said everyday he does well but on Friday was doing his exercises and got dizzy after a few reps.
Thursday Matt had his bone density test. They wanted to see if he had lost any bone mass due to lack of weight bearing exercises. However they feel he hasn't lost any so that is good news if he wants to go to project walk. Mom also left on Thursday to go back to work. Of course she is always working, but this job she gets paid for!!
God bless everyone on this beautiful Sunday!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Just talked to mom while she was on her way to get a sub from Subway, the big baby. Unfortunately when he comes to Red Deer after he is discharged from Parkridge he will have to put up with my cooking!
On Friday they tried something new on the sit stand machine. Before they would put Matt almost to a standing position and then have him use his legs to get him to full standing position. Now they make him do a partial squat, or bend his knees so his bum goes down. It is much harder but Matt really tries hard. He also does it with no brace on his left leg, which is getting stronger.
Monday Matt had group therapy at 10 am. Then practiced on the sit stand machine again. They don't really time him anymore, because he is doing the squats to strengthen his quads.
Today they tried a sit stand machine they were hoping to send Matt home with but he is just too big, so they will have to order one and then Matt will pay for it. The cost is $6000 and insurance will cover about $2000. They also want Matt to purchase a special $4000 mattress to prevent bedsores as well, but the new manual wheelchair costs around $8000,so have to hold back on something for now.
He wasn't feeling that well today, his shoulder really bugs him when he tries too hard at rehab and then he doesn't sleep well. But he still did really well in rehab and they had him on the mat. They wanted to see if Matt could move his left leg without the resistance of his right leg. Difficult to explain but I will try.
They get Matt to lay on his right side. Then they attach him to 3 ropes suspended from the ceiling and have slings on the end. The first goes under his thigh, the second under his knee and the third goes under his ankle. Then they pull on the ropes to suspend his left leg above the right, while laying on his side. Matt has to then try and straighten his left leg and then bend his knee, after he must try leg curls, and finally he works on the ankles, which is the hardest one of all. It is still slow, he can push down with his toes but not pull them upwards. They tried the same thing on his left arm with little success.
We are all still rooting for you Matt and pray everyday God will give you the strength to continue on your journey. 2 Samuel 22:33-34 "It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights." You will get there Matt, we believe with all our hearts.
On Friday they tried something new on the sit stand machine. Before they would put Matt almost to a standing position and then have him use his legs to get him to full standing position. Now they make him do a partial squat, or bend his knees so his bum goes down. It is much harder but Matt really tries hard. He also does it with no brace on his left leg, which is getting stronger.
Monday Matt had group therapy at 10 am. Then practiced on the sit stand machine again. They don't really time him anymore, because he is doing the squats to strengthen his quads.
Today they tried a sit stand machine they were hoping to send Matt home with but he is just too big, so they will have to order one and then Matt will pay for it. The cost is $6000 and insurance will cover about $2000. They also want Matt to purchase a special $4000 mattress to prevent bedsores as well, but the new manual wheelchair costs around $8000,so have to hold back on something for now.
He wasn't feeling that well today, his shoulder really bugs him when he tries too hard at rehab and then he doesn't sleep well. But he still did really well in rehab and they had him on the mat. They wanted to see if Matt could move his left leg without the resistance of his right leg. Difficult to explain but I will try.
They get Matt to lay on his right side. Then they attach him to 3 ropes suspended from the ceiling and have slings on the end. The first goes under his thigh, the second under his knee and the third goes under his ankle. Then they pull on the ropes to suspend his left leg above the right, while laying on his side. Matt has to then try and straighten his left leg and then bend his knee, after he must try leg curls, and finally he works on the ankles, which is the hardest one of all. It is still slow, he can push down with his toes but not pull them upwards. They tried the same thing on his left arm with little success.
We are all still rooting for you Matt and pray everyday God will give you the strength to continue on your journey. 2 Samuel 22:33-34 "It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights." You will get there Matt, we believe with all our hearts.
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Rehab Continues Forward
Talked to mom and Matt on skype on Thursday. Mom was trying to tell me about Matt's rehab and he kept putting on the Sea Battle game! It was very hard to concentrate on what mom was saying with all the winning (by me, of course)!
However Wednesday Matt did some exercises on the mat and was quite impressed with himself. He was on his belly and the situated his arms and elbows just right underneath him and he held himself up for 10 mins! Great work Matt, but be careful, because he ended up hurting his shoulder again. They think alot of his shoulder pain stems from his neck so I am hoping when he comes to Red Deer again, we can try a new machine we got at the office called a LILT machine, or low intensity light therapy. Works to stimulate increase in cell permeability to increase healing time, to put it in very simple terms. Worth a shot. Anyway, he also practiced some rolling exercises and did the arm bike for 15 mins, but feels very tight in his shoulders.
Thursday was on the mat again and tried holding himself up while sitting. You must put his left hand in the right position and he can do pretty well. They are trying to get his to sit by himself. Matt worked on the pulleys and did great. However they were giving him heck because he is supposed to do stretching exercises first thing in the morning but he stays up so late and sleeps in, so Matt, wake up call in our house will be earlier than you like, but just imagine you are training for the Olympics, with a gold medal for you when you walk again. Which you better start doing soon to work off some of that weight you have gained, 193 lbs. So great to see you regaining your strength and appetite.
Mom had briefly mentioned how great Matt did in rehab on Friday but was unable to speak to her long and so unsure what Matt did, but will find out tomorrow.
Continue to pray for Matt's shoulder and neck, and to allow them to heal and so progress can continue.
However Wednesday Matt did some exercises on the mat and was quite impressed with himself. He was on his belly and the situated his arms and elbows just right underneath him and he held himself up for 10 mins! Great work Matt, but be careful, because he ended up hurting his shoulder again. They think alot of his shoulder pain stems from his neck so I am hoping when he comes to Red Deer again, we can try a new machine we got at the office called a LILT machine, or low intensity light therapy. Works to stimulate increase in cell permeability to increase healing time, to put it in very simple terms. Worth a shot. Anyway, he also practiced some rolling exercises and did the arm bike for 15 mins, but feels very tight in his shoulders.
Thursday was on the mat again and tried holding himself up while sitting. You must put his left hand in the right position and he can do pretty well. They are trying to get his to sit by himself. Matt worked on the pulleys and did great. However they were giving him heck because he is supposed to do stretching exercises first thing in the morning but he stays up so late and sleeps in, so Matt, wake up call in our house will be earlier than you like, but just imagine you are training for the Olympics, with a gold medal for you when you walk again. Which you better start doing soon to work off some of that weight you have gained, 193 lbs. So great to see you regaining your strength and appetite.
Mom had briefly mentioned how great Matt did in rehab on Friday but was unable to speak to her long and so unsure what Matt did, but will find out tomorrow.
Continue to pray for Matt's shoulder and neck, and to allow them to heal and so progress can continue.
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Long Weekend is Over
It feels like a tornado has hit and the aftermath has set in! Thank goodness for dad and mom to help restore order!
It wasn't really that bad and we had great weather with lots of beanbag games, with Shauna and I capturing the B side win. And I know because there are pictures to prove it! And Giselle and Brett won the A side, but I think the whole affair was rigged!
So great to see everyone and thanks for all the help. Matt has improved so much since he was here in May. If he really concentrated and was feeling good, he could bend his left elbow!! Also he is so much more easy to transfer. Uncle Jim made this amazing transfer board that is just perfect for Matt and I could almost transfer him myself. He is much stronger when he sits up and can balance himself a bit with his right hand. We were not able to do as much as we would have liked to but it was so busy with all the family that it was just nice to visit with everyone and sit by the campfire. Matt of course was the last one to bed most nights and that meant mom and I were also the last ones to bed. However Matt would sleep in to 11 am and I would be up by 8 am, so next time I will wake him up at 8 am!!
Matt returned back to Saskatoon on Tuesday and will be discharged from Parkridge on Aug. 29th, so getting things ready for the possibility of him coming here for a few months. We will see what happens so please pray for guidance on what would be the best for Matt.
It wasn't really that bad and we had great weather with lots of beanbag games, with Shauna and I capturing the B side win. And I know because there are pictures to prove it! And Giselle and Brett won the A side, but I think the whole affair was rigged!
So great to see everyone and thanks for all the help. Matt has improved so much since he was here in May. If he really concentrated and was feeling good, he could bend his left elbow!! Also he is so much more easy to transfer. Uncle Jim made this amazing transfer board that is just perfect for Matt and I could almost transfer him myself. He is much stronger when he sits up and can balance himself a bit with his right hand. We were not able to do as much as we would have liked to but it was so busy with all the family that it was just nice to visit with everyone and sit by the campfire. Matt of course was the last one to bed most nights and that meant mom and I were also the last ones to bed. However Matt would sleep in to 11 am and I would be up by 8 am, so next time I will wake him up at 8 am!!
Matt returned back to Saskatoon on Tuesday and will be discharged from Parkridge on Aug. 29th, so getting things ready for the possibility of him coming here for a few months. We will see what happens so please pray for guidance on what would be the best for Matt.
Friday, August 1, 2008
Travelling to Red Deer
This will be a short blog, getting ready for the reunion!
Tuesday Matt dressed himself, shirt over his head and able to get both arms in but unable to pull it down the back. Had company in evening and also did some mat work.
Wednesday had physiotherapy with the sit stand machine. Matt also tried the cycle machine, the one he sits on and can move with either his legs or arms. He didn't do that well and was a bit disappointed but on Thursday the therapist adjusted the seat so he was sitting more upright and then he could really go!! He told me he went the length of the driveway in Weekes! Totally exhausted after that. I should think so! Great work Matt! Maybe we will have to look into buying you one of those!
So today they are on there way here so looking forward to seeing how much he has improved. It is always a treat.
Happy Long weekend to everyone and prayers for everyone's safety.
Tuesday Matt dressed himself, shirt over his head and able to get both arms in but unable to pull it down the back. Had company in evening and also did some mat work.
Wednesday had physiotherapy with the sit stand machine. Matt also tried the cycle machine, the one he sits on and can move with either his legs or arms. He didn't do that well and was a bit disappointed but on Thursday the therapist adjusted the seat so he was sitting more upright and then he could really go!! He told me he went the length of the driveway in Weekes! Totally exhausted after that. I should think so! Great work Matt! Maybe we will have to look into buying you one of those!
So today they are on there way here so looking forward to seeing how much he has improved. It is always a treat.
Happy Long weekend to everyone and prayers for everyone's safety.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Happy Belated Nolan!
Just wanted to give a quick update. I was unable to speak with Matt last night because he had company and couldn't tell me about the days events.
Saturday dad returned to Saskatoon to be with Matt. The weekend was uneventful and didn't have to much to report.
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool. He was able to go onto his knees and then move himself back and forth while on his knees. Not just swaying back and forth, actually moving his right knee outwards, then bringing his left knee to where the right knee had been. So much easier under the water. Also did some leg swinging exercises under the water when he was standing.
Had some group occupational therapy and worked on strengthening his right hand with putty and doing arm exercises. Was up in his manual chair for the exercises but still having trouble with his shoulder and neck being so sore. But he said it is more tolerable now and can do some of his exercises so praises that it is improving.
Getting ready for the big trek to Red Deer on Friday. Mom is done work on Thursday and will be in Saskatoon Thursday evening. So hopefully get an early start to get here early. Need dad to cut the grass!!
Just wanted to wish Nolan a Happy Birthday yesterday and also a happy birthday to cousin Shauna, who is ??? I will not reveal her true age because then she would reveal mine!
Thanks to all the faithful readers, even though it is difficult during this busy time of year to keep up with the updates. Will hopefully give an update on the week by Thursday evening.
Saturday dad returned to Saskatoon to be with Matt. The weekend was uneventful and didn't have to much to report.
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool. He was able to go onto his knees and then move himself back and forth while on his knees. Not just swaying back and forth, actually moving his right knee outwards, then bringing his left knee to where the right knee had been. So much easier under the water. Also did some leg swinging exercises under the water when he was standing.
Had some group occupational therapy and worked on strengthening his right hand with putty and doing arm exercises. Was up in his manual chair for the exercises but still having trouble with his shoulder and neck being so sore. But he said it is more tolerable now and can do some of his exercises so praises that it is improving.
Getting ready for the big trek to Red Deer on Friday. Mom is done work on Thursday and will be in Saskatoon Thursday evening. So hopefully get an early start to get here early. Need dad to cut the grass!!
Just wanted to wish Nolan a Happy Birthday yesterday and also a happy birthday to cousin Shauna, who is ??? I will not reveal her true age because then she would reveal mine!
Thanks to all the faithful readers, even though it is difficult during this busy time of year to keep up with the updates. Will hopefully give an update on the week by Thursday evening.
Friday, July 25, 2008
2 days not so good
Rehab has been a bit slow this week. Since Wed., Matt has been feeling lousy. Tried to do some standing exercises and BP dropped to 70/46. So was unable to go on his big outing. Not so good. Same thing happened on Thursday, so had to stay in his power chair. However he did have a bath which I can always tell because he is so nice and shiny!
Today he was feeling more like himself. This morning did some self care and discovered if his shorts are on the top of his lower legs, he can do a bridge by himself and pull the shorts the rest of the way. Feels like he is getting stronger with that. The therapists also got him in the sit/stand machine and just put the waist support on, not the butt support sling. They wanted to see if Matt could sit on an actual toilet, which he did. Hasn't done that for over a year but he said it didn't seem the same, he didn't have an Archie book with him!
Matt feels his shoulder is getting a bit better. When they got him on the mat on his tummy, they positioned his arms just right and was able to support himself quite comfortably, just like a kid laying on the floor watching TV.
They also tried the TENS machine on his left quad muscle to help him lift they leg while sitting in the chair. He could then hold it extended for 5 secs, which he proceeded to repeat the exercise for about 5 mins. So about 20 reps or so. His right leg doesn't need the stim machine because he can already lift it fairly well.
When I asked Matt how the left hand and arm was doing, he explained it like this: it feels like there is a heavy book on top of it and he doesn't have the muscle strength to lift it. With the right hand, even though he has lots of movement, it feels like it is underwater and there is always a weight on it as well. But just watching him on SKype, the movement is so much more fluid and he can lift his right arm so much higher over his head. So KUDOS to you Matty!
It is so encouraging to hear and see improvement all the time. So many people in your same situation are so discouraged about lack of improvement, or no improvement at all. With Matt, every achievement is meet with optimism and hope from not only Matt but the rest of his cheering squad.
1 Chronicles 16:8-9 "Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts."
Today he was feeling more like himself. This morning did some self care and discovered if his shorts are on the top of his lower legs, he can do a bridge by himself and pull the shorts the rest of the way. Feels like he is getting stronger with that. The therapists also got him in the sit/stand machine and just put the waist support on, not the butt support sling. They wanted to see if Matt could sit on an actual toilet, which he did. Hasn't done that for over a year but he said it didn't seem the same, he didn't have an Archie book with him!
Matt feels his shoulder is getting a bit better. When they got him on the mat on his tummy, they positioned his arms just right and was able to support himself quite comfortably, just like a kid laying on the floor watching TV.
They also tried the TENS machine on his left quad muscle to help him lift they leg while sitting in the chair. He could then hold it extended for 5 secs, which he proceeded to repeat the exercise for about 5 mins. So about 20 reps or so. His right leg doesn't need the stim machine because he can already lift it fairly well.
When I asked Matt how the left hand and arm was doing, he explained it like this: it feels like there is a heavy book on top of it and he doesn't have the muscle strength to lift it. With the right hand, even though he has lots of movement, it feels like it is underwater and there is always a weight on it as well. But just watching him on SKype, the movement is so much more fluid and he can lift his right arm so much higher over his head. So KUDOS to you Matty!
It is so encouraging to hear and see improvement all the time. So many people in your same situation are so discouraged about lack of improvement, or no improvement at all. With Matt, every achievement is meet with optimism and hope from not only Matt but the rest of his cheering squad.
1 Chronicles 16:8-9 "Give thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts."
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Shoulder Feeling Better
Well Matt shoulder isn't any different but they are giving him enough meds to numb the pain so he can be comfortable. Praise to God that it is feeling better.
Thursday Matt had a CAT scan on his bladder and kidneys to see if there were any more stones. His kidneys were clear however he has calcium deposits in his bladder. Should be fine. Pain is when it goes through the tubes from the kidneys to the bladder. Friday not too many therapists around so did some mat work. On the weekend Matt was supposed to watch some ladies fastball. They got to the diamond at 6 pm, payed the entry fee, just got under the bleachers when it began to rain. It rained and rained, then it began to hail. You couldn't even see the ball field it came down so hard. Then after the rain they went home, the game was cancelled. It was an expensive rain to watch!!
Sunday Matt went on an outing to the forestry farm and was able to see two baby Siberian tigers in a cave.
Monday Matt had OT therapy, really worked on his neck and arms. Lots of stretches and practiced doing dips in his chair. He goes from a sitting position and bends at the waist to try and touch the floor, then sits himself up again. Did really well. Strengthening his stomach muscles. Tried to do some standing but got really dizzy. They know it is from not standing enough, should be standing everyday but will try for at least twice a week.
Matt is excited about an outing he is going on without mom or dad (dad actually went back to Weekes on Sunday) and only with his therapist. She/he is taking him to the Midtown Plaza on Wednesday. He is always worried that he will need to be catheterized so is a bit apprehensive but prayers the trip will go smoothly.
Continue to pray for improvement in Matt's conditiona and shoulder. Psalms 5:1-3"Give ear to my words, O Lord, consider my sighing. Listen to my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray. In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation."
Thursday Matt had a CAT scan on his bladder and kidneys to see if there were any more stones. His kidneys were clear however he has calcium deposits in his bladder. Should be fine. Pain is when it goes through the tubes from the kidneys to the bladder. Friday not too many therapists around so did some mat work. On the weekend Matt was supposed to watch some ladies fastball. They got to the diamond at 6 pm, payed the entry fee, just got under the bleachers when it began to rain. It rained and rained, then it began to hail. You couldn't even see the ball field it came down so hard. Then after the rain they went home, the game was cancelled. It was an expensive rain to watch!!
Sunday Matt went on an outing to the forestry farm and was able to see two baby Siberian tigers in a cave.
Monday Matt had OT therapy, really worked on his neck and arms. Lots of stretches and practiced doing dips in his chair. He goes from a sitting position and bends at the waist to try and touch the floor, then sits himself up again. Did really well. Strengthening his stomach muscles. Tried to do some standing but got really dizzy. They know it is from not standing enough, should be standing everyday but will try for at least twice a week.
Matt is excited about an outing he is going on without mom or dad (dad actually went back to Weekes on Sunday) and only with his therapist. She/he is taking him to the Midtown Plaza on Wednesday. He is always worried that he will need to be catheterized so is a bit apprehensive but prayers the trip will go smoothly.
Continue to pray for improvement in Matt's conditiona and shoulder. Psalms 5:1-3"Give ear to my words, O Lord, consider my sighing. Listen to my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray. In the morning, O Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation."
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Prayers for Shoulder
Matt's rehab has been more limited due to the intense pain he is experiencing in his left shoulder. Yesterday it was so bad when he was up in his manual chair, he couldn't help but cry. After 3 Advil and an ice pack, he was finally able to bear the pain. So the rehab is focusing more on his right and his standing. But it is still too limiting for what Matt needs
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool but wasn't able to stand up in it because there was a shortage of staff. Last night while I was taking to Matt on Skype, we found a bowling game we could do and it was great fun, except I stink! I only bowled 77 and Matt got 155.
Matt also has an0ther bladder infection but he doesn't have to take any meds unless it gets worse. It is the type that is usually self-limiting, but if it does get worse he will have to go on IV medication. So prayers that won't happen.
But especially pray for the pain in his left shoulder to subside and they are able to figure out something so he can continue with his rehab. Chronic pain can eat away at you. One drop of water on the top of your head doesn't feel like anything, but after the 1000 drop it can drive you crazy. Psalms 6:2 Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am faint; O Lord, heal me, for my bones are in agony. And verse 9 "The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer."
Monday Matt was able to go into the pool but wasn't able to stand up in it because there was a shortage of staff. Last night while I was taking to Matt on Skype, we found a bowling game we could do and it was great fun, except I stink! I only bowled 77 and Matt got 155.
Matt also has an0ther bladder infection but he doesn't have to take any meds unless it gets worse. It is the type that is usually self-limiting, but if it does get worse he will have to go on IV medication. So prayers that won't happen.
But especially pray for the pain in his left shoulder to subside and they are able to figure out something so he can continue with his rehab. Chronic pain can eat away at you. One drop of water on the top of your head doesn't feel like anything, but after the 1000 drop it can drive you crazy. Psalms 6:2 Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am faint; O Lord, heal me, for my bones are in agony. And verse 9 "The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer."
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Quarantine Lifted
Matt was very happy to hear the quarantine was lifted Friday afternoon. One thing about dad not being there is Matt had to do some things for himself. He said that made him extremely grateful for dad and all the time he spends with Matt.
Wednesday Matt dressed himself, or should I say just his shirt. Unable to lift it over his head, because of all the rocks in it! In the head,,, not the shirt. Stood in the standing frame 3 times. Really working on Matt's upper body strength. They put the machine to about 80% of the way, and then Matt has to use his upper body to get himself into a full standing position. He says it is awful, so tired afterwards. Matt was also able to go outside on the lawn, but not in the parking lot. Was in his electric chair but was in his manual chair on Thursday. If he stays in his electric chair too long his legs become spastic. Was able to talk to dad from a distance but unable to make contact. Dad was busy making sure the van was in tiptop shape for the journey to Red Deer for the August long weekend. Cost $400 just to change all the fluids and replace some parts. Nothing is cheap these days.
On Friday when Matt was in his manual chair, tried wheeling himself around but by noon he was exhausted and had to ask for help to get him to and from his room. Tried also lifting his left leg with his right leg when they slipped off the wheelchair, the right being much stronger and said it was so difficult, like climbing a mountain without any training. Almost impossible. His mind is saying "yes I can do this" but his body is saying "Forget it Mister!" Has been eating all his meals by himself.
Friday was good news that he was able to visit with dad again. However still did rehab in his room because the quarantine was not lifted until later in the day. Played Wii with dad, baseball of course and also played some today when they were not watching the football game between Hamilton and Sask. Matt said it was such a close game with Sask winning 33-28 in the last 30 seconds of the game.
Tonight Matt and I were reminiscing about the "bad old days" when his injury first happened. I was talking about August long weekend last year and how when we almost lost Matt twice we got together and prayed for his healing and that he would continue to be with us. Thank God for answered prayers. Matt mentions it is so much a blur but still remembers when a fly would land on his nose and he couldn't brush it off. Again praise for Matt to be able to use his right hand to do so many things. 1 Chronicles 16:10-12 "Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced."
Wednesday Matt dressed himself, or should I say just his shirt. Unable to lift it over his head, because of all the rocks in it! In the head,,, not the shirt. Stood in the standing frame 3 times. Really working on Matt's upper body strength. They put the machine to about 80% of the way, and then Matt has to use his upper body to get himself into a full standing position. He says it is awful, so tired afterwards. Matt was also able to go outside on the lawn, but not in the parking lot. Was in his electric chair but was in his manual chair on Thursday. If he stays in his electric chair too long his legs become spastic. Was able to talk to dad from a distance but unable to make contact. Dad was busy making sure the van was in tiptop shape for the journey to Red Deer for the August long weekend. Cost $400 just to change all the fluids and replace some parts. Nothing is cheap these days.
On Friday when Matt was in his manual chair, tried wheeling himself around but by noon he was exhausted and had to ask for help to get him to and from his room. Tried also lifting his left leg with his right leg when they slipped off the wheelchair, the right being much stronger and said it was so difficult, like climbing a mountain without any training. Almost impossible. His mind is saying "yes I can do this" but his body is saying "Forget it Mister!" Has been eating all his meals by himself.
Friday was good news that he was able to visit with dad again. However still did rehab in his room because the quarantine was not lifted until later in the day. Played Wii with dad, baseball of course and also played some today when they were not watching the football game between Hamilton and Sask. Matt said it was such a close game with Sask winning 33-28 in the last 30 seconds of the game.
Tonight Matt and I were reminiscing about the "bad old days" when his injury first happened. I was talking about August long weekend last year and how when we almost lost Matt twice we got together and prayed for his healing and that he would continue to be with us. Thank God for answered prayers. Matt mentions it is so much a blur but still remembers when a fly would land on his nose and he couldn't brush it off. Again praise for Matt to be able to use his right hand to do so many things. 1 Chronicles 16:10-12 "Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice. Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced."
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
No Visitors For Awhile
Matthew phoned me last night upset about the no visitor rule for a few days due to a viral outbreak. So dad cannot go a visit and neither can anyone else. That is the first time since Matt was injured that someone hasn't been with him so prayers that the "quarantine" ends quickly and visitors are once again allowed. The worst part is no rehab in the therapy department because Matt cannot leave the floor he is on. So no trips outside and only therapy in his room.
Matt has been on the go since last Friday, when he travelled to Weekes for cousin Michelle's wedding. Loved sitting around the campfire and visiting with the family, stayed out until 1:30 am. For the wedding on Saturday they had a slow start and didn't even have Matt up when I phoned at 1pm. The wedding started at 2pm? in Weekes but I believe they made it on time.
Sunday visited again with family and didn't return to Saskatoon until 7 pm. Matt didn't get settled until 1230 am and was too worked up from all the happenings that he didn't feel tired and stayed up even later.
Monday Matt was once again in the pool. I think that is his favorite rehab. He was able to extend his legs in the pool like he was kicking to swim but needed weights to bring his legs back down. Also did a workout at the gym on the arm bike and pulleys.
Today Matt practiced dressing himself. He had gotten a new shirt which he really likes but is a bit smaller than what he is used to so was unalbe to get it over his head. Dad brought Matt some food, but wasn't able to see him. So a quiet day overall.
Matt has been on the go since last Friday, when he travelled to Weekes for cousin Michelle's wedding. Loved sitting around the campfire and visiting with the family, stayed out until 1:30 am. For the wedding on Saturday they had a slow start and didn't even have Matt up when I phoned at 1pm. The wedding started at 2pm? in Weekes but I believe they made it on time.
Sunday visited again with family and didn't return to Saskatoon until 7 pm. Matt didn't get settled until 1230 am and was too worked up from all the happenings that he didn't feel tired and stayed up even later.
Monday Matt was once again in the pool. I think that is his favorite rehab. He was able to extend his legs in the pool like he was kicking to swim but needed weights to bring his legs back down. Also did a workout at the gym on the arm bike and pulleys.
Today Matt practiced dressing himself. He had gotten a new shirt which he really likes but is a bit smaller than what he is used to so was unalbe to get it over his head. Dad brought Matt some food, but wasn't able to see him. So a quiet day overall.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Watching Fastball
So much happened this week it is hard to know where to start!
On Sunday mom had phoned me quite worried about Matt. His temp was up, feeling unwell, no appetite. Having some difficulty breathing and worried it was his lungs. So on Monday she phoned back saying Matt had passed 2 large kidney stones. Now having had them myself, I was thinking a large grain of sand. Mom actually measured it and it was 1/4 inch by 1/4 inch. Hard as a rock. And he passed 2 of them! This is one time Matt I can tell you that you are lucky you cannot feel pain the same as the rest of us because I would have died! They showed the Dr. when they returned to Saskatoon and he just couldn't believe that Matt didn't feel much pain. You could definitely give birth Matt and laugh at the pain!
So needless to say Matt is feeling a whole lot better. Appetite has improved, feeling stronger and his temp is down. Tuesday they went to the P.P. sports day. Matt was disappointed there where so few slow pitch and fastball teams but enjoyed visiting with everyone. Then it was back to Saskatoon.
Wednesday Matt did some mat work to do muscle testing and evaluation. They feel his left has had a noticeable improvement, but his right side is about the same. Just taking a breather so the left can catch up. Practiced standing with the standing frame in his room. Jacki and the kids stopped in for a visit on their way to Michelle's wedding this weekend. They are staying at Auntie Karen's and Uncle Neil's because mom's car was broken into. I think she was more upset that they took a bag of chips. I told her to stop eating those things! Or at least finish them! So now she is having her windshield repaired because they threw a big rock to break the glass.
Today was a busy day. Dad was quite impressed at something Matt did. When Matt is in his manual chair, to lift his left hand from the wheel of his chair he needs to reach over and lift it with his right hand. However today he used his shoulder in a straight lift to get his left hand back on his lap. Took alot of work but he did it. Did some group therapy today and practiced hitting the balloon with the badminton racket. Then they made Matt put rings onto some poles, but they kept lifting the poles higher and higher, so Matt had to reach up. He could make it to about eye level but really had to work hard. Jacki was his coach and wouldn't let him quit.Probably nagged him into doing it! Stood for 7 mins in the Argyl, which is the standing frame he can walk in but not doing too much walking these days, just working on standing. Also did some mat work and they laid him on his belly. I am sure that felt weird, hasn't done that for ages. Felt good though. Wanted to check how his breathing was and did fine.
Right now Matt, Jacki, and dad are watching fastball at Gordie Howe Park. Grandma got stuck.. I mean.. has the privilege of babysitting. Canada just finished beating U.S. 4-2 and they are wathcing Japan play the U.S. When I asked when they were going back to Parkridge Matt said not until the 50/50 was drawn.
Thanks for all the friends who came to see Matt. So good to be part of life outside of the nursing home. I know that you are often overwhelmed by your situation Matt, but the Lord is always with you. Lamentations 3:32-33 "Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction of grief to the children of men."
On Sunday mom had phoned me quite worried about Matt. His temp was up, feeling unwell, no appetite. Having some difficulty breathing and worried it was his lungs. So on Monday she phoned back saying Matt had passed 2 large kidney stones. Now having had them myself, I was thinking a large grain of sand. Mom actually measured it and it was 1/4 inch by 1/4 inch. Hard as a rock. And he passed 2 of them! This is one time Matt I can tell you that you are lucky you cannot feel pain the same as the rest of us because I would have died! They showed the Dr. when they returned to Saskatoon and he just couldn't believe that Matt didn't feel much pain. You could definitely give birth Matt and laugh at the pain!
So needless to say Matt is feeling a whole lot better. Appetite has improved, feeling stronger and his temp is down. Tuesday they went to the P.P. sports day. Matt was disappointed there where so few slow pitch and fastball teams but enjoyed visiting with everyone. Then it was back to Saskatoon.
Wednesday Matt did some mat work to do muscle testing and evaluation. They feel his left has had a noticeable improvement, but his right side is about the same. Just taking a breather so the left can catch up. Practiced standing with the standing frame in his room. Jacki and the kids stopped in for a visit on their way to Michelle's wedding this weekend. They are staying at Auntie Karen's and Uncle Neil's because mom's car was broken into. I think she was more upset that they took a bag of chips. I told her to stop eating those things! Or at least finish them! So now she is having her windshield repaired because they threw a big rock to break the glass.
Today was a busy day. Dad was quite impressed at something Matt did. When Matt is in his manual chair, to lift his left hand from the wheel of his chair he needs to reach over and lift it with his right hand. However today he used his shoulder in a straight lift to get his left hand back on his lap. Took alot of work but he did it. Did some group therapy today and practiced hitting the balloon with the badminton racket. Then they made Matt put rings onto some poles, but they kept lifting the poles higher and higher, so Matt had to reach up. He could make it to about eye level but really had to work hard. Jacki was his coach and wouldn't let him quit.Probably nagged him into doing it! Stood for 7 mins in the Argyl, which is the standing frame he can walk in but not doing too much walking these days, just working on standing. Also did some mat work and they laid him on his belly. I am sure that felt weird, hasn't done that for ages. Felt good though. Wanted to check how his breathing was and did fine.
Right now Matt, Jacki, and dad are watching fastball at Gordie Howe Park. Grandma got stuck.. I mean.. has the privilege of babysitting. Canada just finished beating U.S. 4-2 and they are wathcing Japan play the U.S. When I asked when they were going back to Parkridge Matt said not until the 50/50 was drawn.
Thanks for all the friends who came to see Matt. So good to be part of life outside of the nursing home. I know that you are often overwhelmed by your situation Matt, but the Lord is always with you. Lamentations 3:32-33 "Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction of grief to the children of men."
Monday, June 30, 2008
One year Anniversary
Usually when you think of an anniversary it is in correlation with a happy event. Matt has enjoyed being home but difficult to think about all the things he was doing last year prior to his accident. But lets recap on what Matt was like right after his injury. He was on a ventilator, had surgery on his neck, was unable to drink water, eat or communicate verbally. The only way he could talk to us was by blinking his eyes using an alphabet board. The future was very bleak and the chances of Matt ever moving or breathing on his own were less than 1%. So Matt, let's celebrate your accomplishments since that day and only look forward and up. You have come such a long way and we love you for all you have done. Thanks for continue to persevere and retain hope for the future. We all know with the power of the Lord you can do anything Matt!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Home Tomorrow
Matt is going to Weekes tomorrow to attend the sports day. It is hard to believe it is almost the one year anniversary of the accident. Matt was a bit sad today thinking about what he was doing on this day last year and how quickly it all changed on June 30th.
Tuesday: Matt was able to try out the standing frame again. Always dizzy the first go but on the 2nd try was able to stand 8-10 mins. He doesn't wear the knee brace when he is in the frame because his knees are pushed right against the frame. Tried out the muscle stim on the left arm and also on the left calf muscle. The reason they are doing this is to try on get Matt's foot to lift up towards the ceiling. Still drags his toe. Found out something interesting. Matt is always saying is neck and left shoulder are sore. So did an x-ray and discovered he has a sublixation, or separation of the shoulder. His muscle is not strong enough to hold his bones so needs a rest. Mom has to go and buy a binder at some medical supply store to hold his shoulder from moving too much.
Wednesday: did something cool while he was laying in bed. Matt put his shirt on all by himself. It took him 25 minutes but he did it! We are so proud of you, Matty! God never said it would be easy, He just gives you the strength to persevere. Romans
5:3-5 "Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us."
Today: Matt had a bath, and I can always tell because his hair looks so shiny! Did some more transferring, and mom said he looks stronger. Feeling tired but felt better in the afternoon. Still has antibiotics for one more day than is finished. Stood with the standing frame again. The first time up was dizzy but remained standing for 5 minutes, The second time stood for 6 minutes. Mom said they even forgot his abdomen binder and he still did well. Then Matt had to work but was rewarded with a pizza, which he almost ate by himself.
I can't say it enough, you always astound me with your patience and fortitude. When I grow up, I want to be just like you! (Of course, that will never happen...the growing up part I mean!)
Tuesday: Matt was able to try out the standing frame again. Always dizzy the first go but on the 2nd try was able to stand 8-10 mins. He doesn't wear the knee brace when he is in the frame because his knees are pushed right against the frame. Tried out the muscle stim on the left arm and also on the left calf muscle. The reason they are doing this is to try on get Matt's foot to lift up towards the ceiling. Still drags his toe. Found out something interesting. Matt is always saying is neck and left shoulder are sore. So did an x-ray and discovered he has a sublixation, or separation of the shoulder. His muscle is not strong enough to hold his bones so needs a rest. Mom has to go and buy a binder at some medical supply store to hold his shoulder from moving too much.
Wednesday: did something cool while he was laying in bed. Matt put his shirt on all by himself. It took him 25 minutes but he did it! We are so proud of you, Matty! God never said it would be easy, He just gives you the strength to persevere. Romans
5:3-5 "Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us."
Today: Matt had a bath, and I can always tell because his hair looks so shiny! Did some more transferring, and mom said he looks stronger. Feeling tired but felt better in the afternoon. Still has antibiotics for one more day than is finished. Stood with the standing frame again. The first time up was dizzy but remained standing for 5 minutes, The second time stood for 6 minutes. Mom said they even forgot his abdomen binder and he still did well. Then Matt had to work but was rewarded with a pizza, which he almost ate by himself.
I can't say it enough, you always astound me with your patience and fortitude. When I grow up, I want to be just like you! (Of course, that will never happen...the growing up part I mean!)
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Mom Is Back
So much to write about so here we go!
Friday was very unproductive. Matt hasn't been feeling like eating until supper time, and after he gets his supper meds he feels better. He didn't have any rehab because all his therapists were gone. It might have something to do with it being 26 degrees. So warm Matt had a little burn when he was outside.
Saturday Matt went with dad to watch 10 and 12 year olds play baseball. He said they are definitely in need of practice and coaching. However I told him what it was like watching him play hockey when he was young. We would cheer like crazy if he would touch the puck once the whole game. The rest of the time we would be yelling at him to stop looking in the windows at his reflection! Feeling better today. Took Gravol in the am so was able to eat lunch. (Just an update that Matt is off his sleeping pills since he was home for Grandma's funeral and is still suffering with a urinary tract infection and they have switched antibiotics). For exercise dad took the legs off is power chair and practiced straightening his legs.
Sunday watched some more ball. Said it was not much better. Good to get outside.
Monday Matt was in the pool again. First he starts out by sitting on the edge of the bed with help. Then he has to transfer on to a trolley like mechanism so they can wheel him down to the pool. The trolley hooks up to the pool lift. There is no ramp into the pool so can't use a wheelchair. Then they lower him into the pool and put noodles under his back and arms, another under his hips, so he is laying horizontal. Then to stand, they put weights on Matt's ankles.
Matt also did some mat exercises. First he transfers from his chair to the mat with the help of one staff member and dad pulls the chair back, which is an improvement. Matt said he surprised himself today by sitting over the edge of the bed for over 6 minutes. First the therapists get him into a sitting position, put his hands beside him and tell him to balance himself. He tried to lift his legs at the same time however he almost fell over.
Did some muscle stim on his left elbow to get it to bend. Practiced with the hand putty and there was a noticeable imprint in the putty so more strength in his left hand. Keep working hard, Matt. Don't give up faith. Remember the story of Peter on the boat. Jesus was walking towards the boat on the water and Peter started to walk towards Him. However when the wind started blowing and he focused on his physical environment, he became scared and started to sink. Jesus reached out his hand to Peter and saved him, saying "You of little faith, why did you doubt? (Matthew 14:27-31) Don't focus on earthly things to maintain your faith, just look up!
Friday was very unproductive. Matt hasn't been feeling like eating until supper time, and after he gets his supper meds he feels better. He didn't have any rehab because all his therapists were gone. It might have something to do with it being 26 degrees. So warm Matt had a little burn when he was outside.
Saturday Matt went with dad to watch 10 and 12 year olds play baseball. He said they are definitely in need of practice and coaching. However I told him what it was like watching him play hockey when he was young. We would cheer like crazy if he would touch the puck once the whole game. The rest of the time we would be yelling at him to stop looking in the windows at his reflection! Feeling better today. Took Gravol in the am so was able to eat lunch. (Just an update that Matt is off his sleeping pills since he was home for Grandma's funeral and is still suffering with a urinary tract infection and they have switched antibiotics). For exercise dad took the legs off is power chair and practiced straightening his legs.
Sunday watched some more ball. Said it was not much better. Good to get outside.
Monday Matt was in the pool again. First he starts out by sitting on the edge of the bed with help. Then he has to transfer on to a trolley like mechanism so they can wheel him down to the pool. The trolley hooks up to the pool lift. There is no ramp into the pool so can't use a wheelchair. Then they lower him into the pool and put noodles under his back and arms, another under his hips, so he is laying horizontal. Then to stand, they put weights on Matt's ankles.
Matt also did some mat exercises. First he transfers from his chair to the mat with the help of one staff member and dad pulls the chair back, which is an improvement. Matt said he surprised himself today by sitting over the edge of the bed for over 6 minutes. First the therapists get him into a sitting position, put his hands beside him and tell him to balance himself. He tried to lift his legs at the same time however he almost fell over.
Did some muscle stim on his left elbow to get it to bend. Practiced with the hand putty and there was a noticeable imprint in the putty so more strength in his left hand. Keep working hard, Matt. Don't give up faith. Remember the story of Peter on the boat. Jesus was walking towards the boat on the water and Peter started to walk towards Him. However when the wind started blowing and he focused on his physical environment, he became scared and started to sink. Jesus reached out his hand to Peter and saved him, saying "You of little faith, why did you doubt? (Matthew 14:27-31) Don't focus on earthly things to maintain your faith, just look up!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Summer Weather at Last
Not sure what the weather has been like in Sask, but here it has been very wet. Happy to have a day where it didn't rain.
Just to recap that Matt did not make it to ball on Sunday, but visited with Nolan and Lindsay before they returned to Calgary.
Monday Matt had upper extremity stretches in the am and then made chili with another resident. Said it was really good but wouldn't give me the recipe! Then he got to spend an hour in the pool. Was really excited about that. Was able to stand without feeling faint or dizzy. The water pressure on his legs keeps his blood pressure from dropping. Matt had weights on his legs to help prevent them from floating out of position, so Matt tried to lift his right leg with the weights on . Did it twice but got really tired. Because it was Father's Day on Sunday, they had a vintage car show at the nursing home. Matt said there was about 15 vehicles there. They even had a 1934 Chrysler with the original motor in it.
Tuesday tried out the electrical stimulation on his left arm. Asked him if he felt an improvement and agreed he feels like there is something there. Just has to remind himself to move it during the day. Tends to forget about it. Was happy when he discovered he could pu t the brakes on his wheelchair. He bends over and can also put the brake on the left side as well with his right hand. He also found out he can push himself backwards in the wheelchair by using his right foot. However because of the permanent foot pedals on the chair he can't go forward. Matt had forgotten to mention that he is being treated for a urinary tract infection since last Thursday. That could explain why he has been feeling so poorly, but states he also has a sore throat in the am's. So when Matt tried the sit stand frame felt really awful and didn't do too well.
Wednesday Matt worked out on the arm bike for 20 mins. Practiced transferring from the chair to the bed. Only needed 2 people to help transfer and said that at times only one person was needed. Great work Matt!
Today Matt tried doing activities of daily living. Could almost get his shirt on by himself but had trouble getting it over his left elbow and shoulders. Tried standing today but his blood pressure kept going wacko. Went from 90/60 to 75/50 and felt really dizzy. Played badminton in the gym but instead of a birdie he uses a balloon. Can hit it almost every timeas long as it is hit right to him.
Prayers for Matt's continued recovery. God has not forgotten about you Matt, and we thank Him everyday for small miracles.
Just to recap that Matt did not make it to ball on Sunday, but visited with Nolan and Lindsay before they returned to Calgary.
Monday Matt had upper extremity stretches in the am and then made chili with another resident. Said it was really good but wouldn't give me the recipe! Then he got to spend an hour in the pool. Was really excited about that. Was able to stand without feeling faint or dizzy. The water pressure on his legs keeps his blood pressure from dropping. Matt had weights on his legs to help prevent them from floating out of position, so Matt tried to lift his right leg with the weights on . Did it twice but got really tired. Because it was Father's Day on Sunday, they had a vintage car show at the nursing home. Matt said there was about 15 vehicles there. They even had a 1934 Chrysler with the original motor in it.
Tuesday tried out the electrical stimulation on his left arm. Asked him if he felt an improvement and agreed he feels like there is something there. Just has to remind himself to move it during the day. Tends to forget about it. Was happy when he discovered he could pu t the brakes on his wheelchair. He bends over and can also put the brake on the left side as well with his right hand. He also found out he can push himself backwards in the wheelchair by using his right foot. However because of the permanent foot pedals on the chair he can't go forward. Matt had forgotten to mention that he is being treated for a urinary tract infection since last Thursday. That could explain why he has been feeling so poorly, but states he also has a sore throat in the am's. So when Matt tried the sit stand frame felt really awful and didn't do too well.
Wednesday Matt worked out on the arm bike for 20 mins. Practiced transferring from the chair to the bed. Only needed 2 people to help transfer and said that at times only one person was needed. Great work Matt!
Today Matt tried doing activities of daily living. Could almost get his shirt on by himself but had trouble getting it over his left elbow and shoulders. Tried standing today but his blood pressure kept going wacko. Went from 90/60 to 75/50 and felt really dizzy. Played badminton in the gym but instead of a birdie he uses a balloon. Can hit it almost every timeas long as it is hit right to him.
Prayers for Matt's continued recovery. God has not forgotten about you Matt, and we thank Him everyday for small miracles.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Happy Father's Day
Finally got through to dad to wish him a great Father's Day. And where was he? By Matt's side as usual. Not many dad's would be as dedicated. I believe alot of Matt's positive attitude is having family by his side. Thanks Dad! Proverbs 23:24-25 "The father of a righteous man has great joy; he who has a wise son delights in him. May your father and mother be glad; may she who gave you birth rejoice!"Friday Matt was feeling good again. In the am, 3 therapists bombarded Matt while he was in bed and brainstormed with him on what he could and couldn't do, and ways to help him accomplish the things he wanted to do. So one thing they tried was for Matt to move himself in the bed. Unless someone turns Matt, he lays on his back and can't reposition himself. So between them, they helped Matt wiggle from one side of the bed to the other. It took him an hour, fully exhausted but he did it! Dad said it was like watching snow melt. You know it is melting, but sometimes it is just a drip. One thing I have learned is never say never with Matt. In the afternoon, did some weights and pulley exercises. And I just found out Matt has a new job! Parkridge has a concession selling chips, pops, the regular stuff. It is owned by a fellow quad and he really wanted Matt to come and give it a try. So Friday evening from 5-9 pm Matt was put to work. Dad was trying to help but the owner told him to leave Matt, he would figure out some way to do it. And sure enough, after a few attempts, Matt was able to do it. The owner is so impressed by Matt's overall progress and truly believes Matt will get better one day.
Saturday Matt had the most company since coming to Parkridge. He was also to go watch some ball and Gordie Howe park, Chad Ekren was playing, but the weather wasn't cooperating. So dad said maybe today they would go if they ever get Matt to wake up. It is 1200 and Matt is still semiconscious. Dad even tried waving mom's hot wings under his nose to no avail. I suppose it is a day of rest!
Saturday Matt had the most company since coming to Parkridge. He was also to go watch some ball and Gordie Howe park, Chad Ekren was playing, but the weather wasn't cooperating. So dad said maybe today they would go if they ever get Matt to wake up. It is 1200 and Matt is still semiconscious. Dad even tried waving mom's hot wings under his nose to no avail. I suppose it is a day of rest!
Friday, June 13, 2008
Not a Great Week
I think being at home for a week took its toll on Matt. Rehab wasn't great this week because he just wasn't feeling well.
Tuesday felt just awful. Said he was so tired. They think it may be some kind of virus he picked up because some other people from the funeral felt the same way (me included!). They have changed the back of Matt's manual wheelchair to make it easier to do his exercises in, but states it feels so uncomfortable. The new back pushes him too far foreword. The manual chair is not made for him in the first place, just borrowed from another quad patient. Maybe have to look in to purchasing one for him (cost is around $8000). Matt still did some rehab in spite of feeling so yucky.
10:30 activities of daily living, such as trying to put his own shirt on, wash his face. Then off to the gym for some arm bike exercises.Did about 15 mins.
1400 tried to walk, just couldn't get those legs or feet to move, but did practice standing
1500 put him to bed because4 he was so tired, but he didn't sleep
1600 up in his power chair
1800 back to bed for the night
Wednesday Matt felt alot better.
100 20 mins arm bike
1100 occupational therapist put more traction on the left wheel
1300 used the sit/stand machine, works better than the previous one but he has to transfer into it, instead of going straight from his chair. So is more difficult and takes 2 people to do it. Has it in his room so can use it whenever he wants however difficult to find enough people to help.
1800 feed himself his supper, which was easy because it was KFC!
Thursday felt lousy again, dry heaving in the am, nauseated and faint. Didn't have any rehab because his therapist was out sick as well.By 6 pm Matt took some gravol and felt 100 times better. Nolan and Lindsay stopped on their way to Weekes and visited for awhile. Dad and Matt played Wii in the afternoon, bowling and baseball. Was up in the manual chair and tried to push himself. It works better with the new grip, but still is very weak and needs to continue to practice.
As the one year anniversary of Matt's accident approaches, he may feel that things are moving too slowly. Romans 8:25 "But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience". Easy for us to say, not having to live Matt's experience except through empathy. But we have all seen great things through Matt, and know that there a many more great things to come. Acts 3:16 "By faith in the name of Jesus, this man whom you see and know was made strong. It is Jesus name and the faith that comes through him that has given this complete healing to him, as you can all see." Now it isn't complete physical healing yet, but having movement in all limbs, breathing on his own, standing for short periods were all things unamaginable almost one year ago. So praise to God for all the blessings.
Tuesday felt just awful. Said he was so tired. They think it may be some kind of virus he picked up because some other people from the funeral felt the same way (me included!). They have changed the back of Matt's manual wheelchair to make it easier to do his exercises in, but states it feels so uncomfortable. The new back pushes him too far foreword. The manual chair is not made for him in the first place, just borrowed from another quad patient. Maybe have to look in to purchasing one for him (cost is around $8000). Matt still did some rehab in spite of feeling so yucky.
10:30 activities of daily living, such as trying to put his own shirt on, wash his face. Then off to the gym for some arm bike exercises.Did about 15 mins.
1400 tried to walk, just couldn't get those legs or feet to move, but did practice standing
1500 put him to bed because4 he was so tired, but he didn't sleep
1600 up in his power chair
1800 back to bed for the night
Wednesday Matt felt alot better.
100 20 mins arm bike
1100 occupational therapist put more traction on the left wheel
1300 used the sit/stand machine, works better than the previous one but he has to transfer into it, instead of going straight from his chair. So is more difficult and takes 2 people to do it. Has it in his room so can use it whenever he wants however difficult to find enough people to help.
1800 feed himself his supper, which was easy because it was KFC!
Thursday felt lousy again, dry heaving in the am, nauseated and faint. Didn't have any rehab because his therapist was out sick as well.By 6 pm Matt took some gravol and felt 100 times better. Nolan and Lindsay stopped on their way to Weekes and visited for awhile. Dad and Matt played Wii in the afternoon, bowling and baseball. Was up in the manual chair and tried to push himself. It works better with the new grip, but still is very weak and needs to continue to practice.
As the one year anniversary of Matt's accident approaches, he may feel that things are moving too slowly. Romans 8:25 "But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience". Easy for us to say, not having to live Matt's experience except through empathy. But we have all seen great things through Matt, and know that there a many more great things to come. Acts 3:16 "By faith in the name of Jesus, this man whom you see and know was made strong. It is Jesus name and the faith that comes through him that has given this complete healing to him, as you can all see." Now it isn't complete physical healing yet, but having movement in all limbs, breathing on his own, standing for short periods were all things unamaginable almost one year ago. So praise to God for all the blessings.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Back To Parkridge
Matt returned to Parkridge safely on Sunday evening. Not sure how he feels about that. On one hand, it is so nice to be home, and on the other hand it is great to be back for rehab.
Yesterday Matt didn't have his meds before rehab and he spasmed quite a bit which makes it difficult to move. But he still did alright considering that he hasn't had any therapy for over a week. The therapist was worried that Matt may have regressed so she did a functional test to see where he is at. Matt is still registering 0 on the left hand but she can feel it is trying to move. She has set some goals for Matt to attain this week. They are not easy goals so Matt will have to work very hard.
1) Eat one meal a day by himself (not including cutting the meat)
2) Walk 50 feet (Matt will walk three times this week)
3) When laying down on his right side, has to push himself up into a sitting position(this will be very difficult, lots of prayers for this one!!)
4) Roll when laying down to both sides (right now Matt does okay from right to left)
So Matt has his work cut out for him. When I asked how he was feeling, states his hands are numb, can hardly grasp anything. Hopefully it is just a transient thing and will be better today. Tried the muscle stimulator on his left arm. He was disappointed with the results, hoping to have more movement, but the movement he had before is still there.
Mom and Matt and quite a laugh over trying to do rehab in the evening in his bed. Mom had tied one of those therabands (the stretchy exercises bands) to the foot of his bed and wanted him to pull with his right hand. Mom should have been in the girl scouts for knot tying lessons because Matt pulled so hard, that the band let go from the foot of the bed and smacked him right in the face!! I sure wish I could have seen that! Purely to be sympathetic, right Matt? Never to laugh! (Giggle, giggle).
Thanks again to all of you who came to visit Matt while he was home, who took the time to chat, or just say hello. So good to see Matt in more of a normal environment for a 21 year old.
1 Peter 5:10 "And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast."
Yesterday Matt didn't have his meds before rehab and he spasmed quite a bit which makes it difficult to move. But he still did alright considering that he hasn't had any therapy for over a week. The therapist was worried that Matt may have regressed so she did a functional test to see where he is at. Matt is still registering 0 on the left hand but she can feel it is trying to move. She has set some goals for Matt to attain this week. They are not easy goals so Matt will have to work very hard.
1) Eat one meal a day by himself (not including cutting the meat)
2) Walk 50 feet (Matt will walk three times this week)
3) When laying down on his right side, has to push himself up into a sitting position(this will be very difficult, lots of prayers for this one!!)
4) Roll when laying down to both sides (right now Matt does okay from right to left)
So Matt has his work cut out for him. When I asked how he was feeling, states his hands are numb, can hardly grasp anything. Hopefully it is just a transient thing and will be better today. Tried the muscle stimulator on his left arm. He was disappointed with the results, hoping to have more movement, but the movement he had before is still there.
Mom and Matt and quite a laugh over trying to do rehab in the evening in his bed. Mom had tied one of those therabands (the stretchy exercises bands) to the foot of his bed and wanted him to pull with his right hand. Mom should have been in the girl scouts for knot tying lessons because Matt pulled so hard, that the band let go from the foot of the bed and smacked him right in the face!! I sure wish I could have seen that! Purely to be sympathetic, right Matt? Never to laugh! (Giggle, giggle).
Thanks again to all of you who came to visit Matt while he was home, who took the time to chat, or just say hello. So good to see Matt in more of a normal environment for a 21 year old.
1 Peter 5:10 "And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast."
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Still In Weekes
Just wanted to give a quick update. the girls and I just returned to Red Deer and are glad to be home. It is quite a drive but the DVD player makes the trip shorter (for the girls!).
Matt has decided to stay in Weekes until Sunday. He has been off his sleeping pill since returning home and is sleeping well. It took him a couple of days but has adapted to being without a "bedtime" helper to sleep.
Tuesday was a sad day with Grandma's funeral but was nice to see so many of the family. Loved to reminisce about all the times spent together and how much Grandma meant to all of us, young and more mature (I didn't want to say older because I would be getting some phone calls!). Matt didn't have a great day physically. His neck was bothering him alot and his limbs felt like they were in glue. He could hardly move at all. Usually he says they feel like they are in jello, so was more unusual. We put him down for a nap in the afternoon and woke up feeling somewhat better.
Wednesday Matt was feeling much better and said he had such a good sleep. Dad and I took him uptown for coffee and he played 6 games of crib with the guys. Then Nolan, Lindsay, and I took Matt to Weekes Hotel for wings. As anyone from Weekes knows, that is the only place to go for some food so off we went. Matt sure enjoyed the food and was able to visit with some of his friends that came to visit. I chaperoned to make sure he didn't bug the waitresses too much. I also helped him out with certain aspects of care that needed attention. So all in all was a good night.
Thanks for everyone who gave food, cards, gifts, their time and prayers for Grandma's funeral. It will always be remembered.
Matt has decided to stay in Weekes until Sunday. He has been off his sleeping pill since returning home and is sleeping well. It took him a couple of days but has adapted to being without a "bedtime" helper to sleep.
Tuesday was a sad day with Grandma's funeral but was nice to see so many of the family. Loved to reminisce about all the times spent together and how much Grandma meant to all of us, young and more mature (I didn't want to say older because I would be getting some phone calls!). Matt didn't have a great day physically. His neck was bothering him alot and his limbs felt like they were in glue. He could hardly move at all. Usually he says they feel like they are in jello, so was more unusual. We put him down for a nap in the afternoon and woke up feeling somewhat better.
Wednesday Matt was feeling much better and said he had such a good sleep. Dad and I took him uptown for coffee and he played 6 games of crib with the guys. Then Nolan, Lindsay, and I took Matt to Weekes Hotel for wings. As anyone from Weekes knows, that is the only place to go for some food so off we went. Matt sure enjoyed the food and was able to visit with some of his friends that came to visit. I chaperoned to make sure he didn't bug the waitresses too much. I also helped him out with certain aspects of care that needed attention. So all in all was a good night.
Thanks for everyone who gave food, cards, gifts, their time and prayers for Grandma's funeral. It will always be remembered.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
In Weekes
Matt and Dad travelled to Weekes on Saturday to be with the family. Jacki, Gary and kids are there and we will be travelling tomorrow, as will Nolan and Lindsay. Thanks to much for everyone's kind words on the blog. Even through our sorrow, meeting with the family to talk to each other and lean on their shoulders always helps the grieving process. Lamentations 3 "Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love."
The move to ward C4 is complete with Matt saying everything went smoothly. There are no younger people on this floor so that may be a challenge. However all of the patients are just respite for either a fractured hip, recovering from a stroke, and most will be going home after their stay. I couldn't even tell Matt had moved because the background on skype looked the same.
Matt did some therapy at Parkridge on Thursday. Did some mat exercises. He was surprised that he can get his knee to his face if the therapist helps him start the bend in his knee. Of course with those long legs he could touch the ceiling! Matt also noted his back is getting stronger. He was very encouraged when they sat him up on the mat, if they situated his hands beside him just right, he could sit up by himself for quite awhile. They even tried to overbalance him a little, and he could straighten himself out. But Matt finds his lower back is stiff and numb, a very strange feeling he couldn't quite explain. Matt was also able to do the arm bike for 10 mins.
Not sure when I will be able to do the blog again. Mom and dad don't have a computer. But will try to find the way to keep everyone updated.
The move to ward C4 is complete with Matt saying everything went smoothly. There are no younger people on this floor so that may be a challenge. However all of the patients are just respite for either a fractured hip, recovering from a stroke, and most will be going home after their stay. I couldn't even tell Matt had moved because the background on skype looked the same.
Matt did some therapy at Parkridge on Thursday. Did some mat exercises. He was surprised that he can get his knee to his face if the therapist helps him start the bend in his knee. Of course with those long legs he could touch the ceiling! Matt also noted his back is getting stronger. He was very encouraged when they sat him up on the mat, if they situated his hands beside him just right, he could sit up by himself for quite awhile. They even tried to overbalance him a little, and he could straighten himself out. But Matt finds his lower back is stiff and numb, a very strange feeling he couldn't quite explain. Matt was also able to do the arm bike for 10 mins.
Not sure when I will be able to do the blog again. Mom and dad don't have a computer. But will try to find the way to keep everyone updated.
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Sad Passing
Just wanted to write of the passing away of Matt's grandma today. It was inevitable but it doesn't diminish the pain. The funeral will be sometime next week and Matt and dad will travel home. Mom will be organizing the funeral preparations so will be kept busy. Most of the brothers and sisters were home prior to grandma's passing.
Please add an extra prayer for the family and their grieving.
Job 19:25-27 "I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth. And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God. I myself will see him with my own eyes-I , and not another. How my heart yearns within me!"
Please add an extra prayer for the family and their grieving.
Job 19:25-27 "I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth. And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God. I myself will see him with my own eyes-I , and not another. How my heart yearns within me!"
Another Move
It has been a roller coaster week. In Weekes mom has been busy at the hospital with Grandma, who isn't doing very well and all the kids are home. In Saskatoon, Matt will be moved to a new floor at the nursing home. Currently Matt is on C2, which is the long term ward. Now he will be moved to C4, which is the short term stay ward. Because of the transient nature of the floor, the staff may be quite different and unsure whether that may cause some difficulties. However I am sure with Matt's positive disposition and attitude he will do just fine. Also Matt will no longer be going to City rehab and will have rehab exclusively at Parkridge. When I talked to Matt last night he sounded okay about the whole thing and said that the rehab staff are going to focus on building up what movement he has. They will guarantee one day a week of standing, but their main focus will be on strengthening. So prayers that the move will be as good as all the others. I think Matt likes the thought of "short stay" and that he will be coming home. The short stay is for 90 days which will take us into August.
Monday Matt got a new cushion for his chair. It is called a ride cushion and is much harder then his previous one to prevent pressure sores and to ease his movement while in the chair, such as moving his butt and repositioning himself. He doesn't like it because his butt doesn't have much padding. But time will tell. Maybe it will be uncomfortable enough to make him change positions on his own! I was quite impressed when talking to Matt on Skype that he could lift a 710 ml plastic bottle full of pop quite easily. He can't lift a coffee mug, as his fingers don't have enough strength to hold the handle. But finds he can grip the plastic bottles quite nicely. Worked out in the gym on the upper tone machine and practiced on the mat. Did really well with his bridge, can hold himself quite awhile. While he was here, he did the bridges while in bed but was harder on a soft surface. He also practiced moving his legs from side to side by having his knees bent. He could do about 70% of the movement without help.
Tuesday Matt really concentrated on moving his left hand. He feels there is improvement but it is slow. Worked with the dumbbells and practiced in his manual wheelchair. He said the new grip system works great but felt really tired all day. He didn't get up until 1030 and went back to bed at 2 pm, then slept until 5 pm.
Wednesday Matt went to City to practice standing and walking. He was able to go about 25 feet. When he walks, he still cannot lift his foot off the ground so it is more of shuffling gait. This time he was able to actually lift his right foot off the ground 2-3 times. Matt continues to wear the brace on his left leg and the curling slider on both feet to aid in movement.
Prayers for strength at home and strength in Saskatoon. Isaiah 40:29-31 "He gives strength to the weary, and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Monday Matt got a new cushion for his chair. It is called a ride cushion and is much harder then his previous one to prevent pressure sores and to ease his movement while in the chair, such as moving his butt and repositioning himself. He doesn't like it because his butt doesn't have much padding. But time will tell. Maybe it will be uncomfortable enough to make him change positions on his own! I was quite impressed when talking to Matt on Skype that he could lift a 710 ml plastic bottle full of pop quite easily. He can't lift a coffee mug, as his fingers don't have enough strength to hold the handle. But finds he can grip the plastic bottles quite nicely. Worked out in the gym on the upper tone machine and practiced on the mat. Did really well with his bridge, can hold himself quite awhile. While he was here, he did the bridges while in bed but was harder on a soft surface. He also practiced moving his legs from side to side by having his knees bent. He could do about 70% of the movement without help.
Tuesday Matt really concentrated on moving his left hand. He feels there is improvement but it is slow. Worked with the dumbbells and practiced in his manual wheelchair. He said the new grip system works great but felt really tired all day. He didn't get up until 1030 and went back to bed at 2 pm, then slept until 5 pm.
Wednesday Matt went to City to practice standing and walking. He was able to go about 25 feet. When he walks, he still cannot lift his foot off the ground so it is more of shuffling gait. This time he was able to actually lift his right foot off the ground 2-3 times. Matt continues to wear the brace on his left leg and the curling slider on both feet to aid in movement.
Prayers for strength at home and strength in Saskatoon. Isaiah 40:29-31 "He gives strength to the weary, and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Lots to catch up on. We were away for the weekend and I wasn't able to do the blog so I hope everyone enjoys the new pictures.
Thursday Matt wasn't feeling very well, felt like he couldn't eat anything. He went to bed at 6:30 pm, woke up at 8:30, then went back to bed at midnight and slept until 1030 in the morning. All that travelling and visiting. Matt sill managed to do some arm bike therapy and push his wheelchair a bit, but wasn't feeling strong and didn't do well. Mom returned back to work.
On Friday Matt went to City for standing exercises. They tried it without the brace on his left leg, like we did in Red Deer. But he can't walk without the brace yet. IN order to stand without the brace, the therapists put bands around his feet and lower legs to stop him from spasming. While in Red Deer, we had 4 people to hold him up and hold his lower legs, but at City they only have 2 people so it is much harder. Went outside for awhile. Temperature was above 20 degrees but windy.
They brought over a new standing machine to Parkridge just for Matt. They were very excited until they realized it was too short. It is built for a 6 foot 5 inch person and Matt is 6 foot 7. The band that is supposed to fit across his chest fits exactly at his diaphragm, so he can't breathe. Too bad. It would have been great.
This weekend was pretty boring. Dad was doing modification s on his manual wheelchair to make it easier for his hands to grip the wheel. So they are hoping to have it ready tomorrow.
Matt has shown such patience in his new normal. James 5:11 "As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy."
Thursday Matt wasn't feeling very well, felt like he couldn't eat anything. He went to bed at 6:30 pm, woke up at 8:30, then went back to bed at midnight and slept until 1030 in the morning. All that travelling and visiting. Matt sill managed to do some arm bike therapy and push his wheelchair a bit, but wasn't feeling strong and didn't do well. Mom returned back to work.
On Friday Matt went to City for standing exercises. They tried it without the brace on his left leg, like we did in Red Deer. But he can't walk without the brace yet. IN order to stand without the brace, the therapists put bands around his feet and lower legs to stop him from spasming. While in Red Deer, we had 4 people to hold him up and hold his lower legs, but at City they only have 2 people so it is much harder. Went outside for awhile. Temperature was above 20 degrees but windy.
They brought over a new standing machine to Parkridge just for Matt. They were very excited until they realized it was too short. It is built for a 6 foot 5 inch person and Matt is 6 foot 7. The band that is supposed to fit across his chest fits exactly at his diaphragm, so he can't breathe. Too bad. It would have been great.
This weekend was pretty boring. Dad was doing modification s on his manual wheelchair to make it easier for his hands to grip the wheel. So they are hoping to have it ready tomorrow.
Matt has shown such patience in his new normal. James 5:11 "As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy."
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Back To Parkridge
Well, the house is all quiet. Matt, mom and dad went back to Saskatoon yesterday. It was such a flurry of activity that no one had time to be sad. It was raining heavily so Matt had to wait until the rain subsided until they loaded him up. The trip was long and Matt's neck was very sore. He told me if anyone has a neck they could loan him, to let us know!!
We didn't get to do many of the things we had planned. The weather did not cooperate Tuesday and we missed the ball game. But overall I think Matt enjoyed it. We did things a little unorthodox but he found out that he wasn't as fragile as he thought. We were very impressed with him on Monday night when we told him to push himself in his chair. He didn't think he could do it but with his gloves on for grip, he wheeled himself around my kitchen, and we only had to put his left hand back on the wheel when it came off a few times. Also he could use just his left arm/hand to turn the chair by pushing on the wheel. Very proud of you Matt. Just last week he couldn't do it that well and now I even video taped his accomplishment. Not sure how to get it on the blog though, have to wait until John has a free moment.
Thanks for all the continued prayers and good thoughts. Hope everyone has a great long weekend.
We didn't get to do many of the things we had planned. The weather did not cooperate Tuesday and we missed the ball game. But overall I think Matt enjoyed it. We did things a little unorthodox but he found out that he wasn't as fragile as he thought. We were very impressed with him on Monday night when we told him to push himself in his chair. He didn't think he could do it but with his gloves on for grip, he wheeled himself around my kitchen, and we only had to put his left hand back on the wheel when it came off a few times. Also he could use just his left arm/hand to turn the chair by pushing on the wheel. Very proud of you Matt. Just last week he couldn't do it that well and now I even video taped his accomplishment. Not sure how to get it on the blog though, have to wait until John has a free moment.
Thanks for all the continued prayers and good thoughts. Hope everyone has a great long weekend.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Enjoying the Stay
I think Matt has enjoyed the stay so much he wants to stay an extra day. Tonight if the weather stays decent we will go a watch a ball game in town.
Sunday we stayed around the house. It was more of a relaxing day except in the kitchen, which is constanly on the go. Airene and her friend came and did more physio with Matt. He asked how come it lasts 2 1/2 hours and we told him that it was good for him. I think he disagreed. He was feeling pretty stiff afterwards. Matt stayed up in his manual chair all day. Played some more Wii in the evening. Matt beat Gary and someone was sulking! Matt was pretty tired but still didn't go to bed until midnight. Slept well.
Monday Jacki, Gary and the kids left and so did Nolan and Lindsay. We didn't have much time to recover and we had more company from Edmonton. Auntie Ardis, Uncle Ken, Aunt Evelyn and Uncle Hughie came down to visit. Thank goodness because Uncle Ken helped me plant the garden. Matt again stayed up in his manual chair. No standing exercises today but we did practice using a board to transfer Matt from the chair to the bed. He does help out enought to get him transferred nicely, but the rest of the supportive crew spend too much time giggling they are useless!! We had a game of dice and crib, then had to stop for a hot wing break.
Thanks for everyone who reads the blog and keeps up on all Matt's happenings. We will write more tonight.
Sunday we stayed around the house. It was more of a relaxing day except in the kitchen, which is constanly on the go. Airene and her friend came and did more physio with Matt. He asked how come it lasts 2 1/2 hours and we told him that it was good for him. I think he disagreed. He was feeling pretty stiff afterwards. Matt stayed up in his manual chair all day. Played some more Wii in the evening. Matt beat Gary and someone was sulking! Matt was pretty tired but still didn't go to bed until midnight. Slept well.
Monday Jacki, Gary and the kids left and so did Nolan and Lindsay. We didn't have much time to recover and we had more company from Edmonton. Auntie Ardis, Uncle Ken, Aunt Evelyn and Uncle Hughie came down to visit. Thank goodness because Uncle Ken helped me plant the garden. Matt again stayed up in his manual chair. No standing exercises today but we did practice using a board to transfer Matt from the chair to the bed. He does help out enought to get him transferred nicely, but the rest of the supportive crew spend too much time giggling they are useless!! We had a game of dice and crib, then had to stop for a hot wing break.
Thanks for everyone who reads the blog and keeps up on all Matt's happenings. We will write more tonight.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Busy Day
We had a late night last night and I don't think tonight will be any different. Right now we are having a fishing tournament and let me tell you, it is not easy (coming from someone who cannot do computer simulated fishing!).
Matt woke up late this morning so the day didn't really start for him until 1130 but it was full bore the rest of the time. Our nanny Airene and her friend came to give Matt a workout (they are both physiotherapists). They worked on him for 2 1/2 hours and Matt was exhausted. First with four people we were able to get Matt to stand. It is like holding a tree in the wind and trying to prevent it from blowing down. After the workout Matt had to take a nap because the heat of the day (30 degrees) and the excitement, he was exhausted.
After he woke up we spent the remainder of the day outside. Every time someone would go past Matt, they would make him do something, such as throw a Frisbee, toss a ball, kick his legs, etc. Even tonight he is really tired but we are still bugging him. I think he is ready to go back to Parkridge! But he enjoyed the homemade hamburgers, sausage, baked potatoes, and corn.
We are sure enjoying having Matt here. Jacki and Gary came with the kids, Nolan and Lindsay are here as well. Grandma and Grandpa are enjoying the grand kids (and Jacki and I are enjoying that!).
Thanks for all the prayers and thoughts. More good things to come I am sure. It is a far cry from Christmas. So much to be thankful for. 1 Cor 15:57 "But thanks be to God, He gives us the victory through the Lord Jesus Christ".
Matt woke up late this morning so the day didn't really start for him until 1130 but it was full bore the rest of the time. Our nanny Airene and her friend came to give Matt a workout (they are both physiotherapists). They worked on him for 2 1/2 hours and Matt was exhausted. First with four people we were able to get Matt to stand. It is like holding a tree in the wind and trying to prevent it from blowing down. After the workout Matt had to take a nap because the heat of the day (30 degrees) and the excitement, he was exhausted.
After he woke up we spent the remainder of the day outside. Every time someone would go past Matt, they would make him do something, such as throw a Frisbee, toss a ball, kick his legs, etc. Even tonight he is really tired but we are still bugging him. I think he is ready to go back to Parkridge! But he enjoyed the homemade hamburgers, sausage, baked potatoes, and corn.
We are sure enjoying having Matt here. Jacki and Gary came with the kids, Nolan and Lindsay are here as well. Grandma and Grandpa are enjoying the grand kids (and Jacki and I are enjoying that!).
Thanks for all the prayers and thoughts. More good things to come I am sure. It is a far cry from Christmas. So much to be thankful for. 1 Cor 15:57 "But thanks be to God, He gives us the victory through the Lord Jesus Christ".
THEY MADE IT!
Just wanted to write a quick note to let everyone know that Mom, Dad and Matt made it safe and sound. They arrived at 9 pm and everything worked out great. The first part of the trip Matt was overheating until they realized that the heater was on! The wind really put a dent in their fuel consumption but other then that it was alright.
Nolan and Lindsay came down to help get everything unloaded and help get Matt settled. The ramp is a little short so it takes four people to make sure he doesn't tip backwards, the incline is so steep. I was able to get a lift, bed, mattress, special duvet mattress, and a Sara lift (sit/stand machine) for free through a great organization called Lending Cupboard. They receive donations from people, service the machines and make sure everything is in working order and then supply it free of charge. So all there is is the cost for transporting it to and from the organization outlet.
Thanks for all the prayers and thoughts. We are truly blessed to have such a wonderful support group out there. So if anyone is in Red Deer this weekend, swing by. We have enough food to feed a small country!
Nolan and Lindsay came down to help get everything unloaded and help get Matt settled. The ramp is a little short so it takes four people to make sure he doesn't tip backwards, the incline is so steep. I was able to get a lift, bed, mattress, special duvet mattress, and a Sara lift (sit/stand machine) for free through a great organization called Lending Cupboard. They receive donations from people, service the machines and make sure everything is in working order and then supply it free of charge. So all there is is the cost for transporting it to and from the organization outlet.
Thanks for all the prayers and thoughts. We are truly blessed to have such a wonderful support group out there. So if anyone is in Red Deer this weekend, swing by. We have enough food to feed a small country!
Friday, May 16, 2008
The Trip Is On!!
I have been waiting on pins and needles to see if they were going to make it to Red Deer. Mom just phoned and said they are on their way! A few tense moments waiting to see if the van would be done in time. They were supposed to be here yesterday but the van wasn't ready. So today Matt was able to get a bath before leaving which is great so no stinky boys (except John, Gary and Nolan).
So now I can do an update on the weeks events.
Wednesday was another good day. Matt was able to walk 50 feet with of course lots of help. The right leg again goes pretty good on its own with plenty of encouragement and a few shoves and pulls. The left was able to go about 3 steps and then wants to quit. But all in all great progress. I asked Matt how he is doing when he tries to stand up and he estimates he does about 20% of the work. The legs don't help too much, those quads are just too weak. But he tries to pull himself up using his right hand on the bar. And that arm is coming along nicely. When Matt tried the upper tone machine he could pull 20 lbs 3 times, then he went down to 10 lbs. And the left is improving. It can actually pull 2.2 lbs. Now to explain the upper tone machine, it has 3 levels of weight training, full, medium, and close. Think of it as a stick with weights on it. If the 2 lb weight is at the end of the stick, it is harder to lift. If you bring the weight more to the middle of the stick it is a little easier and if you bring it closer to your hand, the stick with the same weight is easiest to lift. So Matt's left hand was able to lift that 2.2lbs in the middle, and with the right he is at the end of the stick. At occupational therapy they are really focusing on Matt moving himself in the chair to reposition himself. Takes quite a bit of strength and so will practice when he gets here. We have all kinds of things planned for him. Matt may be wishing he had stayed at Saskatoon!!
Thursday Matt had missed his morning rehab because he was too tired, so mom made him do his "homework" all day! Next time you'll get up, right Matt? In the afternoon, Matt had a pizza and Wii party at City, courtesy of Paul Gustafson and the rehab staff. Rocky, Barett, and Matt played games and Matt "caught' a 12 lb fish. I think it was the only fish he has ever caught. No wait, that was Nolan! When Matt and Nolan went fishing with dad when they were young, Matt kept catching fish and Nolan caught nothing. So Nolan made Matt change rods with him, and Matt then caught a whopper on Nolan's rod and Nolan caught seaweed!
Prayers for the long trip here and for a safe journey. I will use my favorite verse proverbs 3:5 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; lean not on your own understanding; in all ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."
So now I can do an update on the weeks events.
Wednesday was another good day. Matt was able to walk 50 feet with of course lots of help. The right leg again goes pretty good on its own with plenty of encouragement and a few shoves and pulls. The left was able to go about 3 steps and then wants to quit. But all in all great progress. I asked Matt how he is doing when he tries to stand up and he estimates he does about 20% of the work. The legs don't help too much, those quads are just too weak. But he tries to pull himself up using his right hand on the bar. And that arm is coming along nicely. When Matt tried the upper tone machine he could pull 20 lbs 3 times, then he went down to 10 lbs. And the left is improving. It can actually pull 2.2 lbs. Now to explain the upper tone machine, it has 3 levels of weight training, full, medium, and close. Think of it as a stick with weights on it. If the 2 lb weight is at the end of the stick, it is harder to lift. If you bring the weight more to the middle of the stick it is a little easier and if you bring it closer to your hand, the stick with the same weight is easiest to lift. So Matt's left hand was able to lift that 2.2lbs in the middle, and with the right he is at the end of the stick. At occupational therapy they are really focusing on Matt moving himself in the chair to reposition himself. Takes quite a bit of strength and so will practice when he gets here. We have all kinds of things planned for him. Matt may be wishing he had stayed at Saskatoon!!
Thursday Matt had missed his morning rehab because he was too tired, so mom made him do his "homework" all day! Next time you'll get up, right Matt? In the afternoon, Matt had a pizza and Wii party at City, courtesy of Paul Gustafson and the rehab staff. Rocky, Barett, and Matt played games and Matt "caught' a 12 lb fish. I think it was the only fish he has ever caught. No wait, that was Nolan! When Matt and Nolan went fishing with dad when they were young, Matt kept catching fish and Nolan caught nothing. So Nolan made Matt change rods with him, and Matt then caught a whopper on Nolan's rod and Nolan caught seaweed!
Prayers for the long trip here and for a safe journey. I will use my favorite verse proverbs 3:5 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; lean not on your own understanding; in all ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
New Machine
They are always trying new things with Matt to try and improve his current abilities.And you can really tell. When I watch him on the webcam, I ask him to move his right arm and he does it so much easier and with greater range of motion. The physio is really focusing on his mobility and taking his movements to the max and spends less time on weight training. So he may not be able to lift as much, but he can move so much better.
Monday Matt spent the day in his electric wheelchair. As much as Matt wants to be in his manual, he is unable to do his exercises in it. The back is high and wraps around him like a seat of a sports car, so he can't pull his arm back when he does the arm bike. Matt went outside for quite a bit and was proud to show me the beginnings of a tan. He has been eating spitz like crazy which makes him stay outside longer. He can grab the spitz out of the bag himself, however his hands are too big to get them out of the bag. So dad pours the spitz into a cup which Matt grabs and he can pour the quantity he wants into his mouth(which is usually alot!). Spent 1 1/2 hours in therapy doing the arm bike and pulleys.
Today was another beautiful day, maybe not with sunshine but was still warm. They made the trip to City for rehab and they tried Matt in a machine that he stands in, but doesn't do any walking. It is on a stand with wheels, and they strap Matt's upper body in and his legs rest against a cushioned area in the front. It can be moved around the room, so Matt can remain standing and go other places. It would be a great machine to have at home to gain muscle in his legs when he visits. He didn't stand long today, just getting used to the new machine. Felt like he was tipping to the right all the time. Also worked out in the gym on the stepper, however wasn't very successful because he had tired himself out on the stand machine. Matt is finding his left arm is getting stronger, the dexterity is slow but the pushing/ pulling movement is coming. Neck is feeling better because he just got a massage.
Lots of prayers for the van to be road worthy for the long trip. Dad is quite concerned but Matt really wants to come and just visit with family and have a different change of pace. Nothing is too great for God when you put your trust in Him. Psalms 56:4 "In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid."
Monday Matt spent the day in his electric wheelchair. As much as Matt wants to be in his manual, he is unable to do his exercises in it. The back is high and wraps around him like a seat of a sports car, so he can't pull his arm back when he does the arm bike. Matt went outside for quite a bit and was proud to show me the beginnings of a tan. He has been eating spitz like crazy which makes him stay outside longer. He can grab the spitz out of the bag himself, however his hands are too big to get them out of the bag. So dad pours the spitz into a cup which Matt grabs and he can pour the quantity he wants into his mouth(which is usually alot!). Spent 1 1/2 hours in therapy doing the arm bike and pulleys.
Today was another beautiful day, maybe not with sunshine but was still warm. They made the trip to City for rehab and they tried Matt in a machine that he stands in, but doesn't do any walking. It is on a stand with wheels, and they strap Matt's upper body in and his legs rest against a cushioned area in the front. It can be moved around the room, so Matt can remain standing and go other places. It would be a great machine to have at home to gain muscle in his legs when he visits. He didn't stand long today, just getting used to the new machine. Felt like he was tipping to the right all the time. Also worked out in the gym on the stepper, however wasn't very successful because he had tired himself out on the stand machine. Matt is finding his left arm is getting stronger, the dexterity is slow but the pushing/ pulling movement is coming. Neck is feeling better because he just got a massage.
Lots of prayers for the van to be road worthy for the long trip. Dad is quite concerned but Matt really wants to come and just visit with family and have a different change of pace. Nothing is too great for God when you put your trust in Him. Psalms 56:4 "In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I will not be afraid."
Sunday, May 11, 2008
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
Hope everyone remembered their Mothers on their special day. Matt was quite funny actually. I was at Jacki's this weekend celebrating Bobby's 3rd birthday and Matt wanted to know if we had got mom anything. We had all said what we had gotten her and Matt was just chomping at the bit wanting to say what he had gotten her. He had phoned the florist in Porcupine for flowers and had arranged for Auntie Karen to pick them up for mom. But the best part is they were 21 different color roses, one for every year since he was born. It made me tear up a little. Much better then my gift!
I must back track quite a bit, time just seems to fly and I can't seem to find a few quiet moments to do the blog. Thursday Matt didn't have therapy until 4 pm and really focused on the bike machine. He had slept in until 11am, but said he had slept well all night as well so his body obviously needed a rest.
Friday Matt again did the arm bike for 20 min and was up in his manual chair all day. His neck gets really sore but he is determined to do it. When he tries to propel his wheelchair, the biggest obstacle is his left arm. If dad puts Matt's arm and hand in the proper position on the wheel, Matt can move forward. however he can't lift up his left arm back on the wheel. Also when he pushes with his arms, his muscles in his neck stretch a bit and he begins to spasm. So slow progress but with alot of practice, I am sure it will come.
Saturday Matt was again in his manual chair and went outside for the beautiful weather. Dad and him went to the local Co-op store and treated himself to the summer goodies of beef jerky and sunflower seeds. As soon as it is warm enough to go outside with a light jacket there is always an urgent need for spits!
Proverbs 23:25-26 "May your father and mother be glad; may she who gave you birth rejoice! My son, give me your heart and let your eyes keep to my ways."
I must back track quite a bit, time just seems to fly and I can't seem to find a few quiet moments to do the blog. Thursday Matt didn't have therapy until 4 pm and really focused on the bike machine. He had slept in until 11am, but said he had slept well all night as well so his body obviously needed a rest.
Friday Matt again did the arm bike for 20 min and was up in his manual chair all day. His neck gets really sore but he is determined to do it. When he tries to propel his wheelchair, the biggest obstacle is his left arm. If dad puts Matt's arm and hand in the proper position on the wheel, Matt can move forward. however he can't lift up his left arm back on the wheel. Also when he pushes with his arms, his muscles in his neck stretch a bit and he begins to spasm. So slow progress but with alot of practice, I am sure it will come.
Saturday Matt was again in his manual chair and went outside for the beautiful weather. Dad and him went to the local Co-op store and treated himself to the summer goodies of beef jerky and sunflower seeds. As soon as it is warm enough to go outside with a light jacket there is always an urgent need for spits!
Proverbs 23:25-26 "May your father and mother be glad; may she who gave you birth rejoice! My son, give me your heart and let your eyes keep to my ways."
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Still Hoping
Still praying that Matt will make it to Alberta next weekend. The van is unavailable for comment on its condition so we will wait and see.
Monday Matt does rehab just in Parkridge. Dad wanted to see how Matt would do in the manual wheelchair. As nice as the electric chair is, it really doesn't help Matt with improving his strength and dexterity. So they put Matt in the manual and dad asked Matt if he could move it. Couldn't lift his left hand so dad put the left hand on the wheel and again asked him to move it. Wouldn't you know that he moved the chair a little bit. The biggest problem was lack of grip strength so dad will take it tomorrow and see what the physio? department can rig up to make it easier. Matt did stay in that chair all day, however dad had to push him around so Matt loses a bit of independence. At least dad can keep up with him! Able to do the arm bike for 25 mins with slight tension. They are hoping to have it so if someone is with him and the machine is free, he could exercise whenever he wants.
Tuesday was rehab at City. The stepper didn't work out so well but Matt did great with the upper body tone machine. They also tried him with the Saskpole again, but they had made an error on meds and he was really dopey, felt his head was too fuzzy. So try again next week.
Today dad didn't go with to City for rehab, he sent a stand in. Krista, the RN from RUH went with and said Matt had a great day. They did his standing and walking exercises. Matt walked (not on his own) 25 feet. When I talked to him tonight he told me that his right leg did it on its own without any help but his left could do about 2-3 steps and needed constant persuasion. The left foot has a curling slider on it so he doesn't have to lift it, and his toes want to curl down all the time so they rigged up a rubber band (like those exercise bands) to hold his foot up(a physio therapist has to hold it the whole time). Matt feels soon he may be able to go without the brace, feels stronger in his left he may be able to hold his own weight. But we will wait and see.
Leaps and bounds, Matt. Leaps and bounds!! I get so excited to think of all the progress you have made since Christmas. God has truly been listening to pour prayers and knows what is best for you. When you lay all your burdens at His feet, He loves you even more for putting your complete trust in Him.
Monday Matt does rehab just in Parkridge. Dad wanted to see how Matt would do in the manual wheelchair. As nice as the electric chair is, it really doesn't help Matt with improving his strength and dexterity. So they put Matt in the manual and dad asked Matt if he could move it. Couldn't lift his left hand so dad put the left hand on the wheel and again asked him to move it. Wouldn't you know that he moved the chair a little bit. The biggest problem was lack of grip strength so dad will take it tomorrow and see what the physio? department can rig up to make it easier. Matt did stay in that chair all day, however dad had to push him around so Matt loses a bit of independence. At least dad can keep up with him! Able to do the arm bike for 25 mins with slight tension. They are hoping to have it so if someone is with him and the machine is free, he could exercise whenever he wants.
Tuesday was rehab at City. The stepper didn't work out so well but Matt did great with the upper body tone machine. They also tried him with the Saskpole again, but they had made an error on meds and he was really dopey, felt his head was too fuzzy. So try again next week.
Today dad didn't go with to City for rehab, he sent a stand in. Krista, the RN from RUH went with and said Matt had a great day. They did his standing and walking exercises. Matt walked (not on his own) 25 feet. When I talked to him tonight he told me that his right leg did it on its own without any help but his left could do about 2-3 steps and needed constant persuasion. The left foot has a curling slider on it so he doesn't have to lift it, and his toes want to curl down all the time so they rigged up a rubber band (like those exercise bands) to hold his foot up(a physio therapist has to hold it the whole time). Matt feels soon he may be able to go without the brace, feels stronger in his left he may be able to hold his own weight. But we will wait and see.
Leaps and bounds, Matt. Leaps and bounds!! I get so excited to think of all the progress you have made since Christmas. God has truly been listening to pour prayers and knows what is best for you. When you lay all your burdens at His feet, He loves you even more for putting your complete trust in Him.
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